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	<description>Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie&#039;s Narcissism blog offers support &#38; empowering tools to heal &#38; thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life &#38; fulfilling relationships.</description>
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		By: Do You Really feel Unloved At Vacation Time? - Path2Positivity		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Do You Really feel Unloved At Vacation Time? - Path2Positivity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2022 01:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] all this punishing regime may happen with a narcissistic member of the family, or a pal, in addition to a narcissistic love [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] all this punishing regime may happen with a narcissistic member of the family, or a pal, in addition to a narcissistic love [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Ida		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ida]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Nov 2021 01:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246714&quot;&gt;Gunther&lt;/a&gt;.

Gunther and Mel I agree with you both sadly.  As an adult I find it ironic because as a child I didn&#039;t even know power existed.  As an adult I can take responsibility to fix family trauma in me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246714">Gunther</a>.</p>
<p>Gunther and Mel I agree with you both sadly.  As an adult I find it ironic because as a child I didn&#8217;t even know power existed.  As an adult I can take responsibility to fix family trauma in me.</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brenda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 10:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246601&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

I agree Mel. Never stop believing that it will get better.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246601">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>I agree Mel. Never stop believing that it will get better.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2021 02:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1255905&quot;&gt;Kelly&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kelly,

my greatest suggestion for you is to write into support@melanietoniaevans.com and one of my lovely team will be able to help answer and work out with you what would be your best direction to take.

I hope that this can help you

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1255905">Kelly</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kelly,</p>
<p>my greatest suggestion for you is to write into <a href="mailto:support@melanietoniaevans.com">support@melanietoniaevans.com</a> and one of my lovely team will be able to help answer and work out with you what would be your best direction to take.</p>
<p>I hope that this can help you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Kelly		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kelly]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2021 12:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh wow!!!!! I don’t know which course to do first. This article has described my childhood to a tee and have just left my husband for a second and last time.  I am now getting the intense cold shoulder which I welcome actually as it tells me I’ve messed up his game!  By being with this person made me realise my reaction to him was based around my childhood experiences so I desperately want to address my past and my current exposure to these evil humans. I even question if I have taken on these traits, I have been horrible to past partners as if I’m the narcissist in those stories without realising what I was doing. Please help]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh wow!!!!! I don’t know which course to do first. This article has described my childhood to a tee and have just left my husband for a second and last time.  I am now getting the intense cold shoulder which I welcome actually as it tells me I’ve messed up his game!  By being with this person made me realise my reaction to him was based around my childhood experiences so I desperately want to address my past and my current exposure to these evil humans. I even question if I have taken on these traits, I have been horrible to past partners as if I’m the narcissist in those stories without realising what I was doing. Please help</p>
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		By: Tammy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tammy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2021 21:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246572&quot;&gt;Ruth M Young&lt;/a&gt;.

I feel this way too.  My first marriage to a narcissist lasted 22 years.  Then I almost immediately found another one which I just got out of after 8 years.  30 years of my life gone.  I am working on me and learning all I can not to choose another one.  I think if I was financially safe I would just stay alone and get a pool boy]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1246572">Ruth M Young</a>.</p>
<p>I feel this way too.  My first marriage to a narcissist lasted 22 years.  Then I almost immediately found another one which I just got out of after 8 years.  30 years of my life gone.  I am working on me and learning all I can not to choose another one.  I think if I was financially safe I would just stay alone and get a pool boy</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2021 04:19:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1254132&quot;&gt;Catherine&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Catherine,

thank you for your lovely words, and I am so pleased that my healing system is helping you so much!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-signs-you-grew-up-with-toxic-family-dynamics/#comment-1254132">Catherine</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Catherine,</p>
<p>thank you for your lovely words, and I am so pleased that my healing system is helping you so much!</p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Catherine		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Catherine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2021 21:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Melanie, this article is so much to the point. Thank you VERY much for explaining myself to me in such few but perfectly fitting words. Oh wow. Time to heal! 
With your Quanta Freedom Healing, luckily we can heal whenever we are ready... What a blessing you are for so many of us. Thank you from all my heart! 
Catherine]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Melanie, this article is so much to the point. Thank you VERY much for explaining myself to me in such few but perfectly fitting words. Oh wow. Time to heal!<br />
With your Quanta Freedom Healing, luckily we can heal whenever we are ready&#8230; What a blessing you are for so many of us. Thank you from all my heart!<br />
Catherine</p>
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		By: Susan Tombs		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan Tombs]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2021 03:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel,
My family was a psychiatric train wreck, and I WAS the caboose. As I became clearer about the madness, I was able to unhook myself. My father was a psychopath, my mom was a basket case, and my sister is simply crazy. My parents both died 5 years ago; I didn’t shed a tear. And I I haven’t seen my sister since 1991 and have no contact with her in any way. For many decades I hoped they would all change for the better, but it was hopeless hope. So I move through life, only letting those who want to grow and heal in my circle. None of us are perfect but we all care, love and respect one another. That is what really counts. Just because people are family doesn’t mean you have to entertain their toxicity. It pays to get out and do your own healing, however that may look. Self-respect and self-care is SO important to living a thriving life. Carry on with teaching all of us who WANT to heal and grow. The others are on their own in their suffering…]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel,<br />
My family was a psychiatric train wreck, and I WAS the caboose. As I became clearer about the madness, I was able to unhook myself. My father was a psychopath, my mom was a basket case, and my sister is simply crazy. My parents both died 5 years ago; I didn’t shed a tear. And I I haven’t seen my sister since 1991 and have no contact with her in any way. For many decades I hoped they would all change for the better, but it was hopeless hope. So I move through life, only letting those who want to grow and heal in my circle. None of us are perfect but we all care, love and respect one another. That is what really counts. Just because people are family doesn’t mean you have to entertain their toxicity. It pays to get out and do your own healing, however that may look. Self-respect and self-care is SO important to living a thriving life. Carry on with teaching all of us who WANT to heal and grow. The others are on their own in their suffering…</p>
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