Comments on: Cognitive Dissonance – How Our Mind Tricks Us Into Staying

By: Luisa

Luisa — Tue, 17 Mar 2020 19:32:35 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. Hi Mel, I have been in the cognitive dissonance all my life, everything I have done in life was from a wounded child trying to fix it all

By: rohit

rohit — Mon, 25 Nov 2019 05:58:09 +0000

thanks for the information

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 27 Mar 2019 19:43:29 +0000

In reply to HARRIET LOZEA.

Hi Harriet,

Please know when you turn inwards to free yourself from the hooks within, and keep doing that, thatvall if these feelings will melt away.

Havevyou connected to my free inner transformational resources yet?

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse ?

They will help a lot.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: HARRIET LOZEA

HARRIET LOZEA — Wed, 27 Mar 2019 01:29:57 +0000

I have learned so much from you Melanie. I looked inward went to my child inside. I felt a lot of relief because I understood what I was doing and why. I’ve been no contact now for 4 weeks but there have been times that I wanted to break down. I haven’t. She has a new, I hesitate to say Supply, but she does have a sexual partner that has money. I don’t know anything else about the relationship. where did frees me knowing that she has somebody else. she has not tried to Hoover me. there’s a part of me that would like her to Hoover me maybe because it would let me know if she really cared about me.. I’ve been told that if she calls I should answer call and just act nonchalant. I don’t know if I can do that especially because I initiated the no contact. I still feel vulnerable. it’s very very hard for me to realize who she really is. I still have the hope that she is normal. basically I feel better not having her in my life as difficult as it is to admit that.

By: HARRIET LOZEA

HARRIET LOZEA — Wed, 27 Mar 2019 01:25:28 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. I have learned so much from you Melanie. I looked inward went to my child inside. I felt a lot of relief because I understood what I was doing and why. I've been no contact now for 4 weeks but there have been times that I wanted to break down. I haven't. She has a new, I hesitate to say Supply, but she does have a sexual partner that has money. I don't know anything else about the relationship. where did frees me knowing that she has somebody else. she has not tried to Hoover me. there's a part of me that would like her to Hoover me maybe because it would let me know if she really cared about me.. I've been told that if she calls I should answer call and just act nonchalant. I don't know if I can do that especially because I initiated the no contact. I still feel vulnerable. it's very very hard for me to realize who she really is. I still have the hope that she is normal. basically I feel better not having her in my life as difficult as it is to admit that.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 22:45:42 +0000

In reply to Greer.

Hi Greer,

You are so welcome Lovely Lady.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: Greer

Greer — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 00:44:28 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hello Mel
thanks for these two replies to my 2 posts – yes I am using NARP and am on the forum… still finding my feet with it. Have found so much spot-on info on your blog too that is supporting me… I so appreciate the energy in this community!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 30 Jun 2018 04:19:46 +0000

In reply to Greer.

I totally agree Greer,

It happen to my brain too a complete psychotic breakdown.

Yet when the trauma is released and heals, so does the condition.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 30 Jun 2018 04:17:30 +0000

In reply to Greer.

Hi Greer,

Have you been working with NARP? When we release the trauma that is causing the cognitive dissonance then we can heal and come back into clarity.

If you haven’t connected to NARP yet I’d love you to come into my free webinar https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse where you can experience what it is to start shifting the trauma out.

If you are already working with the NARP program I would strongly suggest connecting to our NARP Forum in order to work with the Moderators and or myself to start directly addressing and healing the cognitive dissonance with NARP Module work.

You can do this here: https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕❤️