Comments on: 8 Character Traits Narcissists Look For In Their Victims

By: Iñigo

Iñigo — Thu, 18 Aug 2022 10:37:20 +0000

I was so so lost, unhealed and traumatized before I found you that I look at it now and it’s almost ridiculous.

How can someone walk the earth so emotionally unprotected!!

And of course I payed the price multiple times , the last one almost costing my life and sanity.

How many times can I say thank you??
Never enough!!!!

Love you Melanie,
Much love from Madrid

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 02:17:10 +0000

In reply to Jamie Larson.

Hi Jamie,

you would not be human if you didn’t feel angry!

Be kind to you 🙂

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Carol RaffertyA

Carol RaffertyA — Thu, 16 Jun 2022 22:51:33 +0000

I left the narca demon a little over a year ago. He puts me in financial abuse. He then recruits 3 family members who made my life a living Hell. There was a major crime that I almost didn’t make it. They are lying & smearing my name for miles. It took two years to fight all of this. Then, my daughter killed my dog. Now, I have a lawyer for victimization. They made a mess out of my finances & fighting this for years. I am so exhausted, but I must keep going. My daughter did a video supposing to be you, but I knew better. You don’t keep stopping someone from saying what they need to say.

By: Jamie Larson

Jamie Larson — Thu, 16 Jun 2022 17:08:05 +0000

Hi Melanie, I am/have worked through all 8 of these, am figuring out who I can be my true self with, and this entire month my monster in law has been trying to play me. Her son ( my husband) isn’t falling for her crap either and her daughter, the golden child, has been pulling the silent treatment and other manipulative tactics on her. My husband has all 8 of these as well, he grew up the scapegoat. Today she called me at 416 am June 17 2022. I have strict phone boundaries with her, I go low contact, my nephews live across the street from her and they already have enough unnecessary drama with their mom and grandma. We are close with our nephews. Anyway, she’s been breaking all phone boundaries on purpose again. I have decided to block her cell number so she can’t call and text. I’ve also restricted her FB account and messenger. She was active con messenger the same time she called me, as always. I did not text or call her back. She didn’t call or text her son so it obviously was no t an emergency. I used to be afraid of what would happen if I stood by my boundaries. Went through hell from her through that first time around. Today, not. I’m keeping her cell number blocked this time. She wants to make me out to be the crazy drama maker she can. Doesn’t bother me anymore. Is it right to feel anger as I am healing?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:19:03 +0000

In reply to Lin.

It’s my pleasure Lin,

Cheers!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:18:46 +0000

In reply to Laurel Marshall.

Hi Laurel,

I always find it so inspirational to meet incredible people like you in our community!

Thank you for your post today, and please know how welcome you are.

I want you to know, from my heart to yours, that our children do follow no matter what age they are when we heal with NARP. The evidence of this is overwhelming. In the NARP community forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member , additionally, there is incredible support including proxy healing that you can get coaching with (all included for free with NARP) to assist this even more organically and beautifully.

If you haven’t already Laurel, I can’t recommend the NARP Forum enough!

Sending love to you and yours

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:13:23 +0000

In reply to Sandra.

Hi Sandra,

it’s really refreshing regarding how you truly get it!

Power and love to you Dear Sister!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:12:20 +0000

In reply to Ellen Forbus.

Hi Ellen,

I love Man from California’s supportive answer to you.

Dear Lady, please know at a deeper soul level, every soul is having the experience required for awakening and healing. If you were to divert her away, she would simply fall into another narcissistic relationship somewhere else.

What is the narcissistic experience in all of our lives? Hurting us enough to let go of a False Source (idols) to come home to true Source (Creator) and our own Souls.

That is what her soul is up to. Bless and accept this and be there for her, with love, when she starts to awaken and is ready to heal. Until then, keep healing you so that you can be a shining Light for yourself, her and the world.

I hope this helps

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:06:21 +0000

In reply to a.

Hi A,

If you google my name plus “our children” you will find information regarding how, as adults, with our beloved children (even your nieces) you can help lead the way for them.

There are many resources there which I hope can help you as well as help them.

Much love to you all

Mel 🙏💞🦋