Comments on: How Narcissistic Abuse Changes You

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 08:01:39 +0000

In reply to Susan Clarehugh.

It’s my pleasure Susan,

I’m so pleased that this helped!

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Eir Noirro

Eir Noirro — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 05:42:30 +0000

Amen.

By: Susan Clarehugh

Susan Clarehugh — Tue, 13 Oct 2020 08:40:04 +0000

In reply to CHARLENE NEL.

Hi Charlene,
How very very brave you are, so strong and capable too. These “Masked Demons” are in all walks of life and in all careers. Why do they always cry? It’s strange isn’t it? Is it the guilty, spoilt child in them that shows itself to us in the hope of tricking us into feeling ‘sorry’ for them. I’ve been through very similar experiences emotionally, but without having to look after a small child. I’m pleased you’re doing great, and it’s reassuring to here that and thank you for sharing your story. Take care of yourself and little one. Su xxx ( Newcastle, England)

By: Susan Clarehugh

Susan Clarehugh — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 06:26:33 +0000

Arh, thank you so very much for your advice and feedback. I will definitely look into that and progress with my healing. I had only known this man for 8 weeks. And I am pleased I got rid at the first big sign of his narsistic behaviour. Melanie Your a guiding Star for so many of us who appreciate your understanding and help. Takecare xxx

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 04:26:57 +0000

In reply to Susan Clarehugh.

Hi Su,

Hun, please know so much of what you described – up to the “red flag” of “shut up” was already glaringly BIG red flags!!

Absolutely you did not overreact, you have dodged a bullet with a VERY unhealthy controlling person.

Please know I would suggest the deeper INNER work for you, to no longer have to go through these false flags of people, and get aligned with the healthy love.

Are you working with NARP? Because there is no substitute for the work done directly inside you, reading my articles or listening to my videos isnt the way to truly heal. These are supplements only.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

If you are working with NARP, then I would suggest to really commit and maybe even get guidance and support in the NARP Member’s Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member so that you can get rid of these trauma programs that are even considering that you have overreacted.

I promise you when you heal them up, a man like him, that demanding, would have been “OVER” for you long before this stage.

And please know I am not saying this to be hard on you! I SO get it!

I totally understand because this is exactly the same type of clingly, demanding, controlling person I used to pair up with – until I healed those parts of myself that were bonded to such people. That’s exactly the inner work you need too.

That work is not logical or addressed with “information”

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 04:08:06 +0000

In reply to Michelle Denny.

Hi Michelle,

thank you and I am very pleased that you loved it.

I’m so pleased I have been able to help and that you are doing well.

Much love to you too my dear fellow traveller!

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 04:06:01 +0000

In reply to Sharron D.

Hi Sharron,

I’m so pleased that this resonated with you!

Please know that everything that you are thinking and feeling is perfectly understandable … and totally consistent with the significant trauma of what you have gone through.

Sharron, have you come into one of my free webinars yet to experience Quanta Freedom Healing? http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

That may help you with that decision.

Sending you healing and much love

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Helen

Helen — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 02:15:23 +0000

In reply to Scott Weathersby. If I go within, I will never have to go without. ♥️

By: Susan Clarehugh

Susan Clarehugh — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 09:30:18 +0000

Hi Melanie,
Still after over 3 years I watch and listen to your advice and help. I met a man in August, on paper he ticked the boxes for me. I described to him my last Narc partner and how I had been healing myself for the past 3 years or so. I thought he understood that I needed to take things slowly…. I’ll not waffle on.. however , he continued to declare his love for me (after only 4 weeks) and say I had everything he needed and wanted, how beautiful I was inside and out. I was starting to panic and see traits of my ex Garry! And just as this new lockdown was threatened, he got worse. Saying that he wasn’t just going to see me as and when. I was in his bubble. He cried over this too! He had done jobs in my house for me, which I couldn’t manage, and I felt like I owed him. Anyway, he was video calling me every night and this was very draining anyway! And on the following evening I was talking to a friend on my phone, he kept ringing me and texting saying that I must call him asap. I said I’m talking to someone, id call him tomorrow. I called the next day and he went Wild! Saying hed not slept! And he babbled on about needing to see me etc and how he needed me. I tried to interject , as you do, but he yelled at me to SHUT UP!! SHUT UP!! That was the biggest red flag!!! I told him in a message that I WAS NOT GOING TO BE SPOKEN TO LIKE THAT AGAIN! …. I’ve blocked his contact now. Did I over react??? That’s my question?

Thank you, Su xxxx