Dear Ned, this is approximately 3 years later but I wonder if this is an issue except for the chance that you might never read this. Actually, I think as soon as guns get involved this is a very serious issue – so probably this was the right decision. But at the same time I wonder: You are not even noting the fact that you were who raised your kid (or am I missunderstanding something here?) and most probably your daughter’s narcissism has its roots in her childhood – at least it sounds so *to me*. So, I think you should consider trying to reconnect because you are basically repeating what she might be remembering of her childhood-connection towards you: Lack of attention, lack of love. This appears to me as a systematic problem in your relationship, note how you say “… [b]etter tha[n] living with the N spoiling everything for everyone.” Your own daughter is “the ” instead of your daughter.

http://foxrangegroup.com/

Wish I could have seen this in 2012. I just recently realized that I am an empath living with a narcissist. I’ve spent over a decade feeling like something was wrong with me for being so sensitive- and my narc husband enjoys reinforcing these feelings. Thanks for COVID-19 for giving me time and resources to understand this and begin healing myself. I look forward to living soon!

Hi Ruby,

My heart goes out to you in this difficult time.

Ruby, unfortunately it can be very difficult to make a narcissist do anything at all that they don’t want to do, which leaves you with the only choice of taking control of the situation yourself.

Is the property in your name, and can you get him evicted?

Are you able to leave yourself?

Also, I highly recommend coming into my free webinar ww.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to discover more about how you can empower yourself and break free from him.

I hope that this can help.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