A lot of people have asked me to write an article on triangulation because it is a very common tactic that narcissists use to inflict abuse.
Most of the people in this community have suffered triangulation, as I also have personally.
There is already a great deal on the internet about triangulation, and I know many of you have read this information, however I really wanted to feel into this and understand and convey the dynamics of triangulation on a deeper level.
Truly…I hear this question all the time…
Even people on the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program can agonise with this question.
This is how they present it to me…
“Melanie please tell me WHY I shouldn’t hold him / her accountable!” and,
“WHY shouldn’t he / she PAY from what he / she did?!” Continue reading “Shouldn’t We Make The Narcissist Accountable?”
Who is our Inner Child? What is our ego? Are they somehow intertwined?
I often get emails from people wanting to know the difference, and I thought it was time to distinguish them.
You may need clarification on which of you these parts are and if they differ. You may also need to learn what these parts are and if they exist. Continue reading “The Difference Between The Inner Child And The Ego”
