Comments on: How The Narcissist’s Future Faking Keeps You On The Hook https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 09 Oct 2024 14:28:55 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269094 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:53:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269094 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

please know how welcome you are. I’m so pleased this spoke to you!

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269092 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:51:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269092 In reply to Gen.

I love Gen how far you have come!

It’s been a joy to see you heal and blossom with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

Thank you for your love and we all love you so much Gen!

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269091 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:49:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269091 In reply to Stephen Coleman.

So true Stephen!

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269090 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:48:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269090 In reply to Sibusisiwe.

Hi Sibusisiwe,

N’s truly are almost identical in how they are wired and behave!

I’m so happy that this information is helping you.

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269089 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:47:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269089 In reply to Laura.

Hi Laura,

how beautiful that you now are creating the Truth of YOUR Life.

Well done for healing and THriving and I’m so pleased NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp is helping you get there!

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269088 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:45:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269088 In reply to Janet Holmes.

Hi Janet,

I’m so pleased that this clarity is helping you.

Sending you continued healing and breakthroughs

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1269087 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:44:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1269087 In reply to Molly.

I love Molly that you are breaking through with your inner healing.

Power to you lovely lady!

Mel šŸ™šŸ’žšŸ¦‹

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1268950 Thu, 12 May 2022 22:10:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1268950 I have been tangled up in a job situation/search in which they keep promising me the dream job that I want, however it never seems to materialize. I end up exploited and used by people who smile in my face. It is just so hurtful to have to realize that they don’t care about my feelings. They don’t care about what they promised to deliver. I never knew that narcissists hit you so hard financially like this.
However, I have to keep shifting my perspective. This is not easy Melanie!! I have to remind myself, that no, actually, it is a wound I have around survival. And this is what allowed the narcissist to show up in my life in the first place and mess with my finances. Once I get solid in my birthright to survive then no narcissist can show up in my life like this with false promises. I won’t fall for it. Did some healing around this. Discovered that I do have some beliefs that survival is acquired from others outside myself.
So, let me just say it out: Survival is my birthright
Survival is my birthright
There is no outside person who I must go to for my survival
Wishing you thrivers well. This is quite a journey we decided to embark on. Sending love, happiness and survival to all šŸ™‚

]]> By: Janet Holmes https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissists-future-faking-keeps-you-on-the-hook/#comment-1268937 Thu, 12 May 2022 14:49:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11285#comment-1268937 Dear Melanie, you have opened my eyes with all you have written! You helped me to give a name to what I was married to. Your writings always keep me informed of what my ex did to me and:my kids. Your points are right on.
It is very sad to know my life for many years, was ruled by a Narcissistic monster. Iā€™m so glad to be out of his clutches. The court system did nothing to prevent his taking what he did not earn, since he never worked in the 2.5 years we were married.
You have opened my eyes, and for that I am thankful. Keep up the good work!! There are many of us who just need to understand and give it a name to the torture we are or have been going though.
Regards
Janet

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