What Is The Most Powerful Narcissist Inoculation?

 

Being abused by a narcissist is one of the most traumatic experiences that could ever happen to you.

It left you reeling.

It was like your life force was sucked out, and then you were left to deal with a “self” which felt like an empty, traumatised shell.

I know, just like me, you never want to go through that again. In fact, the possibility is unthinkable.

We are inclined to arm ourselves with as much information and knowledge as possible regarding spotting and preventing narcissists from avoiding that.

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Why Do Narcissists Pathologically Lie?

 

Why do narcissists lie? Why do they struggle to tell the truth? Why do they often lie even when there is no apparent reason to lie?

Of course, we may think it is to manipulate, twist, twist, turn, and abuse people’s lives and purposefully confuse and hurt others… but is it?

Is there something deeper as to why lying is such an ingrained personality disorder for narcissists?

When you experience the trauma of continual lies, you may question everything, including your sanity. You no longer know what is true or false; things get so crazy that you ask if the narcissist knows the difference.

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Can You Heal While You Are Still With A Narcissist?

 

I know we all hear time and time again how you should just leave, create No Contact and THEN start healing.  I agree that No Contact and leaving before trying to heal is often the best way to recover.

Yet, maybe you just can’t do that – because of children, a combined business, or you don’t have anywhere to go yet.

Or maybe, and this reason is a big reason, you know you don’t have the resources, strength, or emotional capacity to do it yet, and you simply may be too traumatised, addicted, hooked and or frightened to let go.

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The Dangers Of The Cerebral Narcissist And How To Avoid Them

 

Today I want to talk to you about cerebral narcissists – the high-functioning variety.

In many ways an intelligent, successful, high-functioning narcissist may be among the most dangerous of all, because they are hard to detect.

This person may literally hide their personality disorder, from the world at large, for their entire life.

A high-functioning cerebral narcissist is very, very skilled at fitting in, getting people to like them, trust them, follow their orders and admire them. They are energetic, purpose drive and highly articulate and they are often in high positions of power.

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Emotional Blackmail – The Devastating Weapon A Narcissist Uses To Betray You

 

Today’s episode is about a tragic situation you may have, or may still be dealing with, due to getting involved with a narcissist.

When they turn the tables and use your sensitive information against you.

At first, we did not realise that a narcissist is like the CIA building a dossier of information on us.

We simply thought their attentiveness and attention were about genuine affection, but it was about something much more sinister.

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Why Unconditional Love Is The Key To A Fulfilling And Joyful Life

 

I’ve been looking forward to covering this topic for some time, because there is much debate about the following question.

What is unconditional love?

Does it mean we give and give and give to others even when it hurts us?

Does it mean that we give with no need for return?

I believe knowing the answers to these questions is vital, because understanding exactly what unconditional love is and how to apply it to yourself and others has the power to not just heal yourself, but heal the entire world.

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What To Do When A Narcissist Swiftly Replaces You And Flaunts Their New Supply

 

Is there any more soul crushing and punishing thing in our life than to be replaced with another love partner?

Possibly not.

And how horrifying is it to see the evidence of the narcissist and their new lover plastered all over social media enjoying a wonderful loved up time, whilst we can barely get out of bed, let alone function normally.

If we have been discarded and replaced in a heartbeat, and the narcissist is cruelly rubbing our nose in it, the trauma may be so horrific that we feel like we want to literally die.

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Married To A Narcissist – My Top 10 Lessons Learned

 

Being married to a narcissist taught me so much about myself, life and relationships that nothing other than being married to a narcissist could have taught me.

Little did I know that the greatest crash-course I could imagine to the evolution of myself would be the by-product of being married to a narcissist – forever cleaning up my previous false beliefs that hadn’t been serving me.

I finally gave up being a victim and took on the Thriver Way of personal responsibility – self-partnering, finding and releasing my wounds and growing up my under-developed Inner Identity parts up.

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Why Narcissists Are So Cruel To You But Kind To Everyone Else

 

When you start trying to explain the behaviour of a narcissist to someone else, they will more often than not counter your words by saying …

“But he is such a great guy!”

You can see them thinking … “Why is she so ungrateful?”

And, of course, many people outside the family home love the narcissistic woman because she is so accommodating, hospitable and charming and always there to help anyone in need.

But we know this is SO different from our experience of them!

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