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		By: Katherine		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1237688</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katherine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2020 02:33:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello Melanie, I was looking back over the comment section and realized that you had comments dated as far back as 2013.  Your advice and comments are so relevant and help thousands of people all over the world to heal and achieve their  potential. You now you have reached me all the way in Mexico, and believe me, I need it. A year ago, I left my marriage of 30 years. It has been by fare the hardest and most painful year of my life but I know in my heart that I am doing the right thing. My husband still refuses to let me collect ANY of my personal belongings from our home and I have been cut off from all of our finances. I have also  uncovered huge lies in our relationship which have left me absolutely bewildered and at times worried for my own security. I cannot help but wonder that if  he is capable of such huge lies, then what else might he do? Fortunately I have a good lawyer and many supportive friends who all see how horrible he is behaving. I have hope that justice will be served and that the courts will eventually grant me financial support and a settlement that I can use to rebuild my life. I am also in isolation  still in the midst of the pandemic and, believe me,  there have been some very, very low moments but with the help of your blog,  videos, and emails, I am beginning to believe that I can be happy again. You have become a lifeline for me and I want to thank you and all of your team ! I feel understood, I have hope. THANK YOU!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Melanie, I was looking back over the comment section and realized that you had comments dated as far back as 2013.  Your advice and comments are so relevant and help thousands of people all over the world to heal and achieve their  potential. You now you have reached me all the way in Mexico, and believe me, I need it. A year ago, I left my marriage of 30 years. It has been by fare the hardest and most painful year of my life but I know in my heart that I am doing the right thing. My husband still refuses to let me collect ANY of my personal belongings from our home and I have been cut off from all of our finances. I have also  uncovered huge lies in our relationship which have left me absolutely bewildered and at times worried for my own security. I cannot help but wonder that if  he is capable of such huge lies, then what else might he do? Fortunately I have a good lawyer and many supportive friends who all see how horrible he is behaving. I have hope that justice will be served and that the courts will eventually grant me financial support and a settlement that I can use to rebuild my life. I am also in isolation  still in the midst of the pandemic and, believe me,  there have been some very, very low moments but with the help of your blog,  videos, and emails, I am beginning to believe that I can be happy again. You have become a lifeline for me and I want to thank you and all of your team ! I feel understood, I have hope. THANK YOU!</p>
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		By: Lerwintshuma		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1113296</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lerwintshuma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2018 17:51:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Your article helps more than I think melanie.I cant explain my whole story that I have been bruised and brutalized by  narsisist..my focus now is for me to heal my 30 year old would since I was a child my father used to beat me and told me.that if man loves you no one will love you...you are a witch..my brother from another mother used to rape me while I was young and I didn&#039;t speak out...you are right that we attract narcissist bec we are empty inside we have anger,recentment we want pple to fix our life instead of us doing it...thanks melanie xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your article helps more than I think melanie.I cant explain my whole story that I have been bruised and brutalized by  narsisist..my focus now is for me to heal my 30 year old would since I was a child my father used to beat me and told me.that if man loves you no one will love you&#8230;you are a witch..my brother from another mother used to rape me while I was young and I didn&#8217;t speak out&#8230;you are right that we attract narcissist bec we are empty inside we have anger,recentment we want pple to fix our life instead of us doing it&#8230;thanks melanie xo</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1018992</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2018 04:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1018907&quot;&gt;Essie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Essie,

sweetheart (fellow angel) I am so, so happy for you.

You are doing such an awesome job and please know other stuff will come up - but each time it does say to yourself &quot;I bless and accept this and I&#039;ve GOT THIS, because its just another trauma to release and free myself from&quot;

Hun, that&#039;s truly all you have to do, and then Source and Life has got you - TOTALLY!

