Last week I wrote my most important article ever. Part 1 of this article was inspired by the difference I constantly see between the Thriver orientation, which occurs when we take the personal responsibility to heal our own wounds, and the rampant victimisation model, which is predominant in most narcissistic/sociopathic abuse communities.
Absolutely, I validate the pain of narcissistic abuse for people, especially when children are involved – and I know from personal experience, as well as having been connected with thousands of people going through this anguish, how tough it is.
I also know that the continual focus on the narcissist and what he or she is doing create total powerlessness and only feeds the narcissist, disables any effectiveness to get well, and is poisoning and traumatising our children – as well as doing NOTHING AT ALL to stop the cycles of abuse and abused being passed on from generation to generation.
Continue reading “Parent’s Empowering Themselves For Their Children’s Sake Part 2”