Are you still reading Melanie’s blogs? suggest you do so, and engage in dialogs. Also something that will help immensely:
Falun Gong. check it out at
http://www.falundafa.org
there are free downloads and links to DVDs for the five very gentle exercises that will help clear your head.

I totally empathise with your pain! Many women have had long periods of time on their own before getting into a relationship – and believed thay had it sorted! You are not alone.. I certainly have been in this position in the past too.

You have expressed you know that you’re feeling pain, and that you’re not resolved and aligned with your goal of love.

The hurt and anger and inability to forgive is normal, human and understandable, yet is disadvantageous given what you would like to acheive – namely real, safe, fulfilling love. Hence the need to shift out of this pain, else having to only re-live it again (Law of Attraction).

My belief Lisa is totally that we cannot acheieve shifts on deep painful stuff (that we can’t get past) through trying to deal with it on a human / normal level through our minds. At this level we are only working with the conscious mind, which is reacting to the pain that is cellular and emotional(body) based. The mind at best can only attempt mangement of this pain, not true resolution.

This is why standard psychology has such a low success rate. And any success generally is a long and drawn out process with at best gradual improvement.

True shift work must occur DIRECTLY with the unconscious and is a quantum leap that is so much more powerful than information delivered at the conscious mind level.

This was the breakthrough experience I discovered personally years ago – when all of a sudden by stumbling on kinesiology (something I had never previously given any credence to) my emotional agonies started to fall away, and a new me began to emerge. Up until that point I had accessed every self-development piece of information that I could put my hands on – and yet in 2 sessions the results far surpassed anything I had experienced within 10 years of counselling, seminars, retreats and books.

This naturally led to my passion with vibrational shift work and to becoming a kinesiologist, theta healer and then developing Quanta Freedom Healing.

It could be argued ‘this just worked for me’. Yet now that I perform vibration healing en masse every week, I see virually without exception every person shift stuff that they couldn’t shift before, and often times instantly.

I now understand intimately how we are wired as human beings and what it takes to get real change…and like so many of our systems – political , economic, eductional and religious,the present psychiatry / psychology model is terribly antiquated and out of date.

Our mind cannot move past the human place of ‘injustice’ ‘victim’, whereas when we have the shift created vibrationally we KNOW a COMPLETELY different reality.

This True Self place (who we really are)is gratitide, peace, release and pure vibrational alignment and knowing of what we can now acheive. The vibrational shifts create a state that is just KNOWN, wheras our ‘head’ would have to keep re-affirming it, analysing it, trying to maintain it, and checking up on it – (similar to planting a seed, and then continually digging it up to have a look).

In short our head does not do KNOWING – it is our KNOWING that does KNOWING, and this is our True Self state.

When we KNOW this state (on any particular topic) the old pain, fear and victimisation is no longer our reality – it just doesn’t exist….Many people who experience vibrational shifts have this experience immediately – literally…and for some it takes a little longer – but the experience always far surpasses contemporary attempts.

If you would like to listen to three women who moved from completely broken to empowered with the use of vibrational healing, this may help explain..

I hope this explanation of what is ‘intangible’, yet the real vibrational truth (and easily accessed) helps! http://www.blogtalkradio.com/empowered-love/2011/09/06/interview-with-a-victim-of-narcissistic-abuse

My suggestion is try it! You have nothing to lose, and your True Self to gain…

Lisa & Sue I’ve been getting Quanta healings with Mel now weekly this is after having started reading her work early last year w/very ridiculously no funds to then buying her ebooks all whilst recieving abuse counselling by 2 counselors 4 Narsastistic abuse or domestic violence. This year I decided stuff it get the healings done put it on ur credit card pay it off Just Do It so I did. Booked 3 healings & boy I wish I’d done them as soon as I’d found Mel’s sight. Please please please get a healing done Feel the Freedom immediately. I’ve done all types of healings counseling tarot cards, numerology, psychology etc etc & non have helped me ask fast as Quanta Healing in gaining my sanity, dignity My Heart My Health my strength…Melanie can Help You. Please book a session 4 yourself…much Love xx