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		By: Fhvchz		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2021 05:36:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Less is best when being stalked by a narcissist. Facts piss them off.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Less is best when being stalked by a narcissist. Facts piss them off.</p>
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		By: Darlene C Ritchie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Darlene C Ritchie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2021 16:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246057&quot;&gt;Richard&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi I am glad you addressed the &quot; both parties&quot; theory, right on!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246057">Richard</a>.</p>
<p>Hi I am glad you addressed the &#8221; both parties&#8221; theory, right on!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2021 09:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246332&quot;&gt;e&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi e,

I&#039;m thrilled I can help!

Okay, I can help you so much more by introducing you to my inner transformation work which will help you reprogram with NARP, and get a true solution for what you are feeling and going through.

www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

This will help you heal way beyond my videos.

If you are working with Gold NARP already please come into the NARP Member&#039;s Forum where we can help you get the breakthroughs that you need now - www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I so hope this can help!

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246332">e</a>.</p>
<p>Hi e,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thrilled I can help!</p>
<p>Okay, I can help you so much more by introducing you to my inner transformation work which will help you reprogram with NARP, and get a true solution for what you are feeling and going through.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a></p>
<p>This will help you heal way beyond my videos.</p>
<p>If you are working with Gold NARP already please come into the NARP Member&#8217;s Forum where we can help you get the breakthroughs that you need now &#8211; <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a></p>
<p>I so hope this can help!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: e		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2021 21:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi, Melanie! You have helped me so much, and everything you publish seems to come at the perfect moment. Thank you times infinity! I&#039;ve reached a point where I no longer am able to date narcissists--I dated several over the past few months after a long hiatus from dating and, thanks to you, I guess I&#039;ve released too much trauma and both consciously and subconsciously I can&#039;t use them to distract myself from the work that needs to be done in my life. Oddly enough, this has left me full of rage. I&#039;m constantly looking for a new distraction and I&#039;m worried that I will spiral into other self-defeating behaviours. I&#039;ve watched all your videos 100+ times. I still have not found my life&#039;s purpose, or at least how to carry it out (I love animals) and I&#039;m feeling absolutely lost. I&#039;ve also noticed my attitude turning ugly at work (I work for a family of narcissists). Any suggestions? Thank you again!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Melanie! You have helped me so much, and everything you publish seems to come at the perfect moment. Thank you times infinity! I&#8217;ve reached a point where I no longer am able to date narcissists&#8211;I dated several over the past few months after a long hiatus from dating and, thanks to you, I guess I&#8217;ve released too much trauma and both consciously and subconsciously I can&#8217;t use them to distract myself from the work that needs to be done in my life. Oddly enough, this has left me full of rage. I&#8217;m constantly looking for a new distraction and I&#8217;m worried that I will spiral into other self-defeating behaviours. I&#8217;ve watched all your videos 100+ times. I still have not found my life&#8217;s purpose, or at least how to carry it out (I love animals) and I&#8217;m feeling absolutely lost. I&#8217;ve also noticed my attitude turning ugly at work (I work for a family of narcissists). Any suggestions? Thank you again!!!</p>
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		By: michman		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246280</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2021 03:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246116&quot;&gt;michman&lt;/a&gt;.

After seeing Melanie&#039;s much more empathetic and contactfull response to your post, I feel I should apologize for the lack of it in my reply to it, above.  Pls excuse my roughness in comparison.  And I hope that my excited intent to cheer you on does come through to some degree.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246116">michman</a>.</p>
<p>After seeing Melanie&#8217;s much more empathetic and contactfull response to your post, I feel I should apologize for the lack of it in my reply to it, above.  Pls excuse my roughness in comparison.  And I hope that my excited intent to cheer you on does come through to some degree.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246152</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 01:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246040&quot;&gt;AB&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi AB,

My heart goes out to you in this precarious and painful time.

Please know you have done so well, its incredibly brave to leave and it&#039;s wonderful that you have your family&#039;s support.

I would love to help support you as well with my free webinar which will help you get clarity, relief and your soul and mind back much faster than just &quot;organically&quot;.

www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope that this helps.

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246040">AB</a>.</p>
<p>Hi AB,</p>
<p>My heart goes out to you in this precarious and painful time.</p>
<p>Please know you have done so well, its incredibly brave to leave and it&#8217;s wonderful that you have your family&#8217;s support.</p>
<p>I would love to help support you as well with my free webinar which will help you get clarity, relief and your soul and mind back much faster than just &#8220;organically&#8221;.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar</a></p>
<p>I hope that this helps.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246151</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 01:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246039&quot;&gt;Lois&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Lois,

thank you for this question and I&#039;m happy to answer it.

Narcissists can simply discard. It has happened to many people, as the final discard.

It can be done because 1) they know it is the thing that hurts the most, 2) there is absolutely nothing to gain from you anymore (you have been completely emptied out) or 3) you have become so detached, clear and OVER the narcissist that they know there is no hope that they can get narcissistic supply from you anymore.

I hope that this answers your question.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246039">Lois</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Lois,</p>
<p>thank you for this question and I&#8217;m happy to answer it.</p>
<p>Narcissists can simply discard. It has happened to many people, as the final discard.</p>
<p>It can be done because 1) they know it is the thing that hurts the most, 2) there is absolutely nothing to gain from you anymore (you have been completely emptied out) or 3) you have become so detached, clear and OVER the narcissist that they know there is no hope that they can get narcissistic supply from you anymore.</p>
<p>I hope that this answers your question.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246150</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 01:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246045&quot;&gt;Sean&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Sean,

Thank you!

I&#039;d love to help you deal with those feelings of still being hooked. First of all please know it is such a common part of being narcissistically abused.

Please come into my free webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar so that I can show you how you can shed this and truly go free - powerfully.

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246045">Sean</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Sean,</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to help you deal with those feelings of still being hooked. First of all please know it is such a common part of being narcissistically abused.</p>
<p>Please come into my free webinar <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar</a> so that I can show you how you can shed this and truly go free &#8211; powerfully.</p>
<p>I hope that this helps</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246149</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 01:42:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246053&quot;&gt;Beth&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Beth,

Big hugs, please know that it is really common for those of us who are intelligent people to get hooked into narcissists.

I really want to reach out to you and allow you to look into NARP www.melanietoniaeveans.com

It is the most powerful way I know of to get your mind, heart, soul and life back.

So much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/devalue-or-discard-how-narcissistic-relationships-end/#comment-1246053">Beth</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Beth,</p>
<p>Big hugs, please know that it is really common for those of us who are intelligent people to get hooked into narcissists.</p>
<p>I really want to reach out to you and allow you to look into NARP <a href="http://www.melanietoniaeveans.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaeveans.com</a></p>
<p>It is the most powerful way I know of to get your mind, heart, soul and life back.</p>
<p>So much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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