Comments on: 10 Traits That Narcissists Can’t Stand

By: Heidi

Heidi — Fri, 06 Aug 2021 03:33:06 +0000

Amanda Jane, your honestly, openness and willingness for change is outstanding and impressive!
I wish you all the very very best in healing
Big hugs

By: Billieanne

Billieanne — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 11:24:34 +0000

They go for boundryless bubbly people with a lack of self assurance because at the end of the day a bright assertive light ain’t gonna take it.

By: Amanda Jane Jeffs

Amanda Jane Jeffs — Tue, 18 May 2021 05:33:39 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. thank you Melanie <3 I'll check it out. I have signed up to your online NARP healing quanta freedom healing program just recently and I'm finding it really good, I have done a few modules so far. your valuable blog and videos and resources are shining light on an entire area of my life and behaviours I'd never seen or understood before.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 18 May 2021 04:18:55 +0000

In reply to Amanda Jane Jeffs.

Hi Amanda,

you have such incredible self-honesty!

I’d love you to come to my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar which explains deeply to you how you can heal and take yourself and life back.

I know how much this will help grant you clarity and hope.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Amanda Jane Jeffs

Amanda Jane Jeffs — Tue, 18 May 2021 00:02:56 +0000

I seem to be the person at fault here. I have repetitively done some of the ‘bad behaviors’ and said things that you say narc’s do. My partner tells me I ‘don’t know how to behave’ and ‘don’t seem to learn’ from my mistakes, I’m ‘like a teenager’ and my life is a ‘train wreck’. I have aligned with men who actually didn’t like or care about me, because I was being validated by them. Whenever I behave ‘badly’ and hook up with men or be a victim to them through my own stupidity, naivety, and neediness, I believe I am innocent and believe it’s their fault – ‘why did they do that to me’. I play a victim card. I need attention all the time. I can’t express emotion verbally but have a storm of emotion inside. I have a controlling narc father, an emotionally void and weak mother, and my partner said I am totally imbalanced. When he tells me the truth about myself I can’t handle it. So I round up ‘allies’ every time he does that ‘he’s being mean to me’, then he gets extremely upset. I also have weak boundaries, and override my own intuition, I’m bad with money. After years of making my partner the ‘bad one’ I see how I have been operating, and I need to sort it out. Sometimes I omit or forget things that happened to avoid taking responsibility even though I believe I’m really honest. I forget things I say. He says I said things I forgot I said. He says I always justify myself. I don’t know how to change or fix myself.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 12 May 2021 23:20:48 +0000

In reply to mollie.

Hi Mollie,

many kids do grow out of it with healthy modelling and guidance.

All of us can lead the way.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: mollie

mollie — Tue, 11 May 2021 16:29:35 +0000

the more i read the more questions i have ,been married 11 yrs this month. knew something was wrong but , not enough to want to leave . still here learning thanks for your help. Now i see a pattern from my dad to my best friend of 50 yrs. to my 5 yr. old grand baby my greatest concern is will my grand baby always be that way can i have some hope since ive spotted her behavior early (because ) of my husbands. bad behavior . i always set boundaries with her .she also has a loving heart but uses that for attention. thanks for any reply.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 02 May 2021 23:12:00 +0000

In reply to Jen.

Awww Jen,

so happy for you and please know how welcome you are!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 02 May 2021 23:11:27 +0000

In reply to Kebba Buckley Button.

That’s beautiful that you’re getting breakthrough and results Kebba!

Well done!

Mel 🙏💞🦋