Comments on: Finding Your True Self After Abuse

By: Antonia

Antonia — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 20:51:03 +0000

I am attracting narcissists and you say it is about me? I just don’t understand the dynamic. Every time I get abused by a narc it is upsetting, frustrating, makes me angry.. because these people have no conscience. I just lost over $1,000 due to the last one. My dog warned me ,(he attacked him) and my instincts told me something was off here but I ignored all the signs and fell into it anyway. I was tortured for 2 weeks and two days before he stole all my money and ran off with it. The police would do nothing…and I won’t throw away more money fighting. I am a giving, loving person.. an empath.. and I am sick and tired of dealing with these sick people. I had a narcissist mother. She has stolen from me too. I live in a van now because the narc’s took everything from me. And you tell me the problem is me? Who do I have to be to make this stop? I hate these people. I want to kill every last one of these evil demons. They take no responsibility and have no heart. I live in isolation. They have convinced everyone I am evil when the opposite is true. I have lived 10 years alone, wandering, trying to find a way to stop this abuse. Nothing works. I am now a candidate for suicide because I refuse to suffer this anymore. How do I make it stop? I just want peace.

By: Antonia

Antonia — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 20:48:37 +0000

I am attracting narcissists and you say it is about me? I just don’t understand the dynamic. Every time I get abused by a narc it is upsetting, frustrating, makes me angry.. because these people have no conscience. I just lost over $1,000 due to the last one. My dog warmed me ,(he attacked him) and my instincts told me something was off here but I ignored all the signs and fell into it anyway. I was tortured for 2 weeks and two days before he stole all my money and ran off with it. The police would do nothing…band I won’t throw away more money fighting. I am a giving, loving person.. an empath.. and I am sick and tired of dealing with these sick people. I had a narcissist mother. She has stolen from me too. I love in a van now because the Marc’s took everything from me. And you tell me the problem is me? Who do I have to Beto make this stop? I hate these people. I want to kill every last one of these evil demons. They take no responsibility and have no heart. I live in isolation. They have convinced everyone I am evil when the opposite is true. I have lived 10 years alone, wandering, trying to find a way to stop this abuse. Nothing works. I am now a candidate for suicide because I refuse to suffer this anymore

By: Tom

Tom — Sat, 22 Jul 2023 01:02:09 +0000

Mel,
I hope that I am not misunderstood but I have to ask the question. Tell me you’re not a computer or generated AI version AI thank you the today that seems to be the biggest problem is not knowing where reality is that you do have a good advice you I think you’re also very very charming to look at, if you weren’t in Australia, I’d take a hike to the but I think you gotta cross a lot of water from here .like guessing 12000 miles Tom

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 21 Jul 2023 03:38:50 +0000

In reply to Dr Sheryl.

Thank you Dr Sheryl,

Yes it is a time indeed of LOTS of shifting to do ..

For so many.

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Dr Sheryl

Dr Sheryl — Tue, 18 Jul 2023 15:22:51 +0000

Wow. Once again your loving words and wisdom are exactly what I need to hear. Truthfully I am not even through the article and already doing goal setting and preparing for my next shifting session. So exciting to be healing and finding so much inner work to do. Love it.
Thanks beautiful person for all you do and all you are.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 22:23:21 +0000

In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

its my pleasure, as always Dear Man.

When you do start Modulling instead … the healing accelaration will begin.

Groundhog day will breakthrough into your personal harvest.

You ARE worth it!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 22:19:53 +0000

In reply to Zinnetta.

Hi Zinetta,

YES, yes and YES!

You poor thing my heart goes out to you, you have gone through so much.

If you meet the inner trauma, release it and replace it with Light (The NARP process http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ) then it heals and there is no remaining trauma to think about.

Even extreme trauma … ANY trauma.

The process is SO simple – but what is difficult is bypassing the egoic mind that is the internal narcissist that doesnt want us to do this – that wants your trauma pain body to keep feeding off, and it gives you EVERY excuse to not just DO it.

When we have had enough of the pain, we have to become the adult in the room that says “Oky Im hurting / funcky / triggered and things aren’t good for me, and my life is not how I want it to be, so Im going to go heal!” QFH in NARP is the most powerful and easy and direct way I’ve ever experienced to do this.

Thank goodness in my own life, I use the healings instead of ruminating and staying stuck and when I do indulge my victimisation, (rarely) I know the drastic painful difference.

Module 1 is the go to for you … and also being in the NARP Member’s Forum for guidance – but do know also lovingly you will be held to account – we cant help you unlless you DO the healings and help yourself. No-one can take the pain away for you, that is between you and you and the healings, we can only grant you suggestions.

Module 1 absolutely gets the process started and then it is about reworking through the entire 10 step program, as per the instructions and with the guidance in the Forum as well when required. Rule of thumb if you do a Module morning and night for 21 days, your SELF will feel epically different in only 3 Weeks.

The only question is, will you commit to yourself at this level?

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 22:08:29 +0000

In reply to Lisa.

Hi Lisa,

thank you for your kind words and please know how welcome you are.

I LOVE that you know you are worth it.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 22:07:14 +0000

In reply to Maureen E. Medcraft.

Hi Maureen,

that is very painful and my heart goes out to you.

The True Healing process is about fully feeling and then releasing and programming all the traumas that arise, including that very painful one – there is no bypass from them, otherwise they stay in your emotional field and will kepp sabotaging you.

That trigger IS your healing path.

NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and our loving support with NARP in the Member’s Forum take you through this process http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

The only way out is through, because what you resist healing will persist. Out the other side of this,a nd whatever arises, is your freeedom, liberation and moving out into trajectories of relationships where you will not need to live through that painful program again.

I hope that this makes sense.

Mel 🙏💞🦋