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		By: Antonia		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[I got abused about 6 months ago by a narcissist&#039;s flying monkey. I knew every word/threat was planted in her so she would come and abuse me on his behalf. Today she came by and apologized for her behaviour! So glad she woke up. And grateful for the apology.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got abused about 6 months ago by a narcissist&#8217;s flying monkey. I knew every word/threat was planted in her so she would come and abuse me on his behalf. Today she came by and apologized for her behaviour! So glad she woke up. And grateful for the apology.</p>
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		By: Doug		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2023 15:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Such a Good Article, especially the links within that take you to other resources.  

I have experienced a different level of this flying monkey business that seems more energetic.   People who are not that close to narc seem to align with the narc anyway and serve the narc&#039;s objective.  It  seemed like my narc was the center of a maelstrom of energy-sucking destruction that was powerful enough to reach across space and make others do horrible, unconscionable and dishonest things.  I felt powerless against that magic-seeming power but it also affirmed to me that this is an energetic battle.  Knowing that helped me focus on the right tools despite feeling so helpless. 

 I am so grateful for you and the NARP tools you have given.  

 It seems this alignment happens on the global scale. It seems many people align in force because they share an affinity for that entitlement to deceive and punish those who dare question that authority to overwrite reality.   It is as if the pain and powerlessness they feel must have a culprit on the outside and that makes them vulnerable to those more skilled manipulators that can sense and zero in on that, to point that unhealed anger where they want.    Now we get to live our own life, aligned with source and our inner standing.

Thank You, Melanie!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a Good Article, especially the links within that take you to other resources.  </p>
<p>I have experienced a different level of this flying monkey business that seems more energetic.   People who are not that close to narc seem to align with the narc anyway and serve the narc&#8217;s objective.  It  seemed like my narc was the center of a maelstrom of energy-sucking destruction that was powerful enough to reach across space and make others do horrible, unconscionable and dishonest things.  I felt powerless against that magic-seeming power but it also affirmed to me that this is an energetic battle.  Knowing that helped me focus on the right tools despite feeling so helpless. </p>
<p> I am so grateful for you and the NARP tools you have given.  </p>
<p> It seems this alignment happens on the global scale. It seems many people align in force because they share an affinity for that entitlement to deceive and punish those who dare question that authority to overwrite reality.   It is as if the pain and powerlessness they feel must have a culprit on the outside and that makes them vulnerable to those more skilled manipulators that can sense and zero in on that, to point that unhealed anger where they want.    Now we get to live our own life, aligned with source and our inner standing.</p>
<p>Thank You, Melanie!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jun 2023 05:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281046&quot;&gt;Iris&lt;/a&gt;.

Iris sweetheart,

It&#039;s my pleasure. Please know so many people right now are going through significant breaks in connections with others. It can seem cruel, senseless and totally disingenous.

But yes, home to Source we turn, and keep letting go of what hurts to keep fillig with Light.

There is nothing else to do, and I too am in a process of this right now with you!

Thank you honey for being an Angel in my life.

So Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281046">Iris</a>.</p>
<p>Iris sweetheart,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s my pleasure. Please know so many people right now are going through significant breaks in connections with others. It can seem cruel, senseless and totally disingenous.</p>
<p>But yes, home to Source we turn, and keep letting go of what hurts to keep fillig with Light.</p>
<p>There is nothing else to do, and I too am in a process of this right now with you!</p>
<p>Thank you honey for being an Angel in my life.</p>
<p>So Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jun 2023 05:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281043&quot;&gt;Tracy&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Tracy,

I am so happy for you that NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and my material has helped you so much.

You deserve a beautiful life!

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281043">Tracy</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Tracy,</p>
<p>I am so happy for you that NARP <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> and my material has helped you so much.</p>
<p>You deserve a beautiful life!</p>
<p>Love and blessings to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jun 2023 05:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281041&quot;&gt;Sarah Felton&lt;/a&gt;.

It&#039;s my pleasure Sarah!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/flying-monkeys-the-minions-narcissists-use-to-do-their-bidding-2/#comment-1281041">Sarah Felton</a>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s my pleasure Sarah!</p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Iris		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iris]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 15:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dearest Melanie,

Thank you so much!!!!  I am always impressed by how well you continue to guide, support and heal this community.  

