Comments on: Hiding Behind Victimisation And Blaming Instead Of Taking Responsibility https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 09 Oct 2024 08:28:16 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256752 Mon, 04 Oct 2021 04:51:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256752 In reply to Maxine Wilson.

Hi Maxine,

it is so true that the abuse can live on inside.

I’d love you to check out NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

It effectively detoxes and frees you from that internal trauma. It will deliver you to happiness and health.

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256749 Mon, 04 Oct 2021 04:45:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256749 In reply to Doug.

Hi Doug,

if you google my name plus “can a narcissist be healed” you will find my resources on this topic.

I hope that this helps.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Doug https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256745 Mon, 04 Oct 2021 04:03:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256745 So is there any hope at all for the narcissist to see what they’ve done and to change or are we all just wasting our time thinking there is something out there that will heal that which can’t be healed?

]]> By: Maxine Wilson https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256736 Mon, 04 Oct 2021 01:33:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256736 I am long past trying to understand his behaviours and actions and realize that this is the truth that has happened in my past. I got free, many miles away, five years ago. I have suffered with the trauma of abuse but have lived on my own many years now.
My struggle is the continued emotional feelings I have for my abuser. It becomes a viscous cycle each time I get stuck emotionally where logic must bring the reality of the abusive experiences.
I truly want happiness and to be healthy.

]]> By: Ter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256693 Sun, 03 Oct 2021 10:49:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256693 Thank you for this video …. It explains why I behave the way I do. And more importantly, what I need to do to heal myself forever. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Ter

]]> By: Chris P. https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256639 Sat, 02 Oct 2021 03:35:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256639 Hi Melanie:
Yes! I am in victimn mode, but at least now I have a “map” to follow for a new road. Recovery will be long and difficult. I started with NARP> My eyes remain red from the releases. I know there will be more.
I also have ties with the Narcissist that need to be severed. That is not simple.
I have a court case with another Narcissist. That will be very difficult because these people are very convincing to authorities. But they make mistakes, and I have caught them in lies. Wish me luck in finding court evidence.
Blessings,

Chris Petersen

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256637 Sat, 02 Oct 2021 02:35:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256637 In reply to Lori.

It’s my pleasure Lori!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Lori https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256628 Fri, 01 Oct 2021 15:52:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256628 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thanks Mel! I would have been lost without your teachings. Thanks!

]]> By: Lori https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hiding-behind-victimisation-and-blaming-instead-of-taking-responsibility/#comment-1256627 Fri, 01 Oct 2021 15:50:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10001#comment-1256627 In reply to Molly.

Thanks Molly! Sorry you are going through the same thing. Tenacity is needed believe me I’m having a real battle here with being believed by the police and am pressuring the DA to act. They seem to treat this guy as a mere Bad Boy instead of the dangerous sociopath he truly is. I’m going to keep pushing to keep him away and hope you can keep your strength up too! Xxoo

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