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		By: Iris		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iris]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Oct 2023 10:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

You are such a blessing. You speak from the place of Quantum Truth making your teaching a healing at the cellular level.  

Within minutes of listening to you, I realized that you were holding up a picture of real health  for me to grapple with.  Real Health would consist of inner wholeness with Source - the right relationships would follow. Not having healthy relationships is an indicator of NOT being aligned with Source.  For THAT reason alone, we must keep aspiring to have right relationships. Avoiding relationships is avoiding wholeness with Source. 

You said,  &quot;What if I was to tell you that real healthy relationship choices and creation are already who you are naturally coded to be?  It’s actually your true self code, and you have the ability to make that choice and create real, authentic relationships. It’s who you actually are at a true self-level. You just need to be guided and shown how to come back to this natural state. Being programmed out of that state has been your normal, but it’s not your natural.&quot;

I believe you. I admit I want a perfect relationship with Source and I certainly want to honor myself.  I think from there all other relationships would follow.  &quot;All it takes is to discover a way to release your internal trauma and replace it with the light of your already coated source creation, your true self.&quot;  I don&#039;t want to avoid my real self. 

I love that you are asking us to claim what is already our truth - that we are not asking to have something we don&#039;t deserve.  You are asking us to realize that not exercising mastery is just human victimhood playing out. 

Thank you so much for the wake up call. I see how NOT thriving is actually pride not allowing us to face ourselves.  Pride is keeping us imprisoned in  the sadness of aloneness while masquerading as the humility of someone who is not demanding what they don&#039;t have.  It is not humility at all. Just the opposite. It is the pride of thinking &#039;I don&#039;t need anyone&#039;.  But that thinking is not from Source. 

Humility would admit our need for Source and would admit that living from Source origin  would manifest in having thriving relationships. Not having thriving relationships is an indication of a break with Source. It is that simple. 

If it is right to be one with Source, then it is right (and mandatory) to have good, thriving, strong, satisfying, helpful, supportive, generous, caring relationships. MANDATORY because it is The Truth already. 

This episode is a course correction. Before I aspire to fix, improve, advance, or grow any other area of my life, I have to face the relationship problem because it is foundational to my being.

Thank you for the diagnosis, uncomfortable as it may be.  I know it is the truth.  I see how this aspect of right relationships has been attacked lately in the human experience. We may bear some responsibility for not having set examples of proper alignment with Source in this area. 

It&#039;s scary, but I will bring all of this into prayer and allow God to speak to me on this topic now instead of covering my ears to Him.  .

Much love, dear friend.  

(BTW - you look great in blond! Who would have thought since your brown hair was magnificent!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>You are such a blessing. You speak from the place of Quantum Truth making your teaching a healing at the cellular level.  </p>
<p>Within minutes of listening to you, I realized that you were holding up a picture of real health  for me to grapple with.  Real Health would consist of inner wholeness with Source &#8211; the right relationships would follow. Not having healthy relationships is an indicator of NOT being aligned with Source.  For THAT reason alone, we must keep aspiring to have right relationships. Avoiding relationships is avoiding wholeness with Source. </p>
<p>You said,  &#8220;What if I was to tell you that real healthy relationship choices and creation are already who you are naturally coded to be?  It’s actually your true self code, and you have the ability to make that choice and create real, authentic relationships. It’s who you actually are at a true self-level. You just need to be guided and shown how to come back to this natural state. Being programmed out of that state has been your normal, but it’s not your natural.&#8221;</p>
<p>I believe you. I admit I want a perfect relationship with Source and I certainly want to honor myself.  I think from there all other relationships would follow.  &#8220;All it takes is to discover a way to release your internal trauma and replace it with the light of your already coated source creation, your true self.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t want to avoid my real self. </p>
<p>I love that you are asking us to claim what is already our truth &#8211; that we are not asking to have something we don&#8217;t deserve.  You are asking us to realize that not exercising mastery is just human victimhood playing out. </p>
<p>Thank you so much for the wake up call. I see how NOT thriving is actually pride not allowing us to face ourselves.  Pride is keeping us imprisoned in  the sadness of aloneness while masquerading as the humility of someone who is not demanding what they don&#8217;t have.  It is not humility at all. Just the opposite. It is the pride of thinking &#8216;I don&#8217;t need anyone&#8217;.  But that thinking is not from Source. </p>
<p>Humility would admit our need for Source and would admit that living from Source origin  would manifest in having thriving relationships. Not having thriving relationships is an indication of a break with Source. It is that simple. </p>
<p>If it is right to be one with Source, then it is right (and mandatory) to have good, thriving, strong, satisfying, helpful, supportive, generous, caring relationships. MANDATORY because it is The Truth already. </p>
<p>This episode is a course correction. Before I aspire to fix, improve, advance, or grow any other area of my life, I have to face the relationship problem because it is foundational to my being.</p>
<p>Thank you for the diagnosis, uncomfortable as it may be.  I know it is the truth.  I see how this aspect of right relationships has been attacked lately in the human experience. We may bear some responsibility for not having set examples of proper alignment with Source in this area. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s scary, but I will bring all of this into prayer and allow God to speak to me on this topic now instead of covering my ears to Him.  .</p>
<p>Much love, dear friend.  </p>
<p>(BTW &#8211; you look great in blond! Who would have thought since your brown hair was magnificent!)</p>
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		By: Iris		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283354</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iris]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2023 16:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

