Comments on: Facing The Truth Of Narcissists Will Set You Free https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 13 Feb 2022 08:50:41 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264969 Sun, 13 Feb 2022 08:50:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264969 In reply to Whiskeynwater.

It’s my pleasure Whiskeynwater,

I’m so happy that I can help you.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Whiskeynwater https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264887 Thu, 10 Feb 2022 19:00:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264887 Thank you so much Mel! πŸ™
I completely agree, I always thought I was someone who saw the good in people but I’m realising that doesn’t mean I have to minimise the bad. Opening my eyes to it to allow me to heal πŸ’•
Your emails and this community are getting me through a tough time at the moment x

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264883 Thu, 10 Feb 2022 17:17:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264883 Informative. You touch on some great points- mainly that these types of people do not want happiness for us and they only want to control us. That is a hard pill to swallow, that people are really that uncaring, but I know from personal experience you are right. Keep sharing this info, I think it can be so helpful to so many people.

]]> By: Progress = Happiness https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264477 Tue, 01 Feb 2022 18:53:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264477 Recently, the verse “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” came to me repeatedly throughout the week. And now your post! The universe is trying to get me to notice this for sure. Thank you! I was raised by a narc and married one (28 years) and still married. I’ve been conditioned to think my opinions and feelings are not a priority. Therefore, I’ve gotten to the point where I really don’t have opinions on what I want. I’ve been on a journey of discovery about narcs and why I’m here today trying to heal. My biggest obstacle is learning to speak my truth. It’s so hard for me because as a co-dependent, I feel responsible for my husbands life and don’t want to hurt him. I know this means that my own needs get pushed aside. I need to learn somehow to heal my inner wounds and find my voice. The emotional and mental abuse is horrible and I keep taking it. (ugh) I had started with NARP but recently have not been doing it. I’ve been finding it hard to focus as my brain is reeling on 12 things at once. Thanks for the inspiration!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264408 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 22:44:32 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264408 In reply to Peggyb.

Hi Peggyb,

I’m thrilled this has brought you clarity.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264407 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 22:43:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264407 In reply to Jane.

Hi Jane,

I so love that you have! Please know how welcome you are.

Beautiful to hear from you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: ms empathy herself https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264342 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 06:47:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264342 goodmorning gorgeous melanie, i must confess without your platform informing me on what was happening in my life while with the narc i must say i would have been doomed from this life he was really trying to take me out, at one point i thought i was losing my mind this person was such a monster it terrified me when the mask fell off i never seen a person eyes that were so black i cried like a baby scared of what he might do to me at that moment, after educating myself on this disorder help me gain clarity it was’nt my fault that he had a bad childhood experience so did i but i was able to come clean with myself and my trauma childhood it does’nt give me the right to go around hurting others bcuz of my upbringing i realize this person was very traumatize in his childhood that evryone he comes in contact with he tries to destroy them i just wanna thank you so much for your blogs they really help me to go in and heal my inner wounds i can say for sure i’m free and feels so good to be back in reality i hope to never again go to that dark place ever again i’m thankful for the experience it taught me that everyone is not like me and i can give back to the community by helping someone else out who may be experiencing the same thing it’s been a year now and i’m all smiles with so much positivity ahead of me i go my groove back not in a relationship now bcuz i love this peace i have and the alone time has done justice for me ……to all stay strong we got this !!!!

]]> By: Jane https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264145 Sat, 29 Jan 2022 08:40:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264145 In reply to Iris.

Hi Iris,

Yes bring on the Cosmic Healing.

Cheer Jane πŸ™‚

]]> By: Peggyb https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/facing-the-truth-of-narcissists-will-set-you-free/#comment-1264075 Fri, 28 Jan 2022 15:15:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10612#comment-1264075 Thank you so much Melanie for letting me know about the how the nar has been in my life trying to control it for over 40 years. You cover every base about what i have been going through and how what this person says are does makes t no sense and how he uses people for his own gain and gets people in his corner to fight me. It is like I have had to fight against the whole world in this relationship everyone is right but me. Thank you so much for letting me know that what i have always said about him is true. This video has shown me my life right in front of my face.

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