Melanie Tonia Evans

Shifts Happen: Healing The Traumas Closest To Our Hearts – Our Children #2

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  I can't tell you how excited I am for today's Shifts Happen Episode! If you caught last week's episode, you would have seen how Devon and I did a Quanta Freedom Healing together - in relation to her trauma regarding her son's anxieties. The following is so vital about this 2-part series ... As I stated last week, this is the topic within Narcissistic Abuse Recovery that I am the MOST passionate about. I am motivated beyond measure to find a way for us, as adults, to lead the way - to create a template of Inner wellbeing and health, Unity Consciousness, soul and emotional intelligence and personal power for our children. (more…)

 

I can’t tell you how excited I am for today’s Shifts Happen Episode!

If you caught last week’s episode, you would have seen how Devon and I did a Quanta Freedom Healing together – in relation to her trauma regarding her son’s anxieties.

The following is so vital about this 2-part series … As I stated last week, this is the topic within Narcissistic Abuse Recovery that I am the MOST passionate about.

I am motivated beyond measure to find a way for us, as adults, to lead the way – to create a template of Inner wellbeing and health, Unity Consciousness, soul and emotional intelligence and personal power for our children.

What To Do If Your Child Has Narcissistic Tendencies

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  If you are currently agonising over this fear or potential reality I want you to know my heart goes out to you. We all know that ultimately we can divorce a partner, break business ties with people, and even walk away from family members – but WHAT do we do when dealing with the trauma and drama of our own narcissistic child? There definitely are people in the Community who have had no option but to go No Contact with their narcissistic children, however for some of you there may be hope ... that the rifts, behaviour and issues can heal. The following are the pivotal questions that so many parents in this Community ask … (more…)

 

If you are currently agonising over this fear or potential reality I want you to know my heart goes out to you.

We all know that ultimately we can divorce a partner, break business ties with people, and even walk away from family members – but WHAT do we do when dealing with the trauma and drama of our own narcissistic child?

There definitely are people in the Community who have had no option but to go No Contact with their narcissistic children, however for some of you there may be hope … that the rifts, behaviour and issues can heal.

The following are the pivotal questions that so many parents in this Community ask …

How To Co-Parent With A Narcissist – The Foundation

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  I get asked this all the time … and I really want to do quite a few episodes on this topic for Thriver TV, because I am totally passionate about helping heal our children and our future generations. I know that many of you in this Community are dealing with all sorts of fear and pain regarding your children – such as co-parenting with a narcissist, and / or seeing the effects on your sons and daughters after you being involved with a narcissist – whether the narcissist was their parent or not. And as parents, we would do anything for our children, we would even lay down our lives for them. But maybe we haven’t realised that the ways we have been lecturing and prescribing whilst distressed and triggered has not been helping them at all. (more…)

 

I get asked this all the time … and I really want to do quite a few episodes on this topic for Thriver TV, because I am totally passionate about helping heal our children and our future generations.

I know that many of you in this Community are dealing with all sorts of fear and pain regarding your children – such as co-parenting with a narcissist, and / or seeing the effects on your sons and daughters after you being involved with a narcissist – whether the narcissist was their parent or not.

And as parents, we would do anything for our children, we would even lay down our lives for them. But maybe we haven’t realised that the ways we have been lecturing and prescribing whilst distressed and triggered has not been helping them at all.

A Miracle Story About How Premi Gained Full Custody Of Her Children – Thriver Story #29

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How We Become Better Parents As We Heal

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The reason I really wanted to explore this topic in an article is because I am very passionate about our children and future generations. I so believe the shift in consciousness on our planet needs to start with us, as the caretakers of our children and their future children’s emotional evolution. So many parents try to fix and help their children deal with narcissistic abuse, but don’t realise that operating from a tormented, agonised emotional state truly makes matters worse. It grants the narcissist more bullets to shoot you with and incites them to use your children as weapons of war. (more…)

The reason I really wanted to explore this topic in an article is because I am very passionate about our children and future generations. I so believe the shift in consciousness on our planet needs to start with us, as the caretakers of our children and their future children’s emotional evolution.

So many parents try to fix and help their children deal with narcissistic abuse, but don’t realise that operating from a tormented, agonised emotional state truly makes matters worse. It grants the narcissist more bullets to shoot you with and incites them to use your children as weapons of war.

Interview with Nicolle Edward – Founder of Rize Up Australia

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This week I did an interview with Nicolle Edward, the CEO and Founder of Rize Up Australia. Rize Up is a community driven organisation dedicated to educating, empowering and ending domestic and family violence. We all know that domestic and intimate partner violence sadly is epidemic. Recently in Australia there was a shocking week with two women murdered in broad daylight, and also a child and a grandparent murdered. These issues are all over the world, and Rize Up is taking a stand by rallying community resources to assist women who need to flee, in order to be safe and re-start their lives. (more…)

This week I did an interview with Nicolle Edward, the CEO and Founder of Rize Up Australia.

Rize Up is a community driven organisation dedicated to educating, empowering and ending domestic and family violence.

We all know that domestic and intimate partner violence sadly is epidemic. Recently in Australia there was a shocking week with two women murdered in broad daylight, and also a child and a grandparent murdered.

These issues are all over the world, and Rize Up is taking a stand by rallying community resources to assist women who need to flee, in order to be safe and re-start their lives.

What Is Epigenetics? And What Does It Have To Do With Narcissistic Abuse?

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A couple of weeks ago, I had the most wonderful evening … I went to see Bruce Lipton live. Bruce Lipton is an internationally recognized leader in bridging science and spirit. He is a stem cell biologist, bestselling author of The Biology of Belief and recipient of the 2009 Goi Peace Award. I love his work, as well as Joe Dispenza’s, as my healing model correlates strongly with both of their work. Today in my article I want to talk about “Epigenetics.” (more…)

A couple of weeks ago, I had the most wonderful evening …

I went to see Bruce Lipton live.

Bruce Lipton is an internationally recognized leader in bridging science and spirit. He is a stem cell biologist, bestselling author of The Biology of Belief and recipient of the 2009 Goi Peace Award.

I love his work, as well as Joe Dispenza’s, as my healing model correlates strongly with both of their work.

Today in my article I want to talk about “Epigenetics.”

Does Over Valuing Our Children Create Narcissists?

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This topic was going viral through the internet not long ago … with articles such as these: Do parents nurture narcissists by pouring on the praise? and Don't want to raise a narcissist, stop telling your children they're special. And I really think it's important to have a discussion about it. Why? (more…)

This topic was going viral through the internet not long ago … with articles such as these: Do parents nurture narcissists by pouring on the praise? and Don’t want to raise a narcissist, stop telling your children they’re special.

And I really think it’s important to have a discussion about it.

Why?

Healing Our Children By Proxy – Father’s Day Special

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Click the play button below to listen: http://www.mediafire.com/download/5mr13rl59rht4e6/Ian_and_Michael_2.mp3 Or download the show here. I have a really special Father's Show for you ... and within this show I am interviewing a wonderful father. It isn't Father's Day in other parts of the world, but this Sunday in Australia it is. (more…)

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I have a really special Father’s Show for you … and within this show I am interviewing a wonderful father.

It isn’t Father’s Day in other parts of the world, but this Sunday in Australia it is.

Parent’s Empowering Themselves For Their Children’s Sake Part 2

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