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Yes, a female covert Narcissist is very manipulative. I’ve been trying to divorce her for 4 years, got arrested and sent to jail 4 times (twice in IN and now Twice in MI). She knows how to play the court system that caters to protecting the female. She always displays an emotional show to the police and tells them he is just that calm and thinks he is cool. Then, will go on to make sure to tell them i’m bipolar so he’s just crazy. She has make scratches on herself after screaming in my face and pushing me while i was walking backwards to move away from her, caused me to fall down, trashed the house. I called police and go to jail as she had scratched her arms and supposedly had fingernail marks from me grabbing her. I didn’t yell at or touch her at all. 8 months later dismissed. Who should have to live with the crazy abuse and controls won’t let me sleep many nights.. another kind of abuse. Causes delays in court and won’t do mediation. I got frustrated and went back after 10 months of divorce and not living in my house. Now divorcing as I can’t live with my life always being put on hold by lies. There are no children, so it’s maddening. Courts need to fine those that con’t comply to the court rules and abuse the system.

The last court date he called me as a witness and interrogated me for 4 hours straight, and most of what he was asking me about wasn’t even real. It was horrific. I sobbed through the whole thing and he just kept saying stuff that wasn’t even a question. I don’t know how to make it through this with him doing the interrogation of me on the witness stands. Half of my witnesses won’t testify because they don’t want him interrogating them. I am losing my mind over all of this

Hi Bria! Could I mention you referred me? Is that 25050 Kearny Ave in Valencia? Do you have his number? Much thanks❗️
Hilda

Thank you, Bria, for the attorney recommendation❗️

Nearly every advice article talking of ‘court battles’ with a narcissist, assumes this is a custody battle between partners, rather than eg a friend appearing as a court witness in the prosecution of a fraudulent, deceptive former friend.

I’d really appreciate some guidance on this, as the courts always expect the victim to talk about the impact on the victim(s) partly to determine the accused’s punishment, based on the reach of their criminal activities.

But repeatedly, I also read that the minute a Narc knows the impact they have had on you, that serves as Narcissistic Supply, so I feel like I’m caught between a rock and a hard place.

For this person to meet justice, I need to show vulnerability and impact in factual terms, but that simultaneously lets the Narc feel superior and like they’ve ‘won’.

I don’t know which way to turn in court… Can you help please?

Well, actually, if the Narcissist is good enough, a female, and cries abuse, while the stay at home dad has a record (nonviolent – stupid kid stuff) from 20 years ago, she can take the kids without proof. AND two years after not seeing the children out of fear of what. she will do, and what authorities believe, she lies to get a restraining order against dad, despite proof the car she claims ‘drove by and harassed her’ was stolen months ago, and video evidence places dad at his house. The courts are so clueless when the narcissist is a female, and she can just ruin people’s lives on a whim.