7 Signs You Are Going To Recover From Narcissistic Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissistic abuse recovery can be confusing. It is not always a straight line! And … I know you need support and information from people like myself who have been through it, to know WHAT to EXPECT. That’s why in Today’s Thriver TV Episode I wanted to share with you seven signs to help you know that you ARE on track with recovery. (more…)

 

Narcissistic abuse recovery can be confusing.

It is not always a straight line!

And … I know you need support and information from people like myself who have been through it, to know WHAT to EXPECT.

That’s why in Today’s Thriver TV Episode I wanted to share with you seven signs to help you know that you ARE on track with recovery.

How To Know If A Narcissist Is Finished With You

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  I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you. And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life. Many people ask these things often… Will the narcissist try to hoover me? What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet? What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)? Could all the things that he or she did start up again? (more…)

 

I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you.

And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life.

Many people ask these things often…

  • Will the narcissist try to hoover me?
  • What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet?
  • What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)?
  • Could all the things that he or she did start up again?

My Personal Dating Plan For Weeding Out Narcissists

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  So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused. But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again? Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate? I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are. So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof! (more…)

 

So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused.

But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again?

Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate?

I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are.

So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof!

The Narcissist Has No Power Over You

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  Narcissists can leave you feeling overpowered, helpless and hopeless and wondering if you will ever feel safe and healthy again. I understand these feelings as this is how I felt at the hands of narcissists too. When we are in the middle of narcissistic abuse it is easy to hand over all our power to someone we believe is powerful but into today’s episode, I want to share with you why I believe that a Narcissist is NOT powerful and why Quantum truths will set you free. The irony is that the WAY to do it has been there waiting for us all along, in an accessible place – we just may not have realised it. (more…)

 

Narcissists can leave you feeling overpowered, helpless and hopeless and wondering if you will ever feel safe and healthy again.

I understand these feelings as this is how I felt at the hands of narcissists too.

When we are in the middle of narcissistic abuse it is easy to hand over all our power to someone we believe is powerful but into today’s episode, I want to share with you why I believe that a Narcissist is NOT powerful and why Quantum truths will set you free.

The irony is that the WAY to do it has been there waiting for us all along, in an accessible place – we just may not have realised it.

Is My Adult Child A Narcissist? When Helping Them Is Hurting You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Is my adult child a narcissist? is one of the most devastating questions a parent can ask. Some years ago, I went through this terrible trauma myself. In today’s Thriver TV I want to help you realise what is necessary for you to know whether or not your child is narcissistic… …and how to BE your most healthy and powerful, for all concerned, and possibly able to discover that your adult child isn’t narcissistic and is capable of being respectful and loving. Regardless of the outcome, there is an even more powerful truth that you will need to watch today’s video to understand. (more…)

 

Is my adult child a narcissist? is one of the most devastating questions a parent can ask.

Some years ago, I went through this terrible trauma myself.

In today’s Thriver TV I want to help you realise what is necessary for you to know whether or not your child is narcissistic…

…and how to BE your most healthy and powerful, for all concerned, and possibly able to discover that your adult child isn’t narcissistic and is capable of being respectful and loving.

Regardless of the outcome, there is an even more powerful truth that you will need to watch today’s video to understand.

10 Things To Look Forward To After Narcissistic Abuse

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  After narcissistic abuse we can feel that life will never be good again. We crave for something new and different. Today, I’m going to share with you ten beautiful Thriver Gifts that come naturally to you when you heal from the inside out. These include learning what it means to love, support and approve of yourself while no longer accepting toxic people in your life, how to be present in the Now and have a greater connection to Source accepting that everything is perfect just as it is, and experiencing being open-hearted and authentic, therefore uplevelling relationships so that life just gets better and better! (more…)

 

After narcissistic abuse we can feel that life will never be good again.

We crave for something new and different.

Today, I’m going to share with you ten beautiful Thriver Gifts that come naturally to you when you heal from the inside out.

These include learning what it means to love, support and approve of yourself while no longer accepting toxic people in your life, how to be present in the Now and have a greater connection to Source accepting that everything is perfect just as it is, and experiencing being open-hearted and authentic, therefore uplevelling relationships so that life just gets better and better!

How To Ignore A Narcissist Who Tries To Punish You

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  When a narcissist acts up – it can be brutal! They say and do things that are conscienceless, malicious and horrifically nasty. Believe me I KNOW how hard it is NOT to react! I used to FIGHT BACK nearly all the time. But it didn’t work. And I know, like me, that your reactions don’t bring RELIEF or SOLUTION, and instead you just feel more broken and traumatised and like you are going mad. This is why learning how to IGNORE a narcissist is not just healthy; it may even SAVE your Life. (more…)

 

When a narcissist acts up – it can be brutal! They say and do things that are conscienceless, malicious and horrifically nasty.

Believe me I KNOW how hard it is NOT to react! I used to FIGHT BACK nearly all the time.

But it didn’t work.

And I know, like me, that your reactions don’t bring RELIEF or SOLUTION, and instead you just feel more broken and traumatised and like you are going mad.

This is why learning how to IGNORE a narcissist is not just healthy; it may even SAVE your Life.

How Childhood Trauma Makes Us Susceptible to Narcissists

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  Over the years, so many people have asked me this: ‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me being narcissistically abused as an adult?’ You may have made the link between a painful childhood and sustaining narcissistic abuse as an adult. Maybe abuse is all you have ever known. Or maybe there was something more subtle going on that made you susceptible to narcissists – without you even understanding what that could possibly be. In today’s VERY IMPORTANT Thriver TV episode, I want to help you understand vital physiological truths about how your ability to deal with stresses was formed as a child; how this may have been compromised and what that has to do with sustaining trauma as an adult. (more…)

 

Over the years, so many people have asked me this: ‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me being narcissistically abused as an adult?’

You may have made the link between a painful childhood and sustaining narcissistic abuse as an adult. Maybe abuse is all you have ever known.

Or maybe there was something more subtle going on that made you susceptible to narcissists – without you even understanding what that could possibly be.

In today’s VERY IMPORTANT Thriver TV episode, I want to help you understand vital physiological truths about how your ability to deal with stresses was formed as a child; how this may have been compromised and what that has to do with sustaining trauma as an adult.