How To Help Your Children Who Are Affected By Narcissists

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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One of the saddest aspects of narcissistic abuse is our children can suffer. Sadly when narcissists are trying to hurt and discredit their ex-partners in every shape or form, children can be used as ammunition and get caught in the cross-fire. This can leave us dismayed, and in deep disbelief when we view the narcissist as having no conscience when it comes to the treatment of the children. When he or she has no issue with involving them, using them as pawns, and actually enjoys trying to turn the children against the ex-partner. (more…)

One of the saddest aspects of narcissistic abuse is our children can suffer.

Sadly when narcissists are trying to hurt and discredit their ex-partners in every shape or form, children can be used as ammunition and get caught in the cross-fire.

This can leave us dismayed, and in deep disbelief when we view the narcissist as having no conscience when it comes to the treatment of the children. When he or she has no issue with involving them, using them as pawns, and actually enjoys trying to turn the children against the ex-partner.

How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 2

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Hello! I hope you enjoyed Part One of “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It”. If you haven’t seen it yet please do so before watching this video. I am really excited about Part Two, because it will grant you an even deeper understanding of narcissistic abuse, and how it has affected you. After watching Part Two you will learn the following - (more…)

Hello!

I hope you enjoyed Part One of “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It”. If you haven’t seen it yet please do so before watching this video.

I am really excited about Part Two, because it will grant you an even deeper understanding of narcissistic abuse, and how it has affected you.

After watching Part Two you will learn the following –

How To Inspire Commitment and Love In Your Relationship

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Lately I have received many emails and messages from women having problems with knowing if their partner is going to commit to them and love them. The emails, clients and friends struggling with this has been overwhelming, so I decided to write this article and recorded a radio show “How To Inspire Real Love” on Empowered Love Radio. You can listen to the show here (more…)

Lately I have received many emails and messages from women having problems with knowing if their partner is going to commit to them and love them.

The emails, clients and friends struggling with this has been overwhelming, so I decided to write this article and recorded a radio show “How To Inspire Real Love” on Empowered Love Radio.

You can listen to the show here

How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 1

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I’m very excited! The video series I have been working on in the background for the last few months called “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It” is complete, and today part one is released. By the end of this series you will understand what has occurred to you energetically as a result of narcissistic abuse,  and how you can use this knowledge to start recovering faster than you could have ever imagined. Part one of this series lays the foundation to understand: (more…)

I’m very excited!

The video series I have been working on in the background for the last few months called “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It” is complete, and today part one is released.

By the end of this series you will understand what has occurred to you energetically as a result of narcissistic abuse,  and how you can use this knowledge to start recovering faster than you could have ever imagined.

Part one of this series lays the foundation to understand:

How to Make the Narcissist Powerless to Affect Your Life

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Have you been in a situation where you were completely obsessed, terrorised and emotionally crippled with the fear of what the narcissist was going to do next, and then your worst fears came true? The smear campaign hit with maximum effect, the phone call to your boss discrediting you happened, and the threat the narcissist was holding over you was executed with ruthless intensity. Or… (more…)

Have you been in a situation where you were completely obsessed, terrorised and emotionally crippled with the fear of what the narcissist was going to do next, and then your worst fears came true?

The smear campaign hit with maximum effect, the phone call to your boss discrediting you happened, and the threat the narcissist was holding over you was executed with ruthless intensity.

Or…

Holding On To Resentment Makes You Powerless

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Most of us know what it is like to feel angry, resentful and even to have strong feelings of hate towards someone. These feelings may only last a short time, or you may have been carrying these feelings for years. By holding resentment towards other people you are effectively shifting the blame onto someone else. “The reason for my unsatisfying experience is because of his or her actions.” This stifles the healing process, because when we make it someone else’s job to provide us with love, support and safety then we have to wait for them to fix it for us. This leaves us powerless… (more…)

Most of us know what it is like to feel angry, resentful and even to have strong feelings of hate towards someone.

These feelings may only last a short time, or you may have been carrying these feelings for years.

By holding resentment towards other people you are effectively shifting the blame onto someone else. “The reason for my unsatisfying experience is because of his or her actions.”

This stifles the healing process, because when we make it someone else’s job to provide us with love, support and safety then we have to wait for them to fix it for us. This leaves us powerless…