Comments on: How Do You Get The Courage To Stand Up To A Narcissist? https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 24 Mar 2024 06:16:56 +0000 hourly 1 By: Brenda https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1284453 Mon, 15 Jan 2024 22:10:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1284453 I am suing a narcissist who has conned me into parting with a lot of money. My barrister is clear this is perfectly acceptable, but I feel like a bitch. πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

]]> By: Loosing hope https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265932 Mon, 07 Mar 2022 04:46:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265932 In my situation our son is being emotionally abused by his Narcissistic wife and has been beaten down for 14 years. In the beginning of their marriage, he was the strong one. A devoted, faithful Christian man. After their first child, she changed and began her controlling manipulative Narcissistic emotionally abusive ways. After all these years of shaming and belittling and emasculating him, he is but a shadow of who he was. He has gone from frantic fear of her leaving with their 4 children, to now beginning to stand up and fight. It will be a long fight back to who he was. But in contrast to what you have said, he was a secure, self aware man. He was a very strong, secure, man of God. I tell you this to help others to know that the effects of the abuse can also wear down a once strong person, to almost nothing! The cost of a sweet, pure, kind heart, that was totally taken advantage of for many years. It was very difficult for him to harden his heart against her. Such a long journey. Our poor grandkids! We pray and try and stand up! Your tips truly do help though. We just don’t all fit the cookie cutter mold that you speak about.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265868 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:36:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265868 In reply to Peter.

Hey Peter,

please know how welcome you are!

Love you are loving Insta!

I’m enjoying the new channel and vibe!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265867 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:35:32 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265867 In reply to Iris.

Hi Iris,

maybe πŸ™‚

I love how you are fully on this ride with me!

It’s unlimited … and YES it is time to say YES to the Divine.

Mwah darling lady!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265866 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:34:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265866 In reply to Dana.

Yaya Dana!

I’m thrilled you are loving your NARP growth journey!

Many blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265865 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:33:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265865 In reply to Rich.

Hi Rich,

well done in your detachment and allowing others to do their own healing dance.

You are leading with an awesome example!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265864 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:31:59 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265864 In reply to Rebecca.

Hi Rebecca,

you’re doing such a good job.

You should be very proud of you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265863 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:30:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265863 In reply to Doug.

Hi Doug, great question.

The bottom line and truth is honour your soul – and you honour life and others in honourable ways.

This relates to everything and everyone.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-do-you-get-the-courage-to-stand-up-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1265862 Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:29:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10846#comment-1265862 In reply to carrey.

Hi Carey,

my highest recommendation is NARP as the foundation to heal and then Transforming Family of Wounds Origins.

I hope that this helps!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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