You are such a blessing. You speak from the place of Quantum Truth making your teaching a healing at the cellular level.  

Within minutes of listening to you, I realized that you were holding up a picture of real health  for me to grapple with.  Real Health would consist of inner wholeness with Source - the right relationships would follow. Not having healthy relationships is an indicator of NOT being aligned with Source.  For THAT reason alone, we must keep aspiring to have right relationships. Avoiding relationships is avoiding wholeness with Source. 

You said,  &quot;What if I was to tell you that real healthy relationship choices and creation are already who you are naturally coded to be?  It’s actually your true self code, and you have the ability to make that choice and create real, authentic relationships. It’s who you actually are at a true self-level. You just need to be guided and shown how to come back to this natural state. Being programmed out of that state has been your normal, but it’s not your natural.&quot;

I believe you. I admit I want a perfect relationship with Source and I certainly want to honor myself.  I think from there all other relationships would follow.  &quot;All it takes is to discover a way to release your internal trauma and replace it with the light of your already coated source creation, your true self.&quot;  I don&#039;t want to avoid my real self. 

I love that you are asking us to claim what is already our truth - that we are not asking to have something we don&#039;t deserve.  You are asking us to realize that not exercising mastery is just human victimhood playing out. 

Thank you so much for the wake up call. I see how NOT thriving is actually pride not allowing us to face ourselves.  Pride is keeping us imprisoned in  the sadness of aloneness while masquerading as the humility of someone who is not demanding what they don&#039;t have.  It is not humility at all. Just the opposite. It is the pride of thinking &#039;I don&#039;t need anyone&#039;.  But that thinking is not from Source. 

Humility would admit our need for Source and would admit that living from Source origin  would manifest in having thriving relationships. Not having thriving relationships is an indication of a break with Source. It is that simple. 

If it is right to be one with Source, then it is right (and mandatory) to have good, thriving, strong, satisfying, helpful, supportive, generous, caring relationships. MANDATORY because it is The Truth already. 

This episode is a course correction. Before I aspire to fix, improve, advance, or grow any other area of my life, I have to face the relationship problem because it is foundational to my being.

Thank you for the diagnosis, uncomfortable as it may be.  I know it is the truth.  I see how this aspect of right relationships has been attacked lately in the human experience. We may bear some responsibility for not having set examples of proper alignment with Source in this area. 

It&#039;s scary, but I will bring all of this into prayer and allow God to speak to me on this topic.

Much love, dear friend.  

