Comments on: How Do You Choose A Healthy Partner Next Time? https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 19 Oct 2022 22:42:26 +0000 hourly 1 By: Is It Limerence Or Is It Love? - Path2Positivity https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1275329 Wed, 19 Oct 2022 22:42:26 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1275329 […] the planet, there are actually strong, real, genuine those that we will have wholesome relationships with, and there are people who find themselves wounded, traumatized, narcissistic, or false selves […]

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264637 Sat, 05 Feb 2022 23:25:26 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264637 In reply to Molly.

Hi Molly,

I’m really pleased that this helped!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264607 Fri, 04 Feb 2022 21:52:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264607 Thank you Melanie. I needed to hear this. I have not been truthful with myself and what I need and want in life. I kept thinking of what you said- that people treat us how we treat ourselves. And I kept asking myself why are others being so dishonest with me? and now, I realize it is because I have been dishonest with myself. I have stayed in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, lying to myself and telling myself it is not so bad and he can change. I have been trying to get all the commodities of love, security, safety and approval from people outside myself. Well no more. I don’t care what I have to do. I don’t care how long it takes. I don’t care if I lose face. I am coming home to myself and I am going to generate love. Thank you for the article and guidance, as I am the one who will do this work and change my life, I also thank myself for finding this material to help me. thank u.

]]> By: Healthy@gmail.com https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264579 Fri, 04 Feb 2022 00:01:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264579 I didn’t choose an unhealthy partner. That’s not my reality or diabolical machinations.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264412 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 22:46:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264412 In reply to Lady.

Hi Lady,

that’s awesome that you are doing so well.

I love what you wrote!

Bless!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264410 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 22:45:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264410 In reply to Sm.

Hi Sm,

I’m so pleased I can help and you are so welcome!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Lady https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264217 Sun, 30 Jan 2022 04:34:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264217 Everyday Mel, everyday I am growing, shifting, learning, releasing and blessing. Everyday I am in awe of who I am. I would gratefully accept the opportunity for a dating boot camp.

]]> By: Clare https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264191 Sat, 29 Jan 2022 21:41:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264191 Dating bootcamp! What an amazing idea! I was thinking only earlier this week that it would be so cool if Melanie could offer a NARP dating service. But this is even better πŸ™‚ XXX

]]> By: Sm https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-choose-a-healthy-partner-next-time/#comment-1264156 Sat, 29 Jan 2022 11:59:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10595#comment-1264156 Your words are so important to me! I regularly reread your blog posts to help ground me in myself, and unravel some of my knots. 1000 thanks for the good work you keep birthing!

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