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1018907">Essie</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Essie,</p>
<p>sweetheart (fellow angel) I am so, so happy for you.</p>
<p>You are doing such an awesome job and please know other stuff will come up &#8211; but each time it does say to yourself &#8220;I bless and accept this and I&#8217;ve GOT THIS, because its just another trauma to release and free myself from&#8221;</p>
<p>Hun, that&#8217;s truly all you have to do, and then Source and Life has got you &#8211; TOTALLY!</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Essie		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1018907</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Essie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2018 23:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh my Mel-

Not only have I felt the light and seen the light inside of me from your NARP program but I feel enlightened!  I have a long way to go but I have to tell you something that just happened 5 min ago.  I walked outside to check my mailbox, I just moved back into my home a few weeks ago after living with my almost narcissistic ex-husband elsewhere, and I found on my door handle a notification of my Water/Utility bill being cut off of it wasn’t paid (one of many bills he has not paid due to Narcissistic supply) and usually I would be burning inside from head to toe - luckily I caught the bill last week and paid for the 2 months due.  I had to sell quite a bit of my couture shoes, jewelry and handbags just to be able to eat and get by without losing my integrity and my basic needs.  That feeling of saying to myself “I got this” is because I found you and your profound wisdom that is helping me grow (lots of growing pains on day 9 I have been utterly under the weather with major depression) your program brought me out of it today, which is absolutely unbelievable.  I have worked on Module 1 for over 9 days now and I feel good and can feel it coming the “Thriving Life” I once had - it will be back.. better than ever!  I can’t thank you enough - you are truly doing the work of an angel! 🤗]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my Mel-</p>
<p>Not only have I felt the light and seen the light inside of me from your NARP program but I feel enlightened!  I have a long way to go but I have to tell you something that just happened 5 min ago.  I walked outside to check my mailbox, I just moved back into my home a few weeks ago after living with my almost narcissistic ex-husband elsewhere, and I found on my door handle a notification of my Water/Utility bill being cut off of it wasn’t paid (one of many bills he has not paid due to Narcissistic supply) and usually I would be burning inside from head to toe &#8211; luckily I caught the bill last week and paid for the 2 months due.  I had to sell quite a bit of my couture shoes, jewelry and handbags just to be able to eat and get by without losing my integrity and my basic needs.  That feeling of saying to myself “I got this” is because I found you and your profound wisdom that is helping me grow (lots of growing pains on day 9 I have been utterly under the weather with major depression) your program brought me out of it today, which is absolutely unbelievable.  I have worked on Module 1 for over 9 days now and I feel good and can feel it coming the “Thriving Life” I once had &#8211; it will be back.. better than ever!  I can’t thank you enough &#8211; you are truly doing the work of an angel! 🤗</p>
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		By: Leanne Hartford		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1007052</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leanne Hartford]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2018 23:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie, you might want to change the word &quot;pooped&quot; to &quot;popped&quot;  !]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie, you might want to change the word &#8220;pooped&#8221; to &#8220;popped&#8221;  !</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1005670</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2018 05:28:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1005580&quot;&gt;Angela Diane Tate&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Angie,

I always have the deepest joy in connecting with Christians and knowing that we are so together with this and aiming for the same healing and salvation.

Blessings and such gratitude to you Angie and your beautiful post.

Mel xo

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1005580">Angela Diane Tate</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Angie,</p>
<p>I always have the deepest joy in connecting with Christians and knowing that we are so together with this and aiming for the same healing and salvation.</p>
<p>Blessings and such gratitude to you Angie and your beautiful post.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Angela Diane Tate		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1005580</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela Diane Tate]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2018 00:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

First, all I can do inside my heart/soul is to jump and leap at discovering how the true selves were born into our parents set generational pre-programmed identities. 

Awe....which is not my identity at all! 

I praise God for this unveiling of truth! 
I know some of us are Christians and others are not. But what you do sounds like the truth in the word of God (which most of us do not read with intention of doing). The thing is it says to &quot;love our neighbors, as we love ourselves&quot; &#038; another verse says &quot;husbands love your wife, as you love yourselves!&quot;

Here is the key, how can we love anyone else outside ourselves if we do not know how to love ourselves period....ugh!!! 