(BTW - you look great in blond! Who would have thought since your brown hair was magnificent!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>You are such a blessing. You speak from the place of Quantum Truth making your teaching a healing at the cellular level.  </p>
<p>Within minutes of listening to you, I realized that you were holding up a picture of real health  for me to grapple with.  Real Health would consist of inner wholeness with Source &#8211; the right relationships would follow. Not having healthy relationships is an indicator of NOT being aligned with Source.  For THAT reason alone, we must keep aspiring to have right relationships. Avoiding relationships is avoiding wholeness with Source. </p>
<p>You said,  &#8220;What if I was to tell you that real healthy relationship choices and creation are already who you are naturally coded to be?  It’s actually your true self code, and you have the ability to make that choice and create real, authentic relationships. It’s who you actually are at a true self-level. You just need to be guided and shown how to come back to this natural state. Being programmed out of that state has been your normal, but it’s not your natural.&#8221;</p>
<p>I believe you. I admit I want a perfect relationship with Source and I certainly want to honor myself.  I think from there all other relationships would follow.  &#8220;All it takes is to discover a way to release your internal trauma and replace it with the light of your already coated source creation, your true self.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t want to avoid my real self. </p>
<p>I love that you are asking us to claim what is already our truth &#8211; that we are not asking to have something we don&#8217;t deserve.  You are asking us to realize that not exercising mastery is just human victimhood playing out. </p>
<p>Thank you so much for the wake up call. I see how NOT thriving is actually pride not allowing us to face ourselves.  Pride is keeping us imprisoned in  the sadness of aloneness while masquerading as the humility of someone who is not demanding what they don&#8217;t have.  It is not humility at all. Just the opposite. It is the pride of thinking &#8216;I don&#8217;t need anyone&#8217;.  But that thinking is not from Source. </p>
<p>Humility would admit our need for Source and would admit that living from Source origin  would manifest in having thriving relationships. Not having thriving relationships is an indication of a break with Source. It is that simple. </p>
<p>If it is right to be one with Source, then it is right (and mandatory) to have good, thriving, strong, satisfying, helpful, supportive, generous, caring relationships. MANDATORY because it is The Truth already. </p>
<p>This episode is a course correction. Before I aspire to fix, improve, advance, or grow any other area of my life, I have to face the relationship problem because it is foundational to my being.</p>
<p>Thank you for the diagnosis, uncomfortable as it may be.  I know it is the truth.  I see how this aspect of right relationships has been attacked lately in the human experience. We may bear some responsibility for not having set examples of proper alignment with Source in this area. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s scary, but I will bring all of this into prayer and allow God to speak to me on this topic.</p>
<p>Much love, dear friend.  </p>
<p>(BTW &#8211; you look great in blond! Who would have thought since your brown hair was magnificent!)</p>
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		By: Andries		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andries]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Sep 2023 10:04:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I live to have true and constructive relationships
Your teachings of self discovery and building relationships the quantum way is highly relative and most compatible to the concerned mater&#039;s effects]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live to have true and constructive relationships<br />
Your teachings of self discovery and building relationships the quantum way is highly relative and most compatible to the concerned mater&#8217;s effects</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:54:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283157&quot;&gt;A&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi A,

you do absolutely desreve intimate relationhips that are heathy and you are still gloriously young enough to enjoy this - 100%

NO! You will not need to be alone - you just need your breakthroughs and foundations set in place (embodied).

Thrive is &quot;the healthy relationship with self, life and others&quot; bootcamp.

Please know any sessions missed are not missed as you have the full recordings. We have had OODLES of people epically Thrive from Thrive recordings who could never attand live.

Dont let that be a barrier!

Sending you love, healing and breakthroughs

There is now only a few days left to register www.melanietoniaevans.com/thrive.htm

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283157">A</a>.</p>
<p>Hi A,</p>
<p>you do absolutely desreve intimate relationhips that are heathy and you are still gloriously young enough to enjoy this &#8211; 100%</p>
<p>NO! You will not need to be alone &#8211; you just need your breakthroughs and foundations set in place (embodied).</p>
<p>Thrive is &#8220;the healthy relationship with self, life and others&#8221; bootcamp.</p>
<p>Please know any sessions missed are not missed as you have the full recordings. We have had OODLES of people epically Thrive from Thrive recordings who could never attand live.</p>
<p>Dont let that be a barrier!</p>
<p>Sending you love, healing and breakthroughs</p>
<p>There is now only a few days left to register <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/thrive.htm" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/thrive.htm</a></p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283216</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283164&quot;&gt;Teresa O&#039;Sullivan&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Teresa,

I love that you are gaining yourslf more through our wonderful community!

