Melanie thank you so much for sharing your story. I just started.NARP a little over a week ago. But I did the three keys and watch all the thriver TV episodes I can tell you honestly my life is on a whole new trajectory towards goodness. From a place of shame pain and hopelessness. The information you disseminate is incredibly empowering.

I am so glad I have found you, I am a domestic abuse survivor and although I knew the word narcissist I was unsure what it meant. It is only now through your blog and programme that I am starting to realise the extent that I have suffered unwittingly.

I am still healing but I will now be using the term thriver, even though my situation rattles on I now feel ready to do the work on myself.

Thank you

Hi Anna,

My greatest suggestion is to google my name plus ‘children’ and you will see that there is information through these resources regarding this.

Always in the case of being smeared to anyone as well as our child the most important thing is that we let go of the trauma of being smeared, work on healing ourselves deeply and cellularly on the inside – (which is what NARP does) and then other people follow the belief we deeply anchor into about our selves.

‘I am safe, whole and credible no matter what other people think’.

Years ago I nearly lost my son to the n’s smear campaign against me, and the more I tried to make my son believe me the worse it go. (That happens to all of us).

Yet when I directly worked on my internal trauma and become healthy my son naturally organically followed. (Which is what happens to all of us in this community doing the inner work diligently).

Anna there really is no other way.

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

Hi Kallie. Wow, that was some narc you had to deal with. I’m sorry you had to experience that, but know you’re not alone. I read somewhere that narcs set their victims on a pedastal in order to rip them down. Its essentially how they get their feed. I guess the lesson we should learn is that if some one is bigging us up – seeming to inflate our egos which, lets face it, anyone will fall for because being appreciated is a nice feeling, right? – then they’re probably on an agenda of their own. I’m learning to listen to my physical and psychic intuition. If my body feels uncomfortable around a person, if I get a disoriented feeling, I take note and become guarded.

Hi Melanie. Thank you for this video on flying monkies. What you say rings true with me. My Mother is a malignant narcissist and it took me 52 years to figure this out. Long story short, I went limited contact with her a year ago having once again reached the limit of my endurance for her devious mind games and slander. The difference is this time I understand why she behaves as she does. Unfortunately she’s now using my son (who doesn’t know) as a flying monkey. I’m guessing the best thing I can do is what you suggest…stay cool and gather inner knowing ect. I trust my son not to be vindictive, however I know how creative my mother is. She’s
currently trying to get him to play the roll of family fixer. How do I explain the situation to him? Do you or anyone else have experience or advice on this subject?