Comments on: A Miracle Story About How Premi Gained Full Custody Of Her Children – Thriver Story #29

By: Kayla Eigner

Kayla Eigner — Sat, 09 Jul 2022 09:40:28 +0000

I feel like this is a sign in so many ways. I just signed up with the Narp program and now reading your story, Im a big fan of paramahansa yogananda and I have recieved all his lessons. I have meditated off and on but this inspires me to work with the lessons from our guru and Melanie’s. I’ve asked for help and he sent me right now this sign through your story thank you so much

By: Sharon Case

Sharon Case — Mon, 13 Jul 2020 17:54:26 +0000

In reply to premi. Thank you for sharing your story and I can tell by your demeanor that you are healed enough to tell the details without getting emotionally overwhelmed. This was recorded in 2015 when I was dealing with my own divorce and custody issues I wish that I had run into this sooner but I have finally found it.n

By: Melanie

Melanie — Wed, 07 Mar 2018 13:06:09 +0000

You are very lucky. The system was on your side. I am in Lebanon county, Pennsylvania and every agency here knows what my husband is doing and they let him get away with it. I filed assault charges last Nov. 2016. Again in March, when they picked him up he had drugs on him. I filed for divorce in March, lawyer waited a month to file. Didn’t listen to my concerns. Court case dragged out til October. He pled not guilty and took it to trial, he lied, had my boys lie on the stand.
Found guilty, did only 14 days in rehab. He took kids to his new place in October. He doesn’t show up for mediation, the same judge is handling our divorce and custody and doesn’t understand why we can’t work it out. My lawyer says just let him have the kids, they won’t obey the order if you get one. So I am here in marital home still, that I can’t afford and my kids pop in when they feel like it. They come for things, to steal and find information. I have piles of evidence, truth. Noone wants to hear it. I have been calm and patient, but now I have just as much anger at the system as the narc.
oh, he is also entitled to support since he has a paper that says they live with him. He controls every aspect of their lives and I have to pay even though my income is half the amount of my bills and I have still not got a settlement from divorce.
He is trying to ruin me on all levels when he is the one who did wrong in the marriage and the system is happily helping him. I just keep hanging on and staying strong waiting for karma, because the legal system is badly broken.

By: Sherice

Sherice — Tue, 11 Apr 2017 11:13:05 +0000

Premium, if you get this, you uplifted me today and gave me hope. Thank you.

I hope soon I can write my own success story and inspire others like you have.

Those two baby girls are going to live an incredible life because of you!!!! I am going to do the same for mine.

Thank you,

Sherice.

By: Denise

Denise — Fri, 24 Feb 2017 02:39:32 +0000

Thank you for sharing your story. My daughter is almost 16 months and my ex is fighting for overnight visits so he doesn’t have to pay support. We go back next week and I’m extremely nervous about what lies he has told his attorney (which he didn’t have the first time) and what he will lie about while there. I am much stronger today than I was in December. My attorney assures me that he will not get overnights… I hope she’s right.

By: Tama

Tama — Fri, 05 Feb 2016 17:26:51 +0000

Hi Premi, thank you for sharing your incredible story. A strange thing happened when I heard your story. I was listening to another one of the empowered love radio shows near bedtime and I was drifting off to sleep. In my dream, I actually kept hearing your voice telling your story. I woke up and realized the episode had switched to yours. I went back and listened to your story again to see whether my dream had actually captured parts of your story. It had…and I believe it was a sign for me to listen to it. I resonated with the feeling of numbness and powerlessness you expressed and felt all the emotions. It is difficult when you have been through it more than once and feel stuck in the cycle as I have been. I want to break the cycle once and for all. I believe your story was a message to many people and a wake up call…in my case literally! ;)…Blessings to you and your daughters <3

By: premi

premi — Sun, 29 Nov 2015 17:36:46 +0000

In reply to premi.

One more thing… Deanna, I felt like you are feeling also, during the module work, but I kept doing them and trusted the process. I made the forum my community and got on and read people’s stories and Mel’s writing every day. I took inspiring stories from spiritual teachers that I like with me during the day and kept a happy thought that I repeated throughout the day. Before you go to sleep at night is a very, very important time to surround yourself with positive thoughts and affirmations, even doing the module right before you go to sleep. You spend 8 hours or however long you sleep in the subconscious repeating the last thing you thought or were exposed to right before you fell asleep. It’s a perfect time to feed yourself the positive images and uplifting words of your highest self. These subconscious thoughts and images will create your waking reality. You will see that you will wake up happier and more energetic. Sometimes, I even say to myself: “Tomorrow is going to be the best day of my life.” 🙂

By: premi

premi — Sun, 29 Nov 2015 17:29:32 +0000

In reply to Deanna.

Deanna,
I’m pretty sure you don’t need to worry if you’re doing it right. The processes that are happening are taking place on a subconscious level. You just need to relax and be open. When you respond “Yes” at the beginning of the module, that’s the main part from your side. When you say “yes” it opens you energetically to the process. The thing that worked for me was the determination to cut everything else out of my life – but I had to do it 3 times, each very painful, before I even got to Mel’s modules. Once I got to the modules, I was in such desperation to be healed, that, that energy of sheer desperation fueled my quick progress. Here’s a quotation that helped/s me: “Environment is stronger than will power.” – Paramahansa Yogananda

Blessings,
premi

By: Deanna

Deanna — Sun, 29 Nov 2015 16:25:50 +0000

Hi Prima,
I really appreciate you sharing your story. I’m still in the process of going through the modules. I know how much I am hurting and need to do the work on myself. I just get kinda confused when in the shift not sure I’m doing it correctly. I know when I have done them in past my heart is open like you feel as though it’s breathing your heart is breathing itself. Devoting my time to me and putting others next is my goal to heal. I want this I just have little strength and been drinking alcohol to ease the pain instead and hanging around unhealthy influences that gain me a sense of I’m not so bad but I know I need to be alone. After 18 years of marriage and all the abuse you spoke of trying to gain more strength. Thanks for sharing, truly inspiring. Deanna