We look forward to partering you in Thrive for immense breakthroughs! 

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283164">Teresa O&#8217;Sullivan</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Teresa,</p>
<p>I love that you are gaining yourslf more through our wonderful community!</p>
<p>We look forward to partering you in Thrive for immense breakthroughs! </p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Teresa O'Sullivan		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/creating-thriving-relationships-the-quantum-way-part-1/#comment-1283164</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Teresa O'Sullivan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Sep 2023 13:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is my first time commenting after having read many survivor comments which are so honest , powerful and so much grief and sadness too . I read melanie&#039;s blogs over and over again - i will do the quantum thriver course next time. Yes - ive done my inner work for a long time - ive done the individual and group therapy - all very good - BUT  it has been a long healing process and alot of ongoing saboataging despite all my gained knowledge - your  spot on re - my belief system and it being the basis of so much .    I   treasure what ive learned  so far    - BUT i now know its a Quantum LEAP i need - its my coming Home to me -  i so love and Benefit so much from reading and hearing so much from here]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is my first time commenting after having read many survivor comments which are so honest , powerful and so much grief and sadness too . I read melanie&#8217;s blogs over and over again &#8211; i will do the quantum thriver course next time. Yes &#8211; ive done my inner work for a long time &#8211; ive done the individual and group therapy &#8211; all very good &#8211; BUT  it has been a long healing process and alot of ongoing saboataging despite all my gained knowledge &#8211; your  spot on re &#8211; my belief system and it being the basis of so much .    I   treasure what ive learned  so far    &#8211; BUT i now know its a Quantum LEAP i need &#8211; its my coming Home to me &#8211;  i so love and Benefit so much from reading and hearing so much from here</p>
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		By: A		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2023 23:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh Mel, this Blog arrived just at the right time for me .... after years of healing (NARP and coutless other methods) and being without an intimate relationship, 12 months ago I got into one, only to be abused again.  The relationship only lasted weeks, but the aftermath of punishment, smearing and financial abuse took another 6 months and tens of thousands of dollars, and my mental health suffering severely, to end.  I again took some time away and dedicated myself to NARP, but Im finding the trauma, anxiety and depression keeps coming back in waves... (I will be reading your Aftershock Blog shortly)... only yesterday I stated, out loud, that I was prepared to be alone for the rest of my life (I just turned 63) to avoid any more pain.  This realisation / action has made me very sad, as I absolutely want healthy and authentic relationships, including an imtimate one, in my life. I will be going back to NARP to process what has come up as soon as I finish this message!  I have things to look forward to in my life, like travelling Overseas in a few weeks, but I&#039;m struggling to look forward and Thrive... I cant do this Bootcamp, as I will be away, but I&#039;ll be reaching out for help to your support team too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Mel, this Blog arrived just at the right time for me &#8230;. after years of healing (NARP and coutless other methods) and being without an intimate relationship, 12 months ago I got into one, only to be abused again.  The relationship only lasted weeks, but the aftermath of punishment, smearing and financial abuse took another 6 months and tens of thousands of dollars, and my mental health suffering severely, to end.  I again took some time away and dedicated myself to NARP, but Im finding the trauma, anxiety and depression keeps coming back in waves&#8230; (I will be reading your Aftershock Blog shortly)&#8230; only yesterday I stated, out loud, that I was prepared to be alone for the rest of my life (I just turned 63) to avoid any more pain.  This realisation / action has made me very sad, as I absolutely want healthy and authentic relationships, including an imtimate one, in my life. I will be going back to NARP to process what has come up as soon as I finish this message!  I have things to look forward to in my life, like travelling Overseas in a few weeks, but I&#8217;m struggling to look forward and Thrive&#8230; I cant do this Bootcamp, as I will be away, but I&#8217;ll be reaching out for help to your support team too.</p>
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