Christmas can be a challenge at the best of times …
You have to run around and try and buy everyone a thoughtful gift.
There’s busy roads and shopping malls.
There’s family and work get togethers.
But what about if there is a narcissist involved!?!
Continue reading “How To Deal With Narcissists At Christmas And The Year 2015 In Review”
Recently I was asked, via a comment on my YouTube channel, to explain what self-partnering is. It is a term I often use as the foundation of healing from narcissistic abuse.
It would seem that this term is self-explanatory – but is it really?
Why would it be when we have not been living in a world that has explained, encouraged or taught self-partnering?
In Part One we discussed some of the templates for Quantum Realities … the theories that at the Quantum Level “there is no outside”, and “we are powerful Creators as per the levels of consciousness we are connected to Life at.”
These revolutionary models allow us to move out of the victim perspective of “Life is happening to me”, into the Quantum Creator Level of “Life in my experience is unfolding through me.”
The Quantum Model of radical personal responsibility shifts us into the driver’s seat in life, and what I am sharing with you today goes into greater detail about that.
Continue reading “Quantum Realities And Healing From Narcissistic Abuse – Part 2”
This two-part article explores the Quantum Truths and the holographic nature of life.
I have been talking a lot lately on YouTube about these topics, and people have asked for a deeper conversation about them.
This is good because I believe the world is awakening to the understanding that ”there is more going on than meets the eye”. People are even starting to wonder whether there is “an unseen world” or some sort of “consciousness” affecting everything.
Continue reading “Quantum Realities And Healing From Narcissistic Abuse – Part 1”
No Contact is probably the biggest buzzword in narcissistic abuse recovery, and that’s no surprise because it’s widely acknowledged that No Contact from a narcissist is vital to recovering from one.
Anyone that has experienced narcissistic abuse knows the feelings like black ink and ice running through your veins when enmeshed with a narcissist.
If you don’t achieve No Contact, it is like being continually poisoned while trying to detox from the poison that makes you so sick. It’s very difficult to get well when you are constantly tied up in the battle of trying to survive the onslaughts of narcissistic abuse.
Continue reading “Clarifying No Contact – The Common Pitfalls That Keep Us Hooked”
The reason I really wanted to explore this topic in an article is because I am very passionate about our children and future generations. I so believe the shift in consciousness on our planet needs to start with us, as the caretakers of our children and their future children’s emotional evolution.
So many parents try to fix and help their children deal with narcissistic abuse, but don’t realise that operating from a tormented, agonised emotional state truly makes matters worse. It grants the narcissist more bullets to shoot you with and incites them to use your children as weapons of war.
There are many things that are excruciatingly difficult when suffering from narcissistic abuse.
One of them commonly being that people close to you seem to have no understanding of the soul rape that you are going through. Often, adding insult to injury, people close to you might believe that you are the person who is disturbed and not well, and even making stuff up …
Because the accusations you make seem so far away from the “perfect” model person that the narcissist portrays to everyone else.
Continue reading “What To Do When Your Family and Friends Don’t Support You”
This is a great question that I have wanted to address in a blog article for a while. It’s a question which is asked a lot. It’s also a question that’s very important to understand the answer to.
Most people think that narcissists are relentless, and they won’t let up, and that there is no way to get rid of people who keep harassing, hoovering, wanting to rip your life to shreds and trying to suck you back in time and time again.
And it can seem unreal that even after years, and even after moving on with new people, that narcissists will continue to make random contact with you.
Shamelessly, out of the blue …
