My friend shared your article with me as she recognised that it reflected how I have responded to my ex. Most importantly, I have established zero/minimal contact since our separation several years ago, despite having children together. It worked well for me until the children decided to move schools and relocate to live with him on the cusp of teenagehood. Without causing drama I let them go. As predicted, I am witnessing slow conditioning and only hope that during their contact with me I can de-condition them and teach the difference between opinion and fact. We have a good relationship despite unsuccessful attempts to alienate. I am also primed to report any safeguarding concerns should they arise. Whilst full of stress and anxiety about their futures, I read your article. What struck me was that I was holding on to expectations for them, having worked very hard to role model good values and behaviour. Then a miracle happened. I received a phone call from their school (I had weeks previously shared my concerns with them by email – factual and business-like as you describe in your article). I was able to state more key facts and effectively hand my burden over to them. The children are happy and there are good people looking out for their safety and wellbeing. I am at peace and the truth will be exposed while I sit back and watch. The children always have a place of peace here with me if they choose, and I feel confident that I have given them wings to fly. Thank you for validating my journey.

Thankyou for your 3 steps to expose the Narcissists lies Melanie
I am going thru so much with this man I’ve been married to for 51 yrs
The last 8 yrs has been terribly pain with his blantant lies covering his deceit
He is now trying to fill my kids with his lies to protect himself to be that good man
I Thankyou for your input.

It’s my pleasure Vera,

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Hi Sherry,

thank you for writing in and I am sending love and healing to you and your child.

Please know that we offer sponsorship to those who can’t afford NARP, as we don’t wish to deny it from those in need, who dearly wish to participate.

If you wrote to my beautiful team at support@melanietoniaevans.com they can help you with this process.

I hope that this can help you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Yes Molly,

just more to heal Dear Lady!

Here is the thing with N’s – they will go for any way to trigger you.

They feed off people’s negative emotions – that’s the only reason they do it.

For us it grants us the total ability to heal up, come home to ourselves and completely detach.

N’s become Not Our Reality!

You are doing great!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Vera