Comments on: A Deeper Look At Anti-Hero

By: Hillary

Hillary — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:12:37 +0000

In reply to Brandi Paige. Hi Brandi, I don’t know if you’ll even see this reply as your comment was posted almost a year ago now but I just wanted to reply and say I read your whole comment and my heart really goes out to you. I’ve been right where you are too and you should be proud of yourself for at the very least recognizing it. Better late than never. Feel free to reach out if you ever need someone to talk to.

By: Morgan

Morgan — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 04:28:56 +0000

Hi,
I really loved reading this perspective on the song “Anti-Hero”. As a survivor of having a narcissistic mother I very much relate to everything Taylor Swift seems to be talking about. I love that she is able to articulate how victims of narcissistic abuse often get so fearful that they are actually the narcissist because they are always told that they are the problem.

By: Candeelyn

Candeelyn — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 12:04:54 +0000

In reply to Val. I totally agree with you. It’s mind bending. Unexplainable.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 06:43:40 +0000

In reply to judy.

Thank you Judy,

I’m so happy for you that you are out!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 06:42:55 +0000

In reply to Val.

Hi Val,

I’m glad you enjoyed this!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 06:42:06 +0000

In reply to Therese Dugan Phillips.

Hi Therese,

it’s my pleasure.

I hope it opens this up as well!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Kayla

Kayla — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 22:11:57 +0000

I got way too excited to see you tackling “Anti-Hero”. 😂 Taylor released a bonus track on the same album, “Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve,” and it’s a gut-wrenching account of the long-lasting effects of a toxic relationship with a “devil” who was seemingly much older and who was “a crisis of [her] faith.” While I can’t speak with any authority on her life, that song hits me in a very familiar place. It has me thinking that she’s a survivor of narcissistic abuse, as well.

By: Carrie

Carrie — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 12:14:37 +0000

In reply to Brandi Paige. Please join NARP. It’s worth it. You may want to remove your contact info from your post as well. It is open for EVERYONE to see!

By: judy

judy — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 08:35:04 +0000

Really enjoyed reading your argument Melanie. For me it was these two words: ‘everyone agrees’. That sealed it for me – she captures exactly that space where you cant tell who is the perpetrator – you or them? In my case ‘everyone agreed’ I had mental health issues. Hard to counter because I did by then – from living with him!

How good is it to be out of the cage. To anyone still struggling – keep going, you’ll get there.