I was so healed in NARP that the whole NARC experience has become a distant memory.  It is critical to remember however what the Narc mechanisms for hurting people are and how they operate in order to keep applying the principle of Self-Care, and Self- Love, and Self- Affirmation, etc that is NARP practice when the attacks are felt.

There was a point in my life, post NARP, about mid-Covid 2020, that it seemed EVERYONE in my inner circle had gotten the same memo to turn against me.  I can not explain it because these people do not all even know one another. But EVERYONE was suddenly cold towards me. All kinds of avenues seemed to close at once.  I could not understand what had happened. Much of this shunning is still going on - and I have felt bewildered and sad about lost connections.

I always know, however,  that my times are in God&#039;s hands and all my experiences will first be cleared by Him.

Whether these events were due to the Narc&#039;s meddling or not, the cure was still in my power.  It is to LOVE my Self.  My higher Self has never changed and can not be touched by these or any human events.  It remains perfect. It is always available for me.  It will always be present to feed my life with LIFE. God is my Source of all answers always. 

So I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this reminder that has set me back on course.  The cure and the healing are one and the same and it is unchanging Divine Love received and then made manifest in my life. There is no other satisfaction. Changing &#039;them&#039; is not even a desire.  Honoring  Source is.  From that vantage point of ONE with Source, we can see ourselves and everyone else correctly  too and with compassion that does not efface our own Be-ing.  

This reminder was all it took for me to RETURN to the arms of Divine LOVE for all my strength and for all my  Life.

Immense oceans of Love to you, dearest Melanie. Our Angel in these unstable times.

