Comments on: 4 Steps To Setting Boundaries With Toxic People & Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 16 Nov 2022 16:19:17 +0000 hourly 1 By: Stevie https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1276119 Wed, 16 Nov 2022 16:19:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1276119 Number One: Bless and accept your triggered feeling.
She triggers me by seeing other men, it started with her ex whom she stopped seeing when I threatened to leave but now it’s a male college friend that she has to her house or him to hers, I get angry and she classes that as me being jealous,
Number Two: Detach from the narcissist and ask yourself, go within and say, “What do I need to heal here?”
So do I need to heal my jealousy??
Number Three: Decide your truth about who you are in this.
I am the father to our 3-month-old baby, that’s why I can’t walk away.
Number Four: be willing to lose it all to get it all. Choose your Soul above all else. Be prepared to lose something or somebody else rather than ever lose yourself.
I will lose my beautiful daughter and I feel like I am abandoning her. How can I leave my baby in this mess.

]]> By: Iñigo https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1272164 Sat, 13 Aug 2022 18:40:15 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1272164 Every word you write speaks to me on a deep level, it’s like you have the answers I’ve been searching for since being destroyed by me father from 3 to 18 (never talked to him again after I escaped at 18 but remained deeply damaged and somehow invisibly connected to the narcissist until now at 42).

Your texts are the answers that I desperately searched for all my life in books, travels and people but never found. And Narp is the only true healing for my soul that I’ve ever experienced and what finally let me easily cut all the invisible cords with the narcissit.

Thank you Melanie! 🙏

]]> By: Gini Diane Collinson https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271316 Thu, 28 Jul 2022 00:39:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271316 In reply to Peter.

I think you might be referencing the book The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence. Just a guess on my part, but I know this little gem tells the reader how to put this into practice.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271287 Tue, 26 Jul 2022 05:42:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271287 In reply to MB.

Thank you MB,

for your beautiful and inspiring words!

It’s so lovely having you as a Thriver in this incredible community!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: MB https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271254 Mon, 25 Jul 2022 04:41:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271254 Thank you, Mel. I appreciate your generous “banging the drum” of Truth and fierce loyalty to our SOUL sovereignty above all else. It is indeed the only way. I’m about 7 yrs out from the Narc #1 shock and 6 months out from different flavor Narc #2. I am so happy to be on my own! The Self Defining and Soul Joy vitality emerging in me has me in grateful, joyous tears almost every day. The synchronicities are indeed flowing, like catching green lights and feeling well held by an amazing angel team. Cheers.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271209 Sat, 23 Jul 2022 05:36:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271209 In reply to Rowena.

Hi Rowena,

It’s my pleasure – absolutely!

It’s gorgeous watching your growth and expansion!

Thrive On beautiful lady

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271208 Sat, 23 Jul 2022 05:35:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271208 In reply to Janny.

Hi Janny,

thank you for your beautiful words!

It’s so true that we can become conscious and Thrive at any age – our soul is ageless.

So much love to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271207 Sat, 23 Jul 2022 05:34:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271207 In reply to Marie.

Hi Marie,

I love that you breathed, centered and absorbed this material and that it spoke to you.

It is your time to take back your power and heal lovely lady!

Please know that we are all here for you in this wonderful NARP Community

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Fay https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/4-steps-to-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-people-narcissists/#comment-1271191 Fri, 22 Jul 2022 03:06:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11687#comment-1271191 In reply to Marie.

Dear Marie
Welcome abroad. You will be a thriver too. 👏👏👏👏👏

Just the fact you are here now,writing your comments
. Self examination ,is a big step forward. ….. ” CONGRATULATIONS”

You will begin your journey,..enjoy the ride ,take the bumps,but be REASSURED
You will encouraged by others who understand ,who desire your healing and growth too.
God bless you Dear friend.🙏
Much Love xxoo

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