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	<description>Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie&#039;s Narcissism blog offers support &#38; empowering tools to heal &#38; thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life &#38; fulfilling relationships.</description>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Mar 2023 03:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1279540&quot;&gt;Nury&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Nury,

it&#039;s my pleasure!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1279540">Nury</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Nury,</p>
<p>it&#8217;s my pleasure!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Nury		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 15:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Beautiful inspiring article Mel, soooo many answers to such profound and important questions.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful inspiring article Mel, soooo many answers to such profound and important questions.</p>
<p>Thank you from the bottom of my heart!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1272757</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2022 09:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1272746&quot;&gt;E&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi E,

I totally understand how we believe the trauma is &quot;us&quot;

How you let go is NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp that is where I teach you how to let go and the incredible NARP private community support and coaches you with any block you have in doing so.

This is the answer and solution you seek.

Sending you love and healing

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1272746">E</a>.</p>
<p>Hi E,</p>
<p>I totally understand how we believe the trauma is &#8220;us&#8221;</p>
<p>How you let go is NARP <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> that is where I teach you how to let go and the incredible NARP private community support and coaches you with any block you have in doing so.</p>
<p>This is the answer and solution you seek.</p>
<p>Sending you love and healing</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: E		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[E]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2022 06:40:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

I totally believe in you snd your message! 
I think however I’m a little bit resistant to acknowledging the extent of my trauma and pain bc I’ve done such a good job of surviving until know but I *know* this is my moment to let go, uplevel and heal bc another narcissist has come into my world from outside my family of origin. 
I feel resistant to letting go of my pain and suffering.
So much has been taken from me.
I want to do this!!! 
How do I let go when it hurts so much and I feel lost?
I really saw last night that I’m running around like the lady with no magic pantry… that is exactly what I’m doing and it’s enslaving me. 

Can you please teach me how to let go when the damage and pain has so drastically altered my life away from anything I realise to be a normal path?

💓🙏🙏💓
E]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>I totally believe in you snd your message!<br />
I think however I’m a little bit resistant to acknowledging the extent of my trauma and pain bc I’ve done such a good job of surviving until know but I *know* this is my moment to let go, uplevel and heal bc another narcissist has come into my world from outside my family of origin.<br />
I feel resistant to letting go of my pain and suffering.<br />
So much has been taken from me.<br />
I want to do this!!!<br />
How do I let go when it hurts so much and I feel lost?<br />
I really saw last night that I’m running around like the lady with no magic pantry… that is exactly what I’m doing and it’s enslaving me. </p>
<p>Can you please teach me how to let go when the damage and pain has so drastically altered my life away from anything I realise to be a normal path?</p>
<p>💓🙏🙏💓<br />
E</p>
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		By: KJ		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271475&quot;&gt;Fay&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for your comment Fay. SO important to me that we&#039;re not taking on or owning what is not ours to own, otherwise, self-abuse, negative self-talk, etc., can kick in with vengeance. Once again, vital that we work on healing those places that made us susceptible to narcissistic abuse in the first place. Take care.🙏🏻]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271475">Fay</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment Fay. SO important to me that we&#8217;re not taking on or owning what is not ours to own, otherwise, self-abuse, negative self-talk, etc., can kick in with vengeance. Once again, vital that we work on healing those places that made us susceptible to narcissistic abuse in the first place. Take care.🙏🏻</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271550</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2022 23:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271448&quot;&gt;Rosemarie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Rosemarie,

I love that this has helped grant you the courage to continue healing Dear Lady

Also, please remember that you don&#039;t have to heal alone - the incredible NARP Thriver family is there to help support you with your healing journey www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271448">Rosemarie</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Rosemarie,</p>
<p>I love that this has helped grant you the courage to continue healing Dear Lady</p>
<p>Also, please remember that you don&#8217;t have to heal alone &#8211; the incredible NARP Thriver family is there to help support you with your healing journey <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a></p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2022 23:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271457&quot;&gt;Teri&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you Teri!

Much LOve

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271457">Teri</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you Teri!</p>
<p>Much LOve</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2022 23:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271458&quot;&gt;Teri&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Teri,

if you write in to support@melanietoniaevans.com the team can fill you in!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271458">Teri</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Teri,</p>
<p>if you write in to <a href="mailto:support@melanietoniaevans.com">support@melanietoniaevans.com</a> the team can fill you in!</p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2022 23:06:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271517&quot;&gt;Iñigo&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Inigo,

I feel so humbled that NARP and I could help you in this way!

Yaya - re the busting free into your True Self!

I would love to meet you too one day Inigo, I&#039;d love to share a hug together.

Much love to you too, from outback Australia.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-stop-thinking-about-the-narcissist-and-start-living/#comment-1271517">Iñigo</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Inigo,</p>
<p>I feel so humbled that NARP and I could help you in this way!</p>
<p>Yaya &#8211; re the busting free into your True Self!</p>
<p>I would love to meet you too one day Inigo, I&#8217;d love to share a hug together.</p>
<p>Much love to you too, from outback Australia.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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