Comments on: Are Narcissists Evil? A Thriver TV Halloween Special!

By: Luisa

Luisa — Tue, 19 May 2020 01:10:09 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. Amen Melanie this is so true, I love your work and all you do🙏❤️

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 31 Oct 2018 22:22:35 +0000

In reply to Gerard.

Hi Gerard,

That is very true. I also suffered brain damage and nervous system physiological injuries that I was told could not heal and could only be managed.

Yet, when I internally released the traumas driving those conditions, my brain and internal systems healed to states far superior than even before the injuries.

This is the power of how we can heal when we address the trauma responsible for dis-ease. Because without it our organic self is wellbeing.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 31 Oct 2018 22:01:04 +0000

In reply to KathyAAC.

Hi Kathy,

Thank you Dear Lady for your comment and I love that we don’t have to agree on everything!

The world is such a richer and more interesting place with different viewpoints which can simultaneously be ‘right’.

So much love to you.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: Gerard

Gerard — Wed, 31 Oct 2018 20:02:51 +0000

I really may agree, but I miss the possibility of neurological damage in brain. Like developing brainconnections when learning to play music, deterioration and damage, due to trauma, can happen too.

By: KathyAAC

KathyAAC — Wed, 31 Oct 2018 13:58:04 +0000

Well now, I respect your views Mel although I am not in total agreement with your cocept of there being no evil people just people acting out of trauma. I consider people like Stalin, Hitler, PolPat, those people who have caused the genocide of millions of people to be evil and also serial killers to be evil in my humble opinion. Denying the reality of horrendous acts as not being evil seems to be a pleasant fantasy but not reality for me personally. I appreciate your program and I’m using it for my personal self empowerment and growth. As you state in your video, we don’t have to agree with everything, we can agree to disagree yet still work together for the good.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Thu, 15 Feb 2018 18:57:01 +0000

In reply to Tony.

Oh good for you!
I spent 20 of my 44 years of life w Narc husband and divorced this week! Thanks to Narp I have excellent settlement and feel my children are safe even when they have to stay with him.
So, good for me too 😆

By: Jenny

Jenny — Thu, 15 Feb 2018 18:52:19 +0000

In reply to J Mathew. I have been thinking the SAME THING about Peace Prize!!! I even looked up how to nominate her! But it’s something like you already have to have earned one or something to qualify as a nominator.. but don’t let that stop anyone from trying!!!!

By: Jenny

Jenny — Thu, 15 Feb 2018 18:48:35 +0000

I was in tears by the end!!! Oh the thought that the narcs themselves will eventually be returned to Love is such an an unbelievably free-ing concept!! and I resonate deeply. Because of course that’s true! Something shifted massively in my codependent nature that now lets me be released from trying to *still* ‘take care’ of the abusive people in my life. They will be just fine. And for me to keep being hooked in to their antics and pressures on me is utterly useless to All.. release release !! It feels so good. Wish I could word things as beautifully as Mel!; she sure did hit home for me.

By: J Mathew

J Mathew — Tue, 23 Jan 2018 14:04:19 +0000

Melanie,
You are so much fun!! Love the costume!

Even though our denominations or main belief systems have different names and use a different vocabulary, most of our beliefs and concepts are the same. It amazes me every time you speak or write to see just how identical your thoughts are to my faith. So far after reading virtually every article, blog, watching all your MTE videos, and using the NARP program and forum, we diverge on only about 2% of the content.

I have always thought that N’s would go straight to heaven after death (if there is only one life and heaven is not only a state of being, but also a place, which I believe), because these people were so damaged that they deemed life too unsafe to live and everything they do after that is either a desperate cry for help or a misguided attempt to defend themselves. Even at a young age I could see the N’s didn’t really have control over themselves. God bless them. At the same time, some people are tricky. Do they have some real self left? Are they salvageable? I think that’s why people get caught up in the “practical” or superficial side of things. B/c they really wanted to know if they should try to keep a relationship going with someone or simply disappear. Should we recommend NARP to them? Should we wait on the sidelines until they decide healing is worth it to them? It would be great to be able to see inside them and know if there really is hope for them or not. But either way, we understand we need to get on with taking care of ourselves.

God bless you for sharing your life and love with the world. Your work and philanthropy deserve the Nobel Peace Prize, and nothing less.