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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 14:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267171&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

I believe that there are groups of discarded supply like myself, after  my ex decided  no one else would want me.  I too have had a series of physical ailments and am currently recovering alone from a hip replacement.  My surviving family have decided to take his side regarding the reasons for the divorce from our 41-year relationship.  At 68, the internet is a dangerous game for both males and females.  
I was also the escape goat in a narcissistic household during my childhood.  I use individual and group therapy to sustain me from week to week.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267171">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>I believe that there are groups of discarded supply like myself, after  my ex decided  no one else would want me.  I too have had a series of physical ailments and am currently recovering alone from a hip replacement.  My surviving family have decided to take his side regarding the reasons for the divorce from our 41-year relationship.  At 68, the internet is a dangerous game for both males and females.<br />
I was also the escape goat in a narcissistic household during my childhood.  I use individual and group therapy to sustain me from week to week.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 01:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267408&quot;&gt;Shelley&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Shelley,

Welcome to our wonderful community!

When you heal the Quantum Way the trauma in your body dissolves and you return home to &quot;source&quot; which means you are &quot;not&quot; that person carrying those beliefs.

Until you start doing the work you won&#039;t feel it dissolve away, and it&#039;s impossible to conceptualise logically.

Have you come into my free 2-part masterclass www.recoverhealthrive.com to experience a Quanta Freedom Healing and learn about these healing processes?

That&#039;s the way to discover (and sample) more about this - it needs to be an experience you have to understand (embody) it.

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267408">Shelley</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Shelley,</p>
<p>Welcome to our wonderful community!</p>
<p>When you heal the Quantum Way the trauma in your body dissolves and you return home to &#8220;source&#8221; which means you are &#8220;not&#8221; that person carrying those beliefs.</p>
<p>Until you start doing the work you won&#8217;t feel it dissolve away, and it&#8217;s impossible to conceptualise logically.</p>
<p>Have you come into my free 2-part masterclass <a href="http://www.recoverhealthrive.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.recoverhealthrive.com</a> to experience a Quanta Freedom Healing and learn about these healing processes?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the way to discover (and sample) more about this &#8211; it needs to be an experience you have to understand (embody) it.</p>
<p>I hope that this helps</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Shelley		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 08:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello Mel, i have just come across your 
work and it really interests me. I am nearly 70 and just been dumped by a sociopath or narcissist after a 43 year marriage. (yes I know its never too late for love but i am now too scared” ) I was the younger sister of a troubled brother ( narcissust) to whom i have been great fodder until I cut him off. Family: My father - complex, creative and self absorbed competed with his children for my mother’s attention. . My mother bright but controlled by being put on a pedestal. . My  husband took up the role of a conflict addicted sociopath and extremely clever narcissist after i cut off from my siblings. My divorce after 43 years of a team work but loveless marriage was cruel and highly destructive. My survival is tenuous. 

 My issue is this: i know my character and social personality is the result of being tooled by subtle and clever narcisism. I am now very protective of my sanity ( whats left) and mindfully avknowledge what good is in my very small world. I feel i have become a recluse with a leaching victim mentality. damn it !! My question is this - before the healing. Before the learning of  self worth,  nurturing etc  - how in hell does one deal with the destructive but governing cynical belief system that has grown from the life experience of being a magnet for narcisistic personalities ?  Please don&#039;t disclose my full name.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Mel, i have just come across your<br />
work and it really interests me. I am nearly 70 and just been dumped by a sociopath or narcissist after a 43 year marriage. (yes I know its never too late for love but i am now too scared” ) I was the younger sister of a troubled brother ( narcissust) to whom i have been great fodder until I cut him off. Family: My father &#8211; complex, creative and self absorbed competed with his children for my mother’s attention. . My mother bright but controlled by being put on a pedestal. . My  husband took up the role of a conflict addicted sociopath and extremely clever narcissist after i cut off from my siblings. My divorce after 43 years of a team work but loveless marriage was cruel and highly destructive. My survival is tenuous. </p>
<p> My issue is this: i know my character and social personality is the result of being tooled by subtle and clever narcisism. I am now very protective of my sanity ( whats left) and mindfully avknowledge what good is in my very small world. I feel i have become a recluse with a leaching victim mentality. damn it !! My question is this &#8211; before the healing. Before the learning of  self worth,  nurturing etc  &#8211; how in hell does one deal with the destructive but governing cynical belief system that has grown from the life experience of being a magnet for narcisistic personalities ?  Please don&#8217;t disclose my full name.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 23:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267353&quot;&gt;Georgie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Georgie,

I agree it is a Quantum Leap - and usually impossible without a tool to release the significant and crippling inner trauma that occurs as a result of interpersonal abuse.

That is what Quanta Freedom Healing is, and why it is a game-changer.

Georgie I would love you to come into my free 2-part masterclass to learn about and experience it. www.recoverhealthrive.com

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267353">Georgie</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Georgie,</p>
<p>I agree it is a Quantum Leap &#8211; and usually impossible without a tool to release the significant and crippling inner trauma that occurs as a result of interpersonal abuse.</p>
<p>That is what Quanta Freedom Healing is, and why it is a game-changer.</p>
<p>Georgie I would love you to come into my free 2-part masterclass to learn about and experience it. <a href="http://www.recoverhealthrive.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.recoverhealthrive.com</a></p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Georgie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Georgie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 07:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267188&quot;&gt;Fay&lt;/a&gt;.

