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		By: Jay		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2023 19:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Unbelievable. I cudnt have wrote a truer story. Nonetheless i was in denial yet mine was in reverse. She was horrible and road my coattails then took it all. How we even get through this stuff is amazing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unbelievable. I cudnt have wrote a truer story. Nonetheless i was in denial yet mine was in reverse. She was horrible and road my coattails then took it all. How we even get through this stuff is amazing.</p>
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		By: How Do Narcissists Feel When You Move On: 13 Things They Do		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2022 12:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] It’s not always easy to tell when a narcissist has moved on. They can be very good at hiding their true feelings and intentions. However, some common signs may indicate that a narcissist has moved on.  [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] It’s not always easy to tell when a narcissist has moved on. They can be very good at hiding their true feelings and intentions. However, some common signs may indicate that a narcissist has moved on.  [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Gabby		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gabby]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2022 00:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-11231&quot;&gt;tracy&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m still in a narcissistic relationship myself (for 23 years with my son) I woke up for about 7 months!  Thank god since I deal with this topic a lot I now understand how these sick people act 🙏🏻 I have to be careful too.  I&#039;ve been planning my escape for weeks.  and I have a plan ... how I can at least own the one I created (furniture, car, etc. and more) I won&#039;t let him take it from me!  You have to get out of there and get help in a frsuenhaus.  I understand you very well.  would help you live in germany.  I SEND YOU A LOT OF STRENGTH STAND UP GO FOR IT YOU WILL MAKE IT WITHOUT HIM]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-11231">tracy</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still in a narcissistic relationship myself (for 23 years with my son) I woke up for about 7 months!  Thank god since I deal with this topic a lot I now understand how these sick people act 🙏🏻 I have to be careful too.  I&#8217;ve been planning my escape for weeks.  and I have a plan &#8230; how I can at least own the one I created (furniture, car, etc. and more) I won&#8217;t let him take it from me!  You have to get out of there and get help in a frsuenhaus.  I understand you very well.  would help you live in germany.  I SEND YOU A LOT OF STRENGTH STAND UP GO FOR IT YOU WILL MAKE IT WITHOUT HIM</p>
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		By: Erin T		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Erin T]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Nov 2021 11:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-801219&quot;&gt;Dave&lt;/a&gt;.

This whole letter sounds like my husbands’s apologies.  They make you feel guilty by laying out his hurt and need. You so want to believe, but it’s all about them.  They do not know how to love sacrificially or put others first.  They tell you that YOU don’t want them there.  They hope YOU will finally forgive them (what a way to phrase it, just to guilt you and make you feel like you haven’t done enough). This whole apology is so manipulative. And I finally see through it (after 16 1/2 years of marriage and 4 kids).  My husband walked away from our family with a woman Kalli from Georgia and left my children devastated, all because he couldn’t love us more than himself. I hope she finds out who he really is.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-801219">Dave</a>.</p>
<p>This whole letter sounds like my husbands’s apologies.  They make you feel guilty by laying out his hurt and need. You so want to believe, but it’s all about them.  They do not know how to love sacrificially or put others first.  They tell you that YOU don’t want them there.  They hope YOU will finally forgive them (what a way to phrase it, just to guilt you and make you feel like you haven’t done enough). This whole apology is so manipulative. And I finally see through it (after 16 1/2 years of marriage and 4 kids).  My husband walked away from our family with a woman Kalli from Georgia and left my children devastated, all because he couldn’t love us more than himself. I hope she finds out who he really is.</p>
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		By: peggy b		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[peggy b]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2021 14:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1254670&quot;&gt;Sian Elizabeth Williams&lt;/a&gt;.

After living with my husband over 40 years I am learning that I must pray for myself and build up myself. For the duration of the married he has put others needs before mines and esteeming everything they say to be right but never taking my side I am learning that he is the  foe in this relationship. He needs other people in his life to fight me. Now I know that he is the weak one and I have been the strong one . I don&#039;t think he can fight this demonic spirit he possesses or he would have changed his behavior a long time ago. I continue to pray for my power forever because I do not think these type of people can change.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1254670">Sian Elizabeth Williams</a>.</p>
<p>After living with my husband over 40 years I am learning that I must pray for myself and build up myself. For the duration of the married he has put others needs before mines and esteeming everything they say to be right but never taking my side I am learning that he is the  foe in this relationship. He needs other people in his life to fight me. Now I know that he is the weak one and I have been the strong one . I don&#8217;t think he can fight this demonic spirit he possesses or he would have changed his behavior a long time ago. I continue to pray for my power forever because I do not think these type of people can change.</p>
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		By: Clean lady		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Clean lady]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2021 03:38:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[No because he’s full of dirty Pearl energy. Everyone probably is now.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No because he’s full of dirty Pearl energy. Everyone probably is now.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2021 01:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1254556&quot;&gt;Sesi&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Sesi,

I love that you are finding and nestling into your inner peace.

No-one has power over that - unless we grant it to them!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1254556">Sesi</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Sesi,</p>
<p>I love that you are finding and nestling into your inner peace.</p>
<p>No-one has power over that &#8211; unless we grant it to them!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Sian Elizabeth Williams		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sian Elizabeth Williams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2021 17:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lots of great insights in the article and in the comments. The one that resonated most with me was regarding agoraphobia. I&#039;ve been experiencing it and didn&#039;t realize that it was related to narcissist abuse.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lots of great insights in the article and in the comments. The one that resonated most with me was regarding agoraphobia. I&#8217;ve been experiencing it and didn&#8217;t realize that it was related to narcissist abuse.</p>
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		By: Sesi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sesi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2021 20:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1228161&quot;&gt;Joy&lt;/a&gt;.

Please don’t give him the satisfaction of having destroyed you! Rise up from the ashes, dust yourself off and rise girl! You are beautiful, alive and educated! Create a good life for yourself with the help of God and move on after healing! Never allow him to feel victorious! You are more than a conqueror! Rise warrior woman! Rise!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#comment-1228161">Joy</a>.</p>
<p>Please don’t give him the satisfaction of having destroyed you! Rise up from the ashes, dust yourself off and rise girl! You are beautiful, alive and educated! Create a good life for yourself with the help of God and move on after healing! Never allow him to feel victorious! You are more than a conqueror! Rise warrior woman! Rise!</p>
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