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By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 22 Aug 2023 08:38:40 +0000

In reply to Dee.

Hi Dee,

what you have been going through and still are is sooo painful.

My heart goes out to you.

The insidious hooks of narcissitic abuse truly are mind and soul bending. I agree SO many of us were completley bamboozled as to why we stay with THIS person, when we would never do that with another.

Dee, I’d love you to come into my FREE Masterclass to help you understand WHY this is happening, and also how I can help you shift out of this and come back into your clarity, releif and power … to break this spell.

http://www.melanietoniaeevans.com/masterclass

I so hope that this can help you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Dee

Dee — Tue, 15 Aug 2023 23:17:09 +0000

Hello Melanie, I can’t believe all the similarities in these men. As I read them all I could say was wow because I myself have experienced so much of the emotional rape, the lies, the cheating, the abuse mentally, financially, emotionally and physical and he played me so well and I fell for it all that when he asked to marry me, I accepted and got married. Two months in I found he was cheating on me with another woman. When I look back I think of how much of a stupid fool I have been and here I am still with this liar who says he’s a changed man. He’s a changed man alright he changed his job so now it’s easier for him to cheat without my ever finding out but energy doesn’t lie. How he treats me with that distance and coldness always reveals to me there is someone else in the picture. I pay for everything all he pays is electric and barely pays that and buys food and toiletries and sometimes falls short of purchasing and paying for those. I own my home so I pay my own mortgage as well. When we broke up while married he stuck me with a vehicle in my name I got for him and I still took him back after he purchased me another Diamond ring purchased watches and sent me flowers and gifts on gifts and receiving them made me feel loved. He said he wanted to move back and us work on our marriage cause we were meant to be, said he would pay half of every bill, etc. He has done nothing he said he would do. Thank God I am blessed with a job I can take care of all my bills on my own. Oh my God I could tell you so much I still continue to go through but yet I stay as if I don’t want to let go even though I know he is doing nothing for me and he does not value me only for what I can do that will benefit him and it’s not even about sex anymore as it was in the beginning. He’s hurt me so from the lies, cheating, and how he has mistreated me that it doesn’t bother me when he is unavailable for me. I only take note of it in my head. I feel like I’m under a spell as if he has done some black magic that prevents me from ending it. In my past relationships before him I would have never stayed in a relationship with any man who has done all the things he has done to me. I would have ended it the first time I found him in a lie, cheating, the gaslighting and games played. I sometimes say to myself what the hell has happened to me? It’s just too much to type all I have been through. I’m still trying to figure out why and what I’m going to do to protect my home because I believe he’s here to gain it from me. I’m so hurt inside.

By: Lauren

Lauren — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 13:49:09 +0000

Hi Melanie 💕,
This was really helpful! I’m not sure if you’re still commenting on here being that the post was from a long time ago, but my husband and I are trying to recover from his narcissistic mother and narcissistic enabler father. The really hard part is that they were actually great parents to him, but they are extremely hurtful grandparents. I just realized after 6 years of dealing with their hurt and confusion that my mother in law is actually narcissistic. She is an overt narcissist, so a lot harder to spot.
She is hovering now. She calls him weekly and leaves voicemails on his phone. We have gone no contact.

We had a huge falling out with them because for 6 years they picked on and mistreated our two innocent little girls. It all started when our first child was born 6 years ago. They only have 3 grandchildren and they favorite his brother’s child by buying him the world. They also babysit and invest countless hours a week in this grandchild. When my girls would go over to visit they would tell us to bring all of their own toys from home because they don’t have any girl toys. It got to the point where my oldest started to ask me why there’s nothing there for them. This went on for years. It’s worse because the favorite is a boy. So there’s no girl anything there. We ignored it even though it was rubbed in our faces. I had to lie to my kids in order to cover up for them. I felt just awful and my kids felt unwelcome.

Then it start to get worse because she wasn’t getting enough attention from us ignoring all of the hurtful actions. We still tried to keep the relationship going. The final straw was when she called us up to tell us that she was in a “deep dark place” because my kids are shy and don’t run up to her to give her a hug. She called our daughters “weird” because they can be a little shy (what 3 & 5 year olds aren’t?!). She also told us that she would have to settle for their personality and who they are as people. They then completely ignored my older daughters birthday a couple months after this. She didn’t even get a card from them. It’s just an awful situation. We are extremely hurt and confused.

Now she’s hovering. Do you have any feedback for us? We’re naturally helping people and want to help fix them and help them to understand how to be good grandparents (which we’ve tried numerous times), but we are realizing that with a narcissist it’s impossible. Because it’s his parents we feel extremely guilty for going no contact. Any words or wisdom you have will be greatly appreciated!!!
💕xoxo,
Lauren

By: Bahmi

Bahmi — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:39:11 +0000

Would you expect a 75 y.o. female psychopath who spends a lot of time copulating with young bucks in the area could/would ever recognize the folly in her ways? Divorced 20 years ago, a classic pathological sort if I ever saw one. Has the body a 25 year old model would give her eye teeth for. Obviously has genetic traits in her favor, but she has no close friends. Had a co-dependent husband for 25 years, for a different reason he went along with her request for a divorce. Claimed he was seeing his mother excessively and the divorce was granted on that basis. In reality, I think he got totally sick of her psychopathy.
Can I bring her home to my mother?

By: Jaleesa

Jaleesa — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 13:11:10 +0000

I’m so glad for this website . I didn’t even know I was with a narcissist. Thank God for YouTube especially Melanie who doesn’t only explain it but helps navigate healing with it . I got the I swear on my children’s life and I literally went through their phone and found lord that made me absolutely sick .