Neda,

thank you for your beautiful words and please know how welcome you are!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

I am really grateful for your answer. And I really like the fact that you are personally taking care of us. It makes me feel SEEN. Something I’ve missed my entire life. I’ve been using module one a lot in the past, while clearing abuse traumas. Thank you for recommending it for this one. I realize now it’s actually an unloaded emotion that needs to be directed and no answer will battle it logically. I just need to go through this the right way. You actually gave me the answer – the more healing of Source as us, the better. It’s not removing the fear, but it’s a relief. Thank you for everything you are and create. As I always say, you are an angel in a human body. Lots of love

💞💞 💞

Hi Neda,

I hear what you are saying.

fears and traumas are often not logical and they can persist until we have found, loaded up and released them, regardless of what profound answer you may or may not get from outside of you.

Are you working with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ? If so I would use Module 1 or the SH and R Module and target “the trauma in my body generating “that belief” – (however you wish to word it that gives you a kick on the inside).

Once you have shifted that out and replaced it with Source Light (which NARP does) then you will know the truth … the entire point of us all healing our stuff now, is to bring The Light down on this planet and create heaven on earth – right here right now.

The more Light of Source as us, the better.

That’s what we are all going through on a micro and macro level at present.

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Hi Julie,

I’m so pleased that that made sense for you!

That’s wonderful that you are going to start NARPing, you will notice a difference in your healing journey from this point forward.

Awwww your words are very kind and thank you for your beautiful support.

Please feel my love and prayers for you Julie, and wishing you many blessings always.

Mel 🙏💕💚

Hi, Melanie!

Everything you said makes perfect since! I love how you care for all of us in this community and want the best for us, your advice is beyond comforting and trustworthy!

I am not working with NARP and have been wanting to for so long! I will take that next step and get started!

I want to thank you with all of my heart and soul for your generous available readings and teachings that have resonated with me so deeply! Nothing else has ever helped me more than what I have learned from your blog posts and available resources! I can’t wait to take your classes so that I can learn how to become completely WHOLE so that I don’t feel the need to continue to learn about narcissism!
You’re knowledge and teachings are nothing short of a gift from God!
You are in my prayers for being able to continue delivering the most crystal clear advice there is to offer on this subject!💎🦋 Love to you Melanie!💗🤗🙏

Hi Julie,

I so understand what you are asking!

I too can get caught up in “information” (or I used to profoundly!)

My credo now is to heal within (NARP) for any feelings of powerlessness, anxiety and then “doing my life” and “time for information” are lovely byproducts and add ons.

The inner healing is what changes me deeply at my core, instead of having to keep regurgitating and gaining information to try to feel whole.

I hope that makes sense and puts this into some context for you.

Are you working with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ? It is my highest suggestion always to heal in the most powerful and straight line, where one day you will never need to read any of my articles again!

That is my greatest wish for you – because then I know that you are free and living your best and truest life!

That’s what the inner work does.

So much love to you.

Mel 🙏💕💚

If anyone could answer this question I would appreciate it! Is reading Melanie’s blog posts just keeping me in a cycle of not healing completely and getting on with life?
I feel like I have been healing for so long and spend my mornings in her blog posts but when do you know when to stop or is it ok to always keep learning?
I think I was hearing that the thinking of certain events that the narcissist did to you and the talking about them to other people is the problem, and it’s ok to continue to learn and educate yourself as long as you want or is there a point at where the educating needs to stop??

Hope this isn’t too confusing any help would be greatly appreciated by this community!

Melanie, this perpetrator turned my world upside down and made me aware of the assumptions I made about people and their Professions. Like this perpetrator worked with vulnerable members within the community; was softly spoken so came across harmful; was a New Ager and Church goer, so altruistic, right? No. She was a predatorial snake that sniffed out people’s Achilles Heel and exploits it for her own aggrandizement and self entitlement. She was so skilled deception. No conscience. This is a person who is a public servant who connects with high status members of our society together with low status members of society. I put doctors, nurses, teachers and single mothers on a hard earned pedestal. I learnt a hard lesson. These people are also aggressors and abusers. No one is free from the Snake. We all can be his or her prey. For me, I just got it that, being sympathetic for a person gets me down the rabbit hole. Yes, you can be empathetic but watch out for falling hook line and sinker with being sympathetic. These people are not human. Go in peace.