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		By: Leleplezni a nárcisztikust &#124; Végvári Edit - pszichológus		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] A forrásvideót megtekintehed itt. [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] A forrásvideót megtekintehed itt. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2021 01:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1254983&quot;&gt;The Silent Treatment&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi The Silent Treatment,

absolutely in no way is my work gender specific. The examples I grant are for both sexes, and I am very careful to showcase that.

We have many wonderful men in our community working on their healing with the NARP Program www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

Of course your ex is going to blame you and accuse you - it&#039;s what narcissists do!

Your mission is NOT to convince her that you are NOT that person, it&#039;s to detach from the abuse, go No Contact and heal yourself.

See my NARP link above for the information and help to achieve that.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1254983">The Silent Treatment</a>.</p>
<p>Hi The Silent Treatment,</p>
<p>absolutely in no way is my work gender specific. The examples I grant are for both sexes, and I am very careful to showcase that.</p>
<p>We have many wonderful men in our community working on their healing with the NARP Program <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a></p>
<p>Of course your ex is going to blame you and accuse you &#8211; it&#8217;s what narcissists do!</p>
<p>Your mission is NOT to convince her that you are NOT that person, it&#8217;s to detach from the abuse, go No Contact and heal yourself.</p>
<p>See my NARP link above for the information and help to achieve that.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: The Silent Treatment		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2021 03:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey Mel I love the article and the video.  Very informative for sure.  The problem I have with these types of articles is that the Man in the relationship seems to be the &quot;narcissist&quot;.  Not saying anything either way but if you look through all the articles and videos across all forms of media, Men seem to be the target the majority of the time.  I am currently in a very disgusting spot with my ex who wants to play the &quot;friends&quot; game 1 week and the silent treatment the next.  When I politely point out the facts, OMG I am the worst thing in the history of ever.  Please Help!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Mel I love the article and the video.  Very informative for sure.  The problem I have with these types of articles is that the Man in the relationship seems to be the &#8220;narcissist&#8221;.  Not saying anything either way but if you look through all the articles and videos across all forms of media, Men seem to be the target the majority of the time.  I am currently in a very disgusting spot with my ex who wants to play the &#8220;friends&#8221; game 1 week and the silent treatment the next.  When I politely point out the facts, OMG I am the worst thing in the history of ever.  Please Help!!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2019 02:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1164065&quot;&gt;Rachmat Salie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Rachmat,

I hope this resource of mine can help you get clear

https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-he-or-she-really-a-narcissist-laying-boundaries-and-accountability/

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1164065">Rachmat Salie</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Rachmat,</p>
<p>I hope this resource of mine can help you get clear</p>
<p><a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-he-or-she-really-a-narcissist-laying-boundaries-and-accountability/" rel="ugc">https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-he-or-she-really-a-narcissist-laying-boundaries-and-accountability/</a></p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Rachmat Salie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachmat Salie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2019 14:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1069715&quot;&gt;Mafinchen&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for helping us. But what to do if the nasrircist plea to come back and crying saying he gona change and admit he was wrong. How do I deal with it.how do I ever trust again after so much chances .]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1069715">Mafinchen</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for helping us. But what to do if the nasrircist plea to come back and crying saying he gona change and admit he was wrong. How do I deal with it.how do I ever trust again after so much chances .</p>
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		By: Rachmat Salie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachmat Salie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2019 14:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-940954&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for helping us. But what to do if the nasrircist plea to come back and crying saying he gona change and admit he was wrong. How do I deal with it.how do I ever trust again after so much chances]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-940954">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for helping us. But what to do if the nasrircist plea to come back and crying saying he gona change and admit he was wrong. How do I deal with it.how do I ever trust again after so much chances</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2019 05:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1163359&quot;&gt;Gloria Morgan&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Gloria,

It is devastating when boundaries are crossed, violated and smashed.

I wish you profound healing and uplevelling from this.

Sending you love, strength and support. You are doing an amazing job!

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-1163359">Gloria Morgan</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Gloria,</p>
<p>It is devastating when boundaries are crossed, violated and smashed.</p>
<p>I wish you profound healing and uplevelling from this.</p>
<p>Sending you love, strength and support. You are doing an amazing job!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Gloria Morgan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gloria Morgan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Apr 2019 19:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello,
I&#039;m 8 weeks post leaving the narc&#039;s abuse and almost destruction of my own life.  As he retaliated by destroying my personal property, art, heirlooms, stealing clothing, and even more personal items, he has gotten away with it all.  I have a restraining order, which he violated 9 times, and the law, courts have done nothing to him.  The judge simply extended the order for 6 months.  He continues to stalk me, and finally at an event he latched on to another victim making out in front of me.  He walked her out and returned to do the same to another.  
It did not make me jealous, it disgusted me and I was grateful it wasn&#039;t me any longer.  He has no honor and has taken money, flight miles, and as mentioned stole many items with no remorse or intent to return it.  That is the most difficult of all - to cope with that he got away with it, while replacing me with yet another victim.  This article regarding exposure has aided me greatly - I will reach inside, and when I can, I will follow your instructions.  I thank everyone and pray for everyone here in this painstaking community of Thrivers!  We will unite in power and love - most of all inner peace and growth.  Although I am still recovering - sometimes hourly - I am recovering!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello,<br />
I&#8217;m 8 weeks post leaving the narc&#8217;s abuse and almost destruction of my own life.  As he retaliated by destroying my personal property, art, heirlooms, stealing clothing, and even more personal items, he has gotten away with it all.  I have a restraining order, which he violated 9 times, and the law, courts have done nothing to him.  The