You are teaching us how we can and are divinely created to love ourselves first by replacing all these self-destructive negativity beliefs into healthy belief systems. I love how you provided tools that I can immediately adopt into my life. I want to live my true self and identity not from my ancestors or pre-programmed life :community, school or career life, I was raised in!!! I have not worked and incorporated all these tools inside my inner self yet. All I sense is freedom is close and this alone will change the entire trajectory of my life and purpose. 

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 

Finding you has been a life long search for wanting what I always long for a healthy fulfilling abundant life! 

I have suffered allot of issues and now know why! I see this starts with me. My insides, inner and hidden subconscious parts of my soul. 
Finally, I am beginning to have hope to see that if I do the work, one day can be ready, like you have found in yourself, a wonderful supportive loving secured partner in this grace of life! I cannot wait to meet who this person will be after I do the self partnering work! 

I am in between jobs and once, I am employed again plan to invest in your NARP program! What a reward this will be.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 

Blessings &#038; Soon to be Thriving,
Angie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>First, all I can do inside my heart/soul is to jump and leap at discovering how the true selves were born into our parents set generational pre-programmed identities. </p>
<p>Awe&#8230;.which is not my identity at all! </p>
<p>I praise God for this unveiling of truth!<br />
I know some of us are Christians and others are not. But what you do sounds like the truth in the word of God (which most of us do not read with intention of doing). The thing is it says to &#8220;love our neighbors, as we love ourselves&#8221; &amp; another verse says &#8220;husbands love your wife, as you love yourselves!&#8221;</p>
<p>Here is the key, how can we love anyone else outside ourselves if we do not know how to love ourselves period&#8230;.ugh!!! </p>
<p>You are teaching us how we can and are divinely created to love ourselves first by replacing all these self-destructive negativity beliefs into healthy belief systems. I love how you provided tools that I can immediately adopt into my life. I want to live my true self and identity not from my ancestors or pre-programmed life :community, school or career life, I was raised in!!! I have not worked and incorporated all these tools inside my inner self yet. All I sense is freedom is close and this alone will change the entire trajectory of my life and purpose. </p>
<p>Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! </p>
<p>Finding you has been a life long search for wanting what I always long for a healthy fulfilling abundant life! </p>
<p>I have suffered allot of issues and now know why! I see this starts with me. My insides, inner and hidden subconscious parts of my soul.<br />
Finally, I am beginning to have hope to see that if I do the work, one day can be ready, like you have found in yourself, a wonderful supportive loving secured partner in this grace of life! I cannot wait to meet who this person will be after I do the self partnering work! </p>
<p>I am in between jobs and once, I am employed again plan to invest in your NARP program! What a reward this will be.</p>
<p>Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! </p>
<p>Blessings &amp; Soon to be Thriving,<br />
Angie</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-990160</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2018 03:39:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-988814&quot;&gt;Don martin&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Don,

I am so pleased this resonates with you. Thank you for your lovely words and many blessings and love to you too.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-988814">Don martin</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Don,</p>
<p>I am so pleased this resonates with you. Thank you for your lovely words and many blessings and love to you too.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Don martin		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/belief-systems-and-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-988814</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Don martin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2018 02:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello Mel I agree that there Are alot of humans with morbid believe systems,and thank goodness weve seen the light and  are learning our lessons of truth,and recviving the ocean of abundance with gratitude, thank you. For letting your light shine and  being a messenger of the absolute truth. Hugs and lots of love Don martin.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Mel I agree that there Are alot of humans with morbid believe systems,and thank goodness weve seen the light and  are learning our lessons of truth,and recviving the ocean of abundance with gratitude, thank you. For letting your light shine and  being a messenger of the absolute truth. Hugs and lots of love Don martin.</p>
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