Comments on: How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 3 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 19 Sep 2016 11:02:24 +0000 hourly 1 By: Maria https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14708 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 20:31:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14708 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

….That should be ‘fate’… “What we do not make concious, emerges later as fate”. Struggling a bit with foreign language, sorry.

]]> By: Lee https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14629 Wed, 19 Sep 2012 16:18:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14629 Linda, I know what that feels like. N abuse triggered physical illness , weight loss, hair fell out. Also was in so much pain- I did not want to end my life but saw no other way out of the pain. Kniw that there is. I just held on, one breath at a time. Every day of NC gave me breathing space. it gets easier. Then Melanie was put in my path just as I was ready to hear her message. Growth had been interminably slow- but now it is really happening.

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14519 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 10:21:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14519 In reply to Anna.

Hi Melanie,

I did your radio session this weekend and felt a big shift. Came away knowing that I love me (never quite knew what that meant)and I will always take care of me and with the affirmation that I would always have enough.
I’m so excited!! I just got offered a new, better paying job!! Something I love to do! I was worrying about money these last few weeks. I can hardly believe it. Can’t thank you enough. Will be doing more sessions as I feel I have more to shift but the big rocks have gone! Thanks so much….

]]> By: Joely Hammill https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14512 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 06:57:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14512 Thankyou, its been an emotional day and i feel alot lighter for listening to your voice above all. I understand what i need to do and if i can continue with no contact and be more assertive in my ways i will overcome the urges. Its not easy, but i need emotional freedom and i want to get there so thanks for doing what your doing xx

]]> By: Linda Tutt https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14497 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 04:17:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14497 Mel..Today I awoke in such pain I couldnt face it again. I have lost ALOT of weight, and am seriously depressed and today was the day I was going to commit suicide to stop thinking about him and stop the pain. I looked at the email from you. I thought what the hell it cant hurt.THANK-YOU from the bottom of my heart. I know I can live now, with the white light that has filled me with love and acceptance. I have value and my narc mother and husband cant hurt me anymore. I love this and you. THANK-YOU

]]> By: Lee https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14370 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 17:07:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14370 This is definitely the healing mechanism I have been searching for. I have truly left the N in my dust. Cannot heal him, stopped caring. Whew that took YEARS !
Mom still an issue. Not a healthy relationship, but she is elderly and needs me.
When her own very emotionally disconnected mother died she was reborn. It unleashed all sorts of growth.
I really want to be healthy enough to love her with all the baggage she carries from her own childhood- without damaging my fragile recovery. She is 90, I am 60. I need to heal me first but what if she can’t wait?

]]> By: Lee https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14369 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 16:32:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14369 Incredibly Positive and helpful. Theta waves- used them in meditating to block premature labor- so successfully the doctors wrote papers on it. Taught myself to control my hormone output so what you do makes sense.
Went right back to that meditative state. My block is now apparent- my little sister died young, cancer. My parents grief and pain felt like abandonment. I could not heal any of them much less me. The N- tried to heal him too. Couldn’t and got rejected and abused for trying.
Too much for one session. But you opened a door. I have been in therapy several times trying to heal this. Each time I think I have it crops up again. Ideas???

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-14125 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 08:34:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-14125 Hi Mel,

I didn’t feel a big shift right away. But my body has been aching less (I suffer from high muscle tension when under stress)and my mind is peaceful. Got some shit thrown my way a couple of times this week and was able to handle it a lot better. Will be doing another one this weekend. Thanks Mel! You’re a gem.

]]> By: Wendy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-phenomenon-of-narcissistic-abuse-occurs-and-how-you-can-overcome-it-p3/#comment-13984 Thu, 13 Sep 2012 14:37:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1110#comment-13984 Keep it up Melanie! I have been telling my friends:)

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