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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2018 07:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-1094040&quot;&gt;Changing&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Changing,

For any technical issues you can email my lovely support team at support@melanietoniaevans.com

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-1094040">Changing</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Changing,</p>
<p>For any technical issues you can email my lovely support team at <a href="mailto:support@melanietoniaevans.com">support@melanietoniaevans.com</a></p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Changing		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Changing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2018 05:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Unfortunately can&#039;t listen the video on the phone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately can&#8217;t listen the video on the phone.</p>
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		By: Megan stafford		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Megan stafford]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2017 04:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-935446&quot;&gt;Megan stafford&lt;/a&gt;.

I have lost my attorney *** correction]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-935446">Megan stafford</a>.</p>
<p>I have lost my attorney *** correction</p>
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		By: Megan stafford		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Megan stafford]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2017 04:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-127444&quot;&gt;Jacqui&lt;/a&gt;.

I am going through all of this but in my situation the police will NOT help me. They refuse to even report or take my reports. He has called dept. Of child services filed a false report to then saying I was neglect8ng my child but was getting her at this time his claim is provved to be false but nobody will prosecute him. I have list my fatty to his unwillingness to pay I list my career due to him not c coming for my daughter or he filed neglect with dcs so now can&#039;t get job In medical field as I wanted in pediatrics I am walking around with no support he&#039;s driven my family to stop talking to me because it got old....me constantly talking about this abuse. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME I AM IN THE ARIZONA AREA AND I NEED SOME HELP OR REASSURANCE ASAP. I HAVE COURT 11/6. I LOVE MMY DAUGHTER AND FEAR FOR WHAT LIES AHEAD.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-127444">Jacqui</a>.</p>
<p>I am going through all of this but in my situation the police will NOT help me. They refuse to even report or take my reports. He has called dept. Of child services filed a false report to then saying I was neglect8ng my child but was getting her at this time his claim is provved to be false but nobody will prosecute him. I have list my fatty to his unwillingness to pay I list my career due to him not c coming for my daughter or he filed neglect with dcs so now can&#8217;t get job In medical field as I wanted in pediatrics I am walking around with no support he&#8217;s driven my family to stop talking to me because it got old&#8230;.me constantly talking about this abuse. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME I AM IN THE ARIZONA AREA AND I NEED SOME HELP OR REASSURANCE ASAP. I HAVE COURT 11/6. I LOVE MMY DAUGHTER AND FEAR FOR WHAT LIES AHEAD.</p>
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		By: Jane		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jane]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2016 15:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-128337&quot;&gt;Suzanne&lt;/a&gt;.

You said that you finally took matters into your own hands  to protect your young daughter and yourself legally, that He could not violate. What is it that you did? I have a seven year old daughter that is in the very same position as your daughter.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-128337">Suzanne</a>.</p>
<p>You said that you finally took matters into your own hands  to protect your young daughter and yourself legally, that He could not violate. What is it that you did? I have a seven year old daughter that is in the very same position as your daughter.</p>
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		By: flash drive rescue		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[flash drive rescue]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Feb 2014 01:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi there to all, how is the whole thing, I think 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there to all, how is the whole thing, I think<br />
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		By: Todd Calongne		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-215104</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Todd Calongne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2013 04:04:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a beautiful blog post. Get the best Online Relationship Coaching and Career Coaching Online from Todd Calongne Coaching. This &lt;a href=&quot;http://toddcalongne.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Life Coaching Services Online&lt;/a&gt; helps a lot in living a successful life and builds efficient relationships.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful blog post. Get the best Online Relationship Coaching and Career Coaching Online from Todd Calongne Coaching. This <a href="http://toddcalongne.com" rel="nofollow">Life Coaching Services Online</a> helps a lot in living a successful life and builds efficient relationships.</p>
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		By: gary		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[gary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2013 10:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-127444&quot;&gt;Jacqui&lt;/a&gt;.

