Comments on: How to Make the Narcissist Powerless to Affect Your Life https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 13 Jan 2026 22:18:41 +0000 hourly 1 By: odunpazarı buzdolabı tamircisi https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1286234 Tue, 13 Jan 2026 22:18:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1286234 Thank you for the information.

]]> By: izmirde-magazin.com.tr https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1285803 Fri, 11 Jul 2025 05:55:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1285803 This was beautiful Admin. Thank you for your reflections.

]]> By: Suresh https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1285673 Tue, 21 Jan 2025 12:31:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1285673 This article provides such powerful insights into dealing with narcissists. I especially appreciate the practical advice on setting boundaries. It’s empowering to know that we can take back control over our lives, no matter how manipulative the narcissist may be. Thanks for sharing these valuable tips!

]]> By: Rye Saavedra https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1284451 Fri, 12 Jan 2024 12:07:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1284451 Great thoughts are provided in this article. Excellent. We all know that dealing with narcissists can be a daunting task, but making them powerless is an incredibly empowering experience. There’s nothing quite like taking back control and putting these individuals in their place. The power to overcome their manipulation and toxic behavior lies within you. You are strong, intelligent, and capable of standing up for yourself. So the next time you encounter a narcissist, don’t let them bring you down. Instead, rise above their negativity and show them that you are in charge of your own life. With your unwavering confidence and unbreakable spirit, you can conquer anything that comes your way.

]]> By: Willywonker1 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1262263 Thu, 13 Jan 2022 09:54:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1262263 I split from my covert narc 3 months ago, to be honest I didn’t realise he was a narc before we split, but since then so much has become clear. He had always been controlling, this had got a lot worse since he was retired after getting ptsd as a police officer. He was arrested in early November for coercive control and cannot contact me or come to the house. He has absolutely destroyed my relationship with my two teenagers – in the end I had to ask my 16 year old daughter to go and live with her father – she threatened me every day, verbally abused me, bent my fingers back whilst I was driving. Looking back I can see he had been working on building a wedge between me and the children for a long time, subtle put downs and laughing at me, stupid mum – I laughed along with them at the time, I didn’t see it at all until I escaped, then it became crystal clear. I felt so stupid, so helpless, I was desperately trying to cling onto a relationship with my children. I’ve realised now that I cannot control what my children think and do. All I can do is keep reaching out to them and do HOPE that one day they see their father for the evil person he is.

We only talk through my solicitor and sometimes he sends 15 emails a day as he isn’t using a solicitor. We only answer the essential, there is a lot of nonsense we ignore. He is still making daily demands, but they don’t give me the anxiety they used too.

I know that I have a wonderful life to develop and I will be happy again.

]]> By: sammy le flock https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1260649 Wed, 15 Dec 2021 17:09:26 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1260649 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

hi melanie, unfortunately i have been set up and trapped by a very sick narcissist who is making serious allegations against me which are not true. I am going to fight him all the way and have demanded my lawyers to bring him to a hearing and look me in the eye and say what he thinks I did. I told them he could at least have the guts to front me. Hopefully he will come to court and I can watch him come undone as I have learned a little bit about wot to do in court and what not to do. I just wanted to let you know how much I have grown with your work and that your efforts bless so many other survivors of narcissistic abuse and help us to THRIVE. Bless you.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1260626 Tue, 14 Dec 2021 22:47:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1260626 In reply to Richard.

Hi Richard,

it really is true that the most beautiful people have been Narc abused.

I love that you are finding that “sweet spot”.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Richard https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1260550 Mon, 13 Dec 2021 05:56:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1260550 Wow it is unbelievable to see from the feedback how many kind caring people have lived all of this. We are not alone. I can say that my life has changed completely by applying this idea. I am not out of the woods yet. But I am exploring the newly discovered area between what was and total relationship failure. I have been surprised to find that there is space there for a renewed self and that I do get treated quite differently which seems extraordinary. Miraculous almost. Thank you Melanie for your beautiful writing and your lifesaving advice. You really are an angel.

]]> By: Huplimited https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/#comment-1260544 Mon, 13 Dec 2021 03:57:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1002#comment-1260544 In reply to Mom.

This is what I did and I almost got killed. Was put in prison, thrown out of my home, lost my kids and watched them be under siege with bodyguards when I was a few minutes away from them, cut all contacts with my children, threatened everyone in my life so they don’t help me, took away all my life savings and assets and left me penniless and homeless. Yes. All this because I said he’s sick and I need to love and take care of him. Be patient and he will come back to being normal again. Give him love and accept him the way he is and everything will be fine. Of course nothing was ever fine and things got worse and worse. So run as far as you can from these monsters. The more empathy you show the more they’ll suck the last breath out of you.

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