Thank you Rose.
It’s nice to see the difference in being a victim and placing responsibility for the abuse. This was concise.

Hi Catherine,

I’m so glad you did. Bless!

Mel 🙏💕❤️

Melanie, I have started New Age Psychology or “Angels at Work.” On Face Book it went terrible, but I have left toxic Face Book. I’m now on Linkedin & it’s starting to do much better. I’m sure you know there are narcs there too, but there is also a lot of encouragement & laughter. Not perfect, but better. I bumped into another therapist who wants to go New Age. Wish me luck, that I can go somewhere with this. You two are beautiful woman, I care about such sweethearts deeply. Hopefully, a huge joint effort with make a big change. I might someday become a spoke person for survivors who could not be believed. I know that full well. I was asked by another survivor, but not sure I’m strong enough to get involved with people face to face. Food for thought.
Keep on a doing what you are a doing.
SWAK,
Carol

Thank you Meme and please know you are so welcome!

I’m so pleased you have anchored into you faith.

I truly do believe that goodness and truth does won out in the end.

Many blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

Hi Jeanne,

Thank you for your comment and support and I look forward to responding in the Forum to you.

Love and blessings.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

I want to thank so much for the brave work you do. So many people don’t understand the destruction a NARC can do to one’s life. The guilt we are forced to carry because we feel responsible for putting our most beloved people in harm’s way because we fell for the lies and manipulations can be overwhelming. Especially when our loved ones are used as weapons against us. Even our own children are used and manipulated to harm us. Every system that is there to support us can be taken away. And it is amazing how they can even gloat about that. it makes them feel powerful and us to feel powerless. But I am here to tell you that we can somehow muster strength when we think we cannot take any more. Have faith in God and he will see you through. I know because I wanted to give up, but it started with that mustard seed of faith, and it grew and grew, no matter what was happening around me. And I finally believe that we can overcome and God will use what was meant for our harm to be used for our good. I’m still not on the other side, but if I can encourage one more woman or person to stay strong and not give up…it will be worth the pain we have all endured. Please keep giving us faith. God bless you.

I think Ed I picked up a bit of bubbled up inner knowledge of how my father did not want me & that is the core for me . BUT,, knowledge aside .

Knowledge is good but your methods take that knowledge awareness into a way of healing … which is immeasurable. Knowledge is measurable.

Love you Mel . Continue your calling. 💕 Jeanne

Hi A,

What a journey and sweetheart you are on it, so many of us are.

It is incredibly true how in the impact of every painful relationship there are those aspects of us triggered into the deep trauma of ‘you didn’t love me’ ‘you were cruel to me’ ‘you lied to me’ etc. that feel so personally crippling.

However these parts are showing us the painful beliefs regarding how our own Inner Idenity doesn’t believe it is possible to be lovable or loved wholly, safely and kindly.

Have you accessed Quanta Freedom Healing yet to start releasing this trauma and reprogramming these beliefs, so that you can organically know yourself as All of Creation sees you and knows you?

This is where the True Thriving and resurrection of us, after narcissistic abuse, is and I’d love to show you more about it http://www.melanietonievans.com/freecourse

If you have accessed NARP then please come into the NARP Forum where we can really help you nail and uplevel these beliefs and get to the next level of freedom, power and relief.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕❤️