What Happens When We Assign The Narcissist As Our God?

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The narcissist seems all powerful. He or she dictates whether you feel good, bad, happy or sad. And, no matter how badly the narcissist treats you, your spirit may feel like it is literally dying without the narcissist. You know deep down that going back to them will only led to more trauma, terror, panic and feelings of soul devastation. So how can you break the bondage of assigning the narcissist as your God and let go of the agonizing thoughts that make you feel like you will be lifeless without them? Find out in this week’s Thriver Tv episode. (more…)

 

The narcissist seems all powerful.

He or she dictates whether you feel good, bad, happy or sad.

And, no matter how badly the narcissist treats you, your spirit may feel like it is literally dying without the narcissist.

You know deep down that going back to them will only led to more trauma, terror, panic and feelings of soul devastation.

So how can you break the bondage of assigning the narcissist as your God and let go of the agonizing thoughts that make you feel like you will be lifeless without them?

Find out in this week’s Thriver Tv episode.

How To Survive A Break Up With A Narcissist – Part 1

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  It pleases me immensely to be writing about this topic …. Because for most people who have suffered narcissistic abuse, breaking up becomes inevitable … and sadly most people do not know the TRUTH regarding how to effectively not just survive but Thrive after a breakup with a narcissist. Traditionally, breaking up with a narcissist is a terrible experience – emotionally and practically. This week in Part One, I want to address the emotional side of it. (more…)

 

It pleases me immensely to be writing about this topic ….

Because for most people who have suffered narcissistic abuse, breaking up becomes inevitable … and sadly most people do not know the TRUTH regarding how to effectively not just survive but Thrive after a breakup with a narcissist.

Traditionally, breaking up with a narcissist is a terrible experience – emotionally and practically.

This week in Part One, I want to address the emotional side of it.

How Do We Decide To Heal?

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  It can be a huge thing to "decide" to commit to our own healing. We may feel like if we let go of the battles we are enmeshed in that we will be annihilated. Or maybe we think it is too late for us to heal, there are too many wounds, we are too old … or it will take too long. But are there deeper reasons WHY we are struggling to commit to healing? I believe there are, and I share these with you in this week’s episode. (more…)

 

It can be a huge thing to “decide” to commit to our own healing.

We may feel like if we let go of the battles we are enmeshed in that we will be annihilated.

Or maybe we think it is too late for us to heal, there are too many wounds, we are too old … or it will take too long.

But are there deeper reasons WHY we are struggling to commit to healing?

I believe there are, and I share these with you in this week’s episode.

Shifts Happen – Overcoming Ego Blocks

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  Our ego blocks can be incredibly formidable. When we are constantly getting "the voices in our head" and the feelings that derail us from working on ourselves. They can confuse our healing process, and even prevent it. This was Mette’s plight, and she had been trying everything she could to get past it. I was only too happy to help her with this issue, because I knew it would not only provide a breakthrough for her, it would also unlock the solution for so many others suffering from the same problem. If you have been struggling with ego blocks that have been preventing your healing, then this Shifts Happen episode is a really important one to watch and participate it! (more…)

 

Our ego blocks can be incredibly formidable.

When we are constantly getting “the voices in our head” and the feelings that derail us from working on ourselves.

They can confuse our healing process, and even prevent it.

This was Mette’s plight, and she had been trying everything she could to get past it.

I was only too happy to help her with this issue, because I knew it would not only provide a breakthrough for her, it would also unlock the solution for so many others suffering from the same problem.

If you have been struggling with ego blocks that have been preventing your healing, then this Shifts Happen episode is a really important one to watch and participate it!

The 5 Stages Of Forgiveness

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  A lovely friend of mine Sylvia inspired me, in her reply on one of my Facebook posts, to write this article. "Forgiveness" is such a hot topic … and within the self-help, psychological and healing industries it is a widely acknowledged term. It’s also a very confusing and misunderstood topic. The deeper implications of forgiveness and the personal freedom it achieves and why it achieves it, are not necessarily examined, talked about or accepted. And there are many people who may have believed they have "forgiven" – who have done it conceptually, yet have not experienced a true shift in their heart and being. I know what this was like – before my profound personal journey of narcissistic abuse recovery, where I had to actualise True Forgiveness to save my life … (more…)

 

A lovely friend of mine Sylvia inspired me, in her reply on one of my Facebook posts, to write this article.

“Forgiveness” is such a hot topic … and within the self-help, psychological and healing industries it is a widely acknowledged term.

It’s also a very confusing and misunderstood topic.

The deeper implications of forgiveness and the personal freedom it achieves and why it achieves it, are not necessarily examined, talked about or accepted.

And there are many people who may have believed they have “forgiven” – who have done it conceptually, yet have not experienced a true shift in their heart and being.

I know what this was like – before my profound personal journey of narcissistic abuse recovery, where I had to actualise True Forgiveness to save my life …

Why Don’t People Heal From Narcissistic Abuse

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  Why don’t people commonly heal from Narcissistic Abuse? Why are people usually only managing their symptoms rather than healing their trauma which is causing the symptoms? Wouldn’t it make so much more sense to do that? Is it possible? These are all questions that I grant you the Quantum answers to in this week’s Thriver Tv episode. (more…)

 

Why don’t people commonly heal from Narcissistic Abuse?

Why are people usually only managing their symptoms rather than healing their trauma which is causing the symptoms?

Wouldn’t it make so much more sense to do that?

Is it possible?

These are all questions that I grant you the Quantum answers to in this week’s Thriver Tv episode.