Comments on: 6 Steps To Manifesting Safe & Healthy Love After Narcissistic Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 09 Oct 2024 12:49:25 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270629 Thu, 30 Jun 2022 01:04:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270629 In reply to Christal.

Hi Christal,

sending you love, hugs and healing.

You are doing an amazing job!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Christal https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270617 Wed, 29 Jun 2022 03:01:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270617 Tomorrow I am filling for divorce. Reached the resolution on June 12th. Much of today was spent going through waves of abject fear to having reached the point of no return. I have written down β€œbetter to lose someone than to lose your self” from this article. I have strength in the focus that this is a graduation Day not a failure. Thank you dearest Melanie. NARP and Bootcamp brought me to this moment.

]]> By: Fay https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270610 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 11:14:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270610 In reply to Peter.

Peter
Good for you………..Sure is a battle and a march……You are growing for you,

Am sure happy for you tooπŸ‘πŸ‘

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270604 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:33:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270604 In reply to Tabi.

Awww Tabi,

I love hearing your story!

Gorgeous that you have already expanded so much, you are going to love this next personal journey Dear Lady!

I feel blessed to be able to help you with his!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270603 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:30:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270603 In reply to John.

Hi John,

I hope you are joining us in Dating Bootcamp!

We have a number of great guys in the group!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270602 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:29:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270602 In reply to Izabela.

Hi Izabela,

to change they would need to face their inner demons, admit there were issues and resurrect their broken inner selves back to heal and wholeness.

Narcissists don’t do this. It’s not to say it’s not possible – but in the 15 years of my work in this incredible community I have not seen one verifiable case of a narcissist transforming.

I really believe the true question is “Will we heal ourselves to no longer try to change people who don’t have the resources to love us, so that we can love ourselves and connect to healthy people instead?”

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270601 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:26:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270601 In reply to Rosemarie.

Hi Rosemarie,

I love that you have taken this step to join me in the Dating Bootcamp.

Absolutely we will find that internal barrier that has not opened up the space for dating to step in – and shift it!

I am excited for you – and please know absolutely this is not t do with age … love is unconditional!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270600 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:24:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270600 In reply to Fay.

Hi Fay,

it’s my pleasure!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/6-steps-to-manifesting-safe-healthy-love-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1270599 Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:23:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11520#comment-1270599 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

it is wonderful that you are accepting “this is for me”, doing the work and evolving through this.

Most definitely you don’t need to keep repeating soul contracts, once your evolution is taken!

Many blessings to you Dear Man and thank you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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