Narcissistic Abuse Is The Greatest Opportunity To Create The New You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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When you discover what narcissism is all about you know you are not the ‘sick’ one, and you know you weren’t to blame – because no-one can create a healthy relationship with a narcissist. But truly, is it enough to just know this? Is this enough for us to heal and move forward and know you will never have to experience an abusive, agonising relationship ever again? It certainly is not. (more…)

When you discover what narcissism is all about you know you are not the ‘sick’ one, and you know you weren’t to blame – because no-one can create a healthy relationship with a narcissist.

But truly, is it enough to just know this? Is this enough for us to heal and move forward and know you will never have to experience an abusive, agonising relationship ever again?

It certainly is not.

How To Leave The Narcissist With Your Emotions Intact

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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If you have tried to break away from a narcissistic relationship you know that it is excruciatingly difficult. Just when you think you’re finally ready and determined to leave, or simply know that you have to get away, the narcissist turns your emotions upside down with guilt, intimidation or fear tactics, or looks you in the eyes and tell you the exactly the words you have been waiting to hear. “I love you, I’ll change, and I will do anything to save us! I love you more than life itself!” (more…)

If you have tried to break away from a narcissistic relationship you know that it is excruciatingly difficult.

Just when you think you’re finally ready and determined to leave, or simply know that you have to get away, the narcissist turns your emotions upside down with guilt, intimidation or fear tactics, or looks you in the eyes and tell you the exactly the words you have been waiting to hear.

“I love you, I’ll change, and I will do anything to save us! I love you more than life itself!”

Has the Narcissist Really Moved On And Having A Great Life?

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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When you broke up with your narcissist, did it seem like he or she got on with life straight away and rode off happily into the sunset, possibly with a new love interest, and is living the high life as if nothing happened? Or perhaps you received the hoovering – he or she professing undying love for you as an attempt to get you back in to the relationship, yet the next thing you see on Facebook, or hear from friends is that the narcissist has moved on and is having a wow of a time. It totally seems like you have been discarded and the narcissist really isn’t even hurting. (more…)

When you broke up with your narcissist, did it seem like he or she got on with life straight away and rode off happily into the sunset, possibly with a new love interest, and is living the high life as if nothing happened?

Or perhaps you received the hoovering – he or she professing undying love for you as an attempt to get you back in to the relationship, yet the next thing you see on Facebook, or hear from friends is that the narcissist has moved on and is having a wow of a time.

It totally seems like you have been discarded and the narcissist really isn’t even hurting.

Is Your Heart Open To Love?

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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If you have suffered disappointing and painful relationships, and or parenting that violated boundaries, you may not realise how closed off you are to receiving love…. I can relate, as this has been a huge challenge in my own life. When recovering from abusive and / or narcissistic relationships, we can establish deservedness, boundaries and well-being - and we may have risen to a level in our own personal development where we are incredibly happy, fulfilled and productive as a single person in our own skin… (more…)

If you have suffered disappointing and painful relationships, and or parenting that violated boundaries, you may not realise how closed off you are to receiving love….

I can relate, as this has been a huge challenge in my own life.

When recovering from abusive and / or narcissistic relationships, we can establish deservedness, boundaries and well-being – and we may have risen to a level in our own personal development where we are incredibly happy, fulfilled and productive as a single person in our own skin…