Fay. Thanks for posting as you have articulated the core of the trauma for those of us who are facing the very real and painful realisation that we were duped/conned/denied the best parts of our life/peak energy. 

I am so fed up of the downplaying of the real effects. Our physical bodies have a finite lifespan and even with excellent self care there can be real limitations.

Mel, I admire and respect your work. Thank u for all you do. I understand the importance of a positive mindset and believe we have power to create our own reality.

Getting into a higher vibrational state when you are literally broken inside i.e. your operating system is dysfunctional or maybe even severely or perm impaired  can feel like a quantum leap too far. 

ll the hope on a rope makes me gag.

Lets get]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267188">Fay</a>.</p>
<p>Fay. Thanks for posting as you have articulated the core of the trauma for those of us who are facing the very real and painful realisation that we were duped/conned/denied the best parts of our life/peak energy. </p>
<p>I am so fed up of the downplaying of the real effects. Our physical bodies have a finite lifespan and even with excellent self care there can be real limitations.</p>
<p>Mel, I admire and respect your work. Thank u for all you do. I understand the importance of a positive mindset and believe we have power to create our own reality.</p>
<p>Getting into a higher vibrational state when you are literally broken inside i.e. your operating system is dysfunctional or maybe even severely or perm impaired  can feel like a quantum leap too far. </p>
<p>ll the hope on a rope makes me gag.</p>
<p>Lets get</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 04:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267176&quot;&gt;Rose&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Rose,

I would love to try my free 2 part masterclass and the Quanta Freedom Healing that is in it - as well as soak up the full detailed explanations about &quot;how&quot; and &quot;why&quot; healing is possible - as a result of addressing inner trauma.

You can do that here www.recoverhealthrive.com

I hope that this can help and much love to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267176">Rose</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Rose,</p>
<p>I would love to try my free 2 part masterclass and the Quanta Freedom Healing that is in it &#8211; as well as soak up the full detailed explanations about &#8220;how&#8221; and &#8220;why&#8221; healing is possible &#8211; as a result of addressing inner trauma.</p>
<p>You can do that here <a href="http://www.recoverhealthrive.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.recoverhealthrive.com</a></p>
<p>I hope that this can help and much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 04:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267187&quot;&gt;Peter&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Peter,

this is so so true.

Source has no limits ...

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267187">Peter</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Peter,</p>
<p>this is so so true.</p>
<p>Source has no limits &#8230;</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 04:33:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267188&quot;&gt;Fay&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Fay,

I had a mental and adrenal breakdown which I was told would need 3 antipsychotics for the rest of my life to function and could never be healed.

I was 80 pounds, shook, sweated and had constant psychotic episodes, couldnt sleep or eat or function - at all.

If it wasnt for Qunata Freedom Healing I would not have survived. I had tried everything else prior and I was losing the fight to live.

Fay there are people in this community who are in their 80s who lost everything, and had severe health conditions, who now are living their best lives. There are also people who were institutionalized who have used Quanta Freedom Healing (NARP) to recover and rebuild their lives. As well as people who were told to make end-of-life plans (some of my staff included).

This is why I sing it from the rooftops. We have emails and messages sent in to my support team every day saying how this saved their life.

If it is not for you to try, then that is fine, that is your choice. 

That is my answer.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267188">Fay</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Fay,</p>
<p>I had a mental and adrenal breakdown which I was told would need 3 antipsychotics for the rest of my life to function and could never be healed.</p>
<p>I was 80 pounds, shook, sweated and had constant psychotic episodes, couldnt sleep or eat or function &#8211; at all.</p>
<p>If it wasnt for Qunata Freedom Healing I would not have survived. I had tried everything else prior and I was losing the fight to live.</p>
<p>Fay there are people in this community who are in their 80s who lost everything, and had severe health conditions, who now are living their best lives. There are also people who were institutionalized who have used Quanta Freedom Healing (NARP) to recover and rebuild their lives. As well as people who were told to make end-of-life plans (some of my staff included).</p>
<p>This is why I sing it from the rooftops. We have emails and messages sent in to my support team every day saying how this saved their life.</p>
<p>If it is not for you to try, then that is fine, that is your choice. </p>
<p>That is my answer.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 04:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267189&quot;&gt;Emma&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Emma,

I am so sorry that you have been through so much.

Are you working with NARP and getting the deep inner shifts to free you from internal trauma? www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

If so, please come into the NARP Member&#039;s forum where we can help you so much more www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

Sending you healing and breakthroughs

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/3-reasons-why-youre-never-too-old-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1267189">Emma</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Emma,</p>
<p>I am so sorry that you have been through so much.</p>
<p>Are you working with NARP and getting the deep inner shifts to free you from internal trauma? <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a></p>
<p>If so, please come into the NARP Member&#8217;s forum where we can help you so much more <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a></p>
<p>Sending you healing and breakthroughs</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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