Be well, my friend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dearest Melanie,</p>
<p>Thank you so much!!!!  I am always impressed by how well you continue to guide, support and heal this community.  </p>
<p>I was so healed in NARP that the whole NARC experience has become a distant memory.  It is critical to remember however what the Narc mechanisms for hurting people are and how they operate in order to keep applying the principle of Self-Care, and Self- Love, and Self- Affirmation, etc that is NARP practice when the attacks are felt.</p>
<p>There was a point in my life, post NARP, about mid-Covid 2020, that it seemed EVERYONE in my inner circle had gotten the same memo to turn against me.  I can not explain it because these people do not all even know one another. But EVERYONE was suddenly cold towards me. All kinds of avenues seemed to close at once.  I could not understand what had happened. Much of this shunning is still going on &#8211; and I have felt bewildered and sad about lost connections.</p>
<p>I always know, however,  that my times are in God&#8217;s hands and all my experiences will first be cleared by Him.</p>
<p>Whether these events were due to the Narc&#8217;s meddling or not, the cure was still in my power.  It is to LOVE my Self.  My higher Self has never changed and can not be touched by these or any human events.  It remains perfect. It is always available for me.  It will always be present to feed my life with LIFE. God is my Source of all answers always. </p>
<p>So I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this reminder that has set me back on course.  The cure and the healing are one and the same and it is unchanging Divine Love received and then made manifest in my life. There is no other satisfaction. Changing &#8216;them&#8217; is not even a desire.  Honoring  Source is.  From that vantage point of ONE with Source, we can see ourselves and everyone else correctly  too and with compassion that does not efface our own Be-ing.  </p>
<p>This reminder was all it took for me to RETURN to the arms of Divine LOVE for all my strength and for all my  Life.</p>
<p>Immense oceans of Love to you, dearest Melanie. Our Angel in these unstable times.</p>
<p>Be well, my friend.</p>
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		By: William		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[William]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 11:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yes, a parent that uses evil predator groomers (psychopath-narcasistic) for proxy-flying monkeys knowing she is going to die soon, had already filed her last will and testament, to be certain to torture her first viable newborn after her death (not wanted boy child)  after 6👉8 miscarriages (shows how much she didn&#039;t want her own life much less any newborns at all) and all this torture , after 23 years of her unseen by me, intentionally harming me not only with those flying monkeys some of which as is said  were only sucked into her level of hate mongering but were by default used to do me harm demise me limbless and then tossed me to the human garbage heap (falsely imprisoned by her ) ( asylum) leaving me infantiled the entire time of my life until i came upon experts in child and adult relationship abusers like you Melanie Tania Evans would i now be able to put to paper all the scope of narcissistic abuse in regards to me myself and I of my life. And i did start screaming it to the RUNG DOWN CURTAIN AND THE QUIRE INVISIBLE only to realize it was part of making me look like a &#039;crazy&#039; in this subsistence model  all this after she had been dead for decades and had murdered away my lifetime do I get to see how devoid of anything human or humain she was and how she infected my whole family of origin with her dark agenda ego destroying what was only a facade the entire time. Well as is said hind site is always twenty twenty this comment looks like an excellent intro to another NARP module release and relief . 👋🏻 Goodbye even now I still &quot;KNOW&quot; evil needs to be stopped even if it is myself that &#039;was&#039; a victim to this insanity that should never have been alowed to have babies. All babies deserve parents. Fractured and broken never to know the vital vigorous life that was my birthright as a result. Zest for life in aftermath doesn&#039;t replace all my decades of submersion. This comment is a form of grieving and I am okay with that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, a parent that uses evil predator groomers (psychopath-narcasistic) for proxy-flying monkeys knowing she is going to die soon, had already filed her last will and testament, to be certain to torture her first viable newborn after her death (not wanted boy child)  after 6👉8 miscarriages (shows how much she didn&#8217;t want her own life much less any newborns at all) and all this torture , after 23 years of her unseen by me, intentionally harming me not only with those flying monkeys some of which as is said  were only sucked into her level of hate mongering but were by default used to do me harm demise me limbless and then tossed me to the human garbage heap (falsely imprisoned by her ) ( asylum) leaving me infantiled the entire time of my life until i came upon experts in child and adult relationship abusers like you Melanie Tania Evans would i now be able to put to paper all the scope of narcissistic abuse in regards to me myself and I of my life. And i did start screaming it to the RUNG DOWN CURTAIN AND THE QUIRE INVISIBLE only to realize it was part of making me look like a &#8216;crazy&#8217; in this subsistence model  all this after she had been dead for decades and had murdered away my lifetime do I get to see how devoid of anything human or humain she was and how she infected my whole family of origin with her dark agenda ego destroying what was only a facade the entire time. Well as is said hind site is always twenty twenty this comment looks like an excellent intro to another NARP module release and relief . 👋🏻 Goodbye even now I still &#8220;KNOW&#8221; evil needs to be stopped even if it is myself that &#8216;was&#8217; a victim to this insanity that should never have been alowed to have babies. All babies deserve parents. Fractured and broken never to know the vital vigorous life that was my birthright as a result. Zest for life in aftermath doesn&#8217;t replace all my decades of submersion. This comment is a form of grieving and I am okay with that.</p>
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		By: Tracy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tracy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 10:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am writing to thank you, Melanie, for educating me about narcissistic abuse.  I was married for over 20 years to a narcissist, and like so many others, didn’t understand all the ugliness I encountered from him and his band of legions until after I left him.  I am 2 1/2 years into my recovery, and I am feeling strong and powerful.  Your program and your articles have literally saved the rest of my life!  Without all your insight into a world so different from anything I could have ever imagined, I would not have been able to move forward.  Nor would I have gained the wisdom and knowledge to overcome the debilitating effects of the abuse. You make a difference in people’s lives. Thank you!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am writing to thank you, Melanie, for educating me about narcissistic abuse.  I was married for over 20 years to a narcissist, and like so many others, didn’t understand all the ugliness I encountered from him and his band of legions until after I left him.  I am 2 1/2 years into my recovery, and I am feeling strong and powerful.  Your program and your articles have literally saved the rest of my life!  Without all your insight into a world so different from anything I could have ever imagined, I would not have been able to move forward.  Nor would I have gained the wisdom and knowledge to overcome the debilitating effects of the abuse. You make a difference in people’s lives. Thank you!!!</p>
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		By: Sarah Felton		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Felton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 08:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great and spot on for me, thank you very much Melanie x]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great and spot on for me, thank you very much Melanie x</p>
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