Comments on: 5 Ways A Narcissist Will Argue With You https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 20 Jun 2022 23:55:20 +0000 hourly 1 By: B https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1270377 Mon, 20 Jun 2022 23:55:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1270377 In reply to Christine Escher.

Do this NARP program. You’ll heal, learn and live a thriver life. There is other way. Logic doesn’t work with narcs. It starts within you. Different energy happens. Great support when you join. It’s excellent. Going round in circles with questions does not help or work.

]]> By: Man from California https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1270096 Wed, 08 Jun 2022 07:36:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1270096 Liza, I have no idea who you are (and vice versa). And while your “cannot take it” pains me (yes, I am an empath), I literally broke into a smile when I read your words “that I deserve so much more even if it is alone.” Yes, you cannot (and should not) argue with such a person. That’s right.

The “alone” you will face (you will, I promise) will be scary at first, but I would like to gently hold your hand right now and tell you that it is so, so worth it. You will become a kind of strong that is so powerful you will feel you have been given a new life, new eyes with which to see the world. Yes, “choosing you” is THAT powerful.

This place, this blog, and Melanie’s guidance / knowledge / wisdom / experiences / sharing sound like exactly the right place for you; I am so glad you have found your way here. As a fellow survivor of this madness, I welcome you as being among fellow, kindred spirits. I wish you the best on your journey: it is yours alone, and it will be amazing.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1270024 Sat, 04 Jun 2022 03:17:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1270024 In reply to Anonymous.

Hi Anonymous,

what you are describing is so typical of what we all went through.

Please know that.

And yes it is hopeless, other than to disconnect, heal and create a life without this insanity.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Liza https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1270003 Fri, 03 Jun 2022 04:40:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1270003 Well I gave almost 10 years. enough is enough.. I cannot take it anymore emotionally or physically. Calling an attorney tomorrow.. Your site has enlightened me that I deserve so much more even if it is alone. I have learned that you cannot argue with such a person.

]]> By: Christine Escher https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1270002 Fri, 03 Jun 2022 04:01:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1270002 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi, My name is Christy. I left a narcissist a year ago. We were together 5 years with the last 2 being hell. I thought he was my person forever. After 2 years of sleeping in separate rooms, and the torture he put me through, and staying in misery thinking he would change back to the man I fell in love with, he kicked me out. My question is, what do you do when they say horrible things to you then block you so you can’t comment? And you know he’s not with anyone else through old neighbors and friends but will unblock me just to tell me, or say just enough to make me think he’s on a date? Knowing it sends me into tears and jealousy and he knows it gets me upset just enough for me to get angry and upset just so he can say ” See, this is why I can’t be with you because you’re unstable and need medical help?

]]> By: Shelly D https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1269960 Wed, 01 Jun 2022 13:50:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1269960 In reply to My Fair Lady.

I love that My fair lady .Straight to the point for all of us .And funny !!!

]]> By: C https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1269951 Wed, 01 Jun 2022 03:42:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1269951 In reply to Michman.

I slowed my breathing down, matching the slow motion state I felt myself going into while reading your comment. Inadequate words to describe such an intense feeling.

]]> By: Carol C https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1269948 Wed, 01 Jun 2022 01:32:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1269948 My ex changed his reality to match his imagined lie of a reality… Going so far as to overeat to the point of near immobility and chain-smoke to create a wheeze… Amazing… And all to get sympathy. Planning to reel me in with sympathy, for sure…
Hard to believe but I know it’s true. Pretty far lengths for a vain egotistical man to go to in order to get me back. I feel like a cold hearted bitch but I have to escape his clutches… Which could do me in

]]> By: Anonymous https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-a-narcissist-will-argue-with-you/#comment-1269926 Tue, 31 May 2022 00:09:36 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8522#comment-1269926 So I really appreciate everyone who shared. I know the truth but I still want to believe it’s not that bad and that it isn’t hopeless. I am in my 60’s and you’d think I would know better. We live apart but he is reeling me back in as we speak. He has unforgiveness from many years ago that he made up. He has tried repeatedly to make me confess to it. Then he compares this imaginary sin to the drinking he has been doing and says my sin is worse. Insanity. This man has above average intelligence. Also, something nobody has touched on. I watched in shock in real time as he changed reality to his version right before my eyes. I said nothing because I could tell he actually believed it. Has anyone ever witnessed this? Mental illness. I am so glad I wrote this out because it makes me realize once again how hopeless it is. Thanks for reading.

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