My wife tells me and at times around others i am narcissistic.But the real truth she has all the caricature and the signs you have on here and she also has depression  and her mother is bipolar and her father clinical depression.Been together 8 years and numerous break ups. Been married 3 years of the 8.First year of marriage i filled for divorce because i could not handle it and she could not see what she is doing and sets the stage for destruction.She creates things then for to justify for her actions.She is very insecure and that alone creates things.I do nursing with 2 patients in my home through foster a vet program and it 24/7 and with her makes my work oh so hard.I love her so much but cant get her to see the light of day on what she  is creating.Heck she is making me pay for her storage until i put her name on my house,no sex,no breakfast,taking on from her temporary custody of her 9 year old that i am also supporting.And yet she go&#039;s on like nothing is happening and says she will not leave my home even under the circumstances.She told granddaughter i was selfish,accusing me of things she creates and says she don&#039;t trust me and i am a lie&#039;er at every level. When i try to feed back to her comments ,she gets mad and don&#039;t wont to listen to my response. I am very loving,been patient and still try. She don&#039;t feel guilt on these things other wise she would change.She can get very vindictive and threatening.I want a divorce and i told her why stay if i am not happy as well as you. She said she has her granddaughter is why she cant leave. So i told her then you are just using me and she said nothing back.She thinks i am cheating i feel only because she is not doing her part in all i have said ,so that creates more insecurities.She said that everything i worked and paid for and got everything paid of including my house be for we were married is hers just because i am her husband.No matter what or hard i try nothing makes her happy unless i keep quite and let her do her thing.Help.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/domestic-abuse-cycles-safety-planning-and-support-services-with-fiona/#comment-127444">Jacqui</a>.</p>
<p>My wife tells me and at times around others i am narcissistic.But the real truth she has all the caricature and the signs you have on here and she also has depression  and her mother is bipolar and her father clinical depression.Been together 8 years and numerous break ups. Been married 3 years of the 8.First year of marriage i filled for divorce because i could not handle it and she could not see what she is doing and sets the stage for destruction.She creates things then for to justify for her actions.She is very insecure and that alone creates things.I do nursing with 2 patients in my home through foster a vet program and it 24/7 and with her makes my work oh so hard.I love her so much but cant get her to see the light of day on what she  is creating.Heck she is making me pay for her storage until i put her name on my house,no sex,no breakfast,taking on from her temporary custody of her 9 year old that i am also supporting.And yet she go&#8217;s on like nothing is happening and says she will not leave my home even under the circumstances.She told granddaughter i was selfish,accusing me of things she creates and says she don&#8217;t trust me and i am a lie&#8217;er at every level. When i try to feed back to her comments ,she gets mad and don&#8217;t wont to listen to my response. I am very loving,been patient and still try. She don&#8217;t feel guilt on these things other wise she would change.She can get very vindictive and threatening.I want a divorce and i told her why stay if i am not happy as well as you. She said she has her granddaughter is why she cant leave. So i told her then you are just using me and she said nothing back.She thinks i am cheating i feel only because she is not doing her part in all i have said ,so that creates more insecurities.She said that everything i worked and paid for and got everything paid of including my house be for we were married is hers just because i am her husband.No matter what or hard i try nothing makes her happy unless i keep quite and let her do her thing.Help.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2013 06:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mar,

That is such a beautiful little ritual. I do believe that symbolic &#039;things&#039; can have such a powerful effect on our Inner Being and help grant us strength and relief.

Thank you Mar for sharing this to assist others. 

You are very welcome Mar, and I am so pleased you can now connect to the deep inner shifts of NARP.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mar,</p>
<p>That is such a beautiful little ritual. I do believe that symbolic &#8216;things&#8217; can have such a powerful effect on our Inner Being and help grant us strength and relief.</p>
<p>Thank you Mar for sharing this to assist others. </p>
<p>You are very welcome Mar, and I am so pleased you can now connect to the deep inner shifts of NARP.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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