Comments on: Conquering The Terror Of Being With Another Narcissist https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 07 Aug 2018 05:28:58 +0000 hourly 1 By: cindy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-889050 Sat, 24 Jun 2017 00:28:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-889050 In reply to Claire.

I have been damaged in the same way as you have. clare. I feel as though this is my wake up call. everyone I have in my life seemed to display the same narcissist qualities. I cannot connect to anyone right now. so i feel very all alone. its my time to reconnect to me, i guess. I feel a pull toward another person that seems damaged. is it real? I just cannot bring myself to try. how can I overcome this feeling? help melanie.

]]> By: cindy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-889047 Sat, 24 Jun 2017 00:03:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-889047 I have been damaged by my N ex-husband to the point where I have met a shy man who seems very intimidated to speak to me. So I have avoided him to the point of scaring him off. I feel my initial fear and unsettlement did this. When can we know we are healed enough to let someone in? I feel really bad that he was hurt. He does not know why I pulled away. He seems very hurt by it.

]]> By: Wide awake https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-875292 Fri, 26 May 2017 08:22:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-875292 Thanks Mel

Great video. All the penny’s are finally dropping into place for me now and I am really grasping a lot of the concepts and practicing and playing with them.

One thing I have noticed about myself is coming from a place of lack and so within, so without. I know it’s there but something is blocking me or there is a bit more understandable required to flip the switch in me to flip the places of lack into a place of abundance.

Have you got any words or wisdom or previous blogs specific to that topic. I am a Narper.

Thanks again.

]]> By: Jane https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-875080 Fri, 26 May 2017 03:36:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-875080 Beautiful video– as always. Thank you, Mel.

]]> By: Nicoleta https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-874183 Thu, 25 May 2017 06:09:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-874183 Thank you, Melanie. You are one of the best teachers I have ever had and learnt so much from you.
I am using NARP and wish to get the best results I can from it.
Have a great day!

]]> By: Lady Jedi https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-873407 Wed, 24 May 2017 01:14:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-873407 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thanks for being my anchor (together with QFH) in this painful reverse-culture-shock situation… Can’t express how grateful I am that your perspective shifting work is on my path right now. It does encourage me to feel I’ll come up on the other side stronger, like it was the case for my experience abroad, which started off as painful but eventually set me free. Much love xxx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-873401 Tue, 23 May 2017 23:58:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-873401 In reply to Diana.

Hi Diana,

that is wonderful that you are not taken in anymore, that is such shift in the right direction 🙂

Please do know that the shortened version of Module 1 and / or the Goal Setting Module in the NARP Program are powerful tools that take an hour to work with.

It does take effort for us to get to the other side, but our entire Life is on the Line … the joy of living it as a True Self … and it is SO worth it.

Much love and many blessings to you.

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-873400 Tue, 23 May 2017 23:54:59 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-873400 In reply to Gina.

Hi Gina,

I am so pleased you have left and are moving into clarity.

I ADORE what you have said “get busy living” it is so true …

I am so pleased I could help, and sending you strength and hugs!

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/conquering-the-terror-of-being-with-another-narcissist/#comment-873399 Tue, 23 May 2017 23:53:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4885#comment-873399 In reply to Lady Jedi.

Hi Lady Jedi,

I am pleased you enjoyed it.

I know so well, that it is not “the outer” dictating our reality – truly. So all you need to do LJ is keep up levelling and be YOU and show up as the radiant True Self that you are.

And just keep Moduliing away the fears that are arising for you.

Of course you do not need to compromise you! You may be surprised what happens (even in this environment) when you shift what has arisen for you …. and it will (as clearing arising traumas always do) take you into an even higher better place within to date!!

There is no mistake in where you have ended up location wise and what is going on internally for you right now!

And there is only ONE path to take with it, when claiming True Self and success … )

Mel xo

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