Comments on: Do Narcissists Really Have Big Egos? https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 20 Dec 2021 05:24:12 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260874 Mon, 20 Dec 2021 05:24:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260874 In reply to Karen.

Hi Karen,

You are very welcome!

I am so happy for you too that this insanity is behind you!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Venessa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260702 Fri, 17 Dec 2021 01:00:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260702 This is so spot on. I have been talking about pride and ego for several years now and how it is affecting our relationship. That ego is so powerful I cannot compete. I have literally felt invisible for the longest time while I watch him openly admire himself. The person I know now I see nothing I would ever have even liked about. I am only disgusted.

]]> By: Karen https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260654 Wed, 15 Dec 2021 20:38:26 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260654 I completely agree with all of this! I lived it for about 23 years!! And I Actually used to tell people that it was his confidence was one of the things that I loved about him. Years later, I heard many others stating what an egomaniac he was, and how cocky….and I started to turn and take notice. I was embarrassed. For him as well as myself. This is how he reels people in. Even our own kids notice this now, and they are embarrassed as well.
It also totally resonated with me how one simple thing would “set him off”….not greeting him at the door, not saying hi or bye in the right manner, “breathing too loud” —-Lol…I once got barraged for coughing in the middle of the night because I was sick, and another time for saying Hi to the dog first as I got home from work!!! Ridiculous stuff I used to put up with….and each time, he’d turn it around and I was actually the one feeling bad and apologizing!! Thank God I am OFF that hamster wheel!
Thanks Melanie!!!!

]]> By: ms thriver in the flesh https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260326 Thu, 09 Dec 2021 07:51:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260326 it’s been almost a year, and i’m feeling brand new once i detach from the narc and began studying this disorder i realize who i fell in love with was myself he reflect everything i was positve back to me i no longer feel the need of closure bcuz it was never really a relationship it was more like a manipulationship and i was ready to fight back when i thought things over i realize i would be giving this kidult what he wanted energy whether it was good or bad that’s what they feed off and that’s when i starve the ( shit) out of him i no longer feel the need to contact him for no reason his ego was full of garbage and i let the trash take out the trash .

]]> By: Peter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260265 Wed, 08 Dec 2021 05:02:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260265 In reply to CYNTHIA YAKUSHEV.

Dear Cynthia,
What amazing courage and strength you have! Your story gives me hope! Thank you so very much! πŸ’žπŸ™

]]> By: Richard https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260237 Tue, 07 Dec 2021 12:10:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260237 My trips on how to spot a poor soul,,
1- they cannot hold any job for long,,,,,, .they will have many jobs.,,,,,, They get bored. ,,,,,, Bosses are hard to work with/for. They cannot work with others.
2/. Always have a opinion, which is also stupid. /weird. Make no sense
3/. Past 30. No job, Sleep past midday. Goes to bed late.
4/. living with single parent. ,
5/. Lives on YouTube. Texting. Internet. All To experience life /. On films or anything about others ,
6/if you show them ,a way out. Of their situation. Ie.
God has a plan for us all.
And you need to surrender to God.
Listen within. And follow the Holy Sprit.
7/. They will. blow a fuse.
8/. Run as fast as you canβ€”- don’t look. Back.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260234 Tue, 07 Dec 2021 05:21:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260234 In reply to Lynn.

Hi Lynn,

my heart goes out to you because this is a precarious time.

Are you working with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and if you are please come in to the NARP member’s forum, where the incredible NARP family can help you powerfully move through this time http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

You don’t have to do this alone!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260233 Tue, 07 Dec 2021 05:19:36 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260233 In reply to Peter.

Bless Peter!

You are so welcome as always!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/do-narcissists-really-have-big-egos/#comment-1260232 Tue, 07 Dec 2021 05:18:57 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10328#comment-1260232 In reply to Laurel Marshall.

That’s awesome that NARP is helping you so much Laurel!

Well done on doing the inner work to go free!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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