Comments on: How Overt & Covert Narcissists Hook And Then Destroy You https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 27 Jul 2023 06:11:16 +0000 hourly 1 By: Daphne https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1277494 Fri, 06 Jan 2023 02:50:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1277494 In reply to Tessa.

“The attraction to a covert narcissist is because many of us want to be rescued. We’re attracted to vulnerabilities and getting behind somebody who we think needs love and a better chance at life. “
That doesn’t make sense to me? Wanting to be rescued but getting behind someone? My covert was a widower, did appeal to my sensitive side, but he was so protective of me, saying he wanted to take care of me.
Turned out to be one of the most evil horrible person I’ve ever been tied to.
I’m super feminine, want a masculine, KIND man… one day 🙏🏼

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273381 Sun, 04 Sep 2022 22:23:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273381 In reply to Jan.

Hi Jan,

stay strong – you are doing a fantastic job.

You deserve your True Self and True Life

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273379 Sun, 04 Sep 2022 22:22:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273379 In reply to Anna.

Hi Anna,

I hope that this information can help you!

Stay strong and much love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Rafał https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273377 Sun, 04 Sep 2022 22:11:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273377 How Overt & Covert Narcissists Hook at the warehose. The covert is a warehose chef and overt is a simpl worker but realy is his soldier and rotation of a men is realy great because of they’re perishing like at a concentration camp.

I’m sniffing such thing pretty well.

Once I ‘ve encountered a marriage. She was looking much older than he but theirs age was enough equal. He was a predator and she’s played a role of partner at hunting to avoid to be victim at that moment. But I was the hunting proof.

]]> By: Goodie2shoos https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273331 Sun, 04 Sep 2022 00:47:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273331 I’m so, so sorry for my rant!

]]> By: Jan https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273245 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 10:13:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273245 Hi Mel
It’s thanks to your videos and then others that I’ve since come across that I realised I was living with a covert narcissist. I knew something was “off” shortly after I moved in with him. But I just couldn’t work out what was going g on. He started to sleep deprive me – turning on the light at 3am , shouting at me that I didn’t have the right to sleep.i started to think he had dementia he got so crazy. Dr’s checked him out he was fine. He told me he had cancer. I insisted on biopsies. No oesaphagal cancer. He said he had ling cancer. Chest xray came back clear as did blood tests. Now I’ve left he said he’s absolutely fine. I did no contact for two months while I detoxed. I was worried I’d go back if I saw him . I started to contact via email a week ago to try and get my stuff back and he’s trying to get back in my head. So I’m sticking to no contact and focusing on me , my loved ones and my new business. I will buy new red sparkly shoes!

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273238 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 07:41:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273238 Dear Mrs Evans, it’s the first time I read you, please, sorry for typing mistakes. I want to tell you thank you so much, thank to understand really, thank you so much from my heart. Thanks to describe the pain, the deep disbelief to be left from a narcisist, after many years I gave him all my love and undestanding. I left me again and now henmakes me ghosting, nobody can undestand psychological violence that he made me. But I’m trying to make me strong, I hope, even if I would tell him what pain caused me more times, even if I never deserved it, I told him, but he didn’t understand. So this time he left me and I’m trying to tell nothing. Thank you, Mrs Evans. Sincerely God bless you.

]]> By: Marti https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273233 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 06:48:57 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273233 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Dearest Mel, I’m sure I speak for many when I say that my inner child is sooooo deeply grateful for everything you lovingly bring to us all here! ❤️🙏❤️

What an incredible profound gift you’ve given to so many, to be able to connect and nurture that lonely sad innerchild and give them the much needed validation and love that they have desperately needed
To be able to finally put the focus on the little one inside that has needed it for so long!🤗💓🙏
….the most beautiful touching revelation ever!❤️🙏❤️
To be able to finally soothe and love and comfort and bring enlightenment to that inner child….what could be more beautiful and profound!❤️🙏❤️
Every one has that beautiful child inside – that beautiful 🌟 inside!

How wonderful to be a part of something so profoundly beautiful!❤️🙏🌟

Thank you Mel and this beautiful community!❤️🙏❤️🌟

Finally….
Much love ❤️🙏💓🙏🌟

]]> By: Peter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-overt-covert-narcissists-hook-and-then-destroy-you/#comment-1273230 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 04:15:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11911#comment-1273230 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Melanie!
That comment of yours about a rhinoceros made me laugh! 😂
❤️🦋❤️

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