One of the most frustrating things about being narcissistically abused is that you are often told how bad, insensitive, selfish, uncaring and incompetent you are. It doesn’t matter how hard you try to do the right thing, the narcissist still finds fault with you.
If the narcissist in your life is / was a love partner – the relationship didn’t start that way.
In stark contrast you thought you could do no wrong with this person – in fact you couldn’t imagine them ever getting annoyed about anything.
Generally … that’s how narcissistic relationships kick off – as glorious and delightful.
This Sunday it’s Mother’s Day in many countries including Australia and the USA.
It’s a bit of a shame that we don’t all celebrate globally at the same time of year; our UK friends, and some parts of Europe and Asia celebrate Mother’s Day at other times.
As a Mother, I love Mother’s Day … it is a very special get together time with my mother, family and son, and I deeply acknowledge it can be a painful time for many people in this Community, due to child alienation, loss of a child or inability to give birth to your own, or due to having had painful relationships with your own mother.
Please feel my hugs and love – if this has been your plight.
And the reason is: because I am very excited about our possibilities for a new world.
I am excited about what can be done, and how we can do it differently to what has proven to not work in our past.
I placed a post on Facebook yesterday from talkamen.com – that I screamed “Yes” to when I saw it.