The Narcissist Is Your Mirror

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  If we wish to Thrive after narcissistic abuse, there is ONE thing that will start that journey. Turning our focus inwards … To heal the only person we can heal to heal our life – ourselves. But ... what is it that we need to heal? And … how do we discover exactly what it is? (more…)

 

If we wish to Thrive after narcissistic abuse, there is ONE thing that will start that journey.

Turning our focus inwards …

To heal the only person we can heal to heal our life – ourselves.

But … what is it that we need to heal?

And … how do we discover exactly what it is?

Being Comfortable In Your Own Skin

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  All of us want this. We want to feel free, happy, whole and healthy. After narcissistic abuse being comfortable in our own skin, as your natural state of living, may seem like a very big stretch to get to. Yet, I am here to help you believe that it is possible. In fact, in today’s The Thriver’s Life episode, I want you to understand it is probable. When you adopt what I am going to share with you today. (more…)

 

All of us want this.

We want to feel free, happy, whole and healthy.

After narcissistic abuse being comfortable in our own skin, as your natural state of living, may seem like a very big stretch to get to.

Yet, I am here to help you believe that it is possible.

In fact, in today’s The Thriver’s Life episode, I want you to understand it is probable.

When you adopt what I am going to share with you today.

How To Break Free From Toxic People In Your Life

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Have you ever felt the absolute confusion, angst, anger, despair and pain of trying to leave a toxic person behind? You may say, ‘I know they are NO good for me!” Are you still confused as to why, despite what this person has done, that you still feel in love with them? Or maybe … you don’t even like this person and believe their behaviour and values are terrible, yet it feels like they have permeated your being and occupy way too much space in your head. How you get them OUT? How do you get the SPACE and RELIEF in your thoughts and emotions to restart your wellbeing and your life? (more…)

Have you ever felt the absolute confusion, angst, anger, despair and pain of trying to leave a toxic person behind?

You may say, ‘I know they are NO good for me!”

Are you still confused as to why, despite what this person has done, that you still feel in love with them?

Or maybe … you don’t even like this person and believe their behaviour and values are terrible, yet it feels like they have permeated your being and occupy way too much space in your head.

How you get them OUT?

How do you get the SPACE and RELIEF in your thoughts and emotions to restart your wellbeing and your life?

How To Identify A Pathological Lying Narcissist

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Have you ever been in a situation with someone where you have no idea whether you are being told the truth or not? Have you experienced events and circumstances that leave you feeling dubious as to whether or not you can trust them? Or have you received point blank evidence that this person is a liar? The truth is this: we can’t have a safe and healthy relationship with a pathological liar because trust, faith and belief are smashed. There is a very pertinent saying – that when we become a detective in our relationship that things are very wrong. (more…)

 

Have you ever been in a situation with someone where you have no idea whether you are being told the truth or not?

Have you experienced events and circumstances that leave you feeling dubious as to whether or not you can trust them?

Or have you received point blank evidence that this person is a liar?

The truth is this: we can’t have a safe and healthy relationship with a pathological liar because trust, faith and belief are smashed.

There is a very pertinent saying – that when we become a detective in our relationship that things are very wrong.

6 Things To Look Out For During Court Battles With A Narcissist

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Knowing that you are having to go to court with a narcissist is one of the most terrifying and stressful things that you will ever have to face. Because … you know the narcissist is a pathological liar who is charismatic, manipulative and convincing. You also know that the narcissist is trying to win, by making you lose, which means punishing you horrifically, setting out to use the legal and court system to discredit you and take from you what is dear to your heart. This is why it is so vital that you know how to face this storm, in ways that will empower you, ensure you have a healthy hearing and put you in the best possible position to disarm and unravel the narcissist in order to expose who they are and win against them. (more…)

 

Knowing that you are having to go to court with a narcissist is one of the most terrifying and stressful things that you will ever have to face.

Because … you know the narcissist is a pathological liar who is charismatic, manipulative and convincing.

You also know that the narcissist is trying to win, by making you lose, which means punishing you horrifically, setting out to use the legal and court system to discredit you and take from you what is dear to your heart.

This is why it is so vital that you know how to face this storm, in ways that will empower you, ensure you have a healthy hearing and put you in the best possible position to disarm and unravel the narcissist in order to expose who they are and win against them.

How To Overcome Resistance And Achieve Your Goals

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Have you had the frustration, when trying to create your new life of ... All of a sudden doubting yourself (or even feeling like you will fail)? Feeling like the self-defeating voice is so overwhelming that you just have to give up? Or … finding that every door you knock on closes in your face? (more…)

 

Have you had the frustration, when trying to create your new life of …

All of a sudden doubting yourself (or even feeling like you will fail)?

Feeling like the self-defeating voice is so overwhelming that you just have to give up?

Or … finding that every door you knock on closes in your face?

Why Narcissists Cheat And How They Get Away With It

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The sordid and terrible truth is that most narcissists cheat. They simply don’t possess the moral code to care about and respect others … it is all firmly about them. And, they have the ability to barefaced lie, grandstand their version of their integrity and infidelity and gaslight you horrifically into believing you have serious paranoia issues, and it’s your own stuff ththeat is causing you to doubt them. Additionally, even if caught out, the narcissist can still play dirty tricks, like come up with new evidence to discredit what you know, make it your fault, or even discard you saying they were leaving you anyway. How do we get released from this toxic torment? How can we know whether a person has the susceptibility to behave like this or not? (more…)

 

The sordid and terrible truth is that most narcissists cheat. They simply don’t possess the moral code to care about and respect others … it is all firmly about them.

And, they have the ability to barefaced lie, grandstand their version of their integrity and infidelity and gaslight you horrifically into believing you have serious paranoia issues, and it’s your own stuff ththeat is causing you to doubt them.

Additionally, even if caught out, the narcissist can still play dirty tricks, like come up with new evidence to discredit what you know, make it your fault, or even discard you saying they were leaving you anyway.

How do we get released from this toxic torment? How can we know whether a person has the susceptibility to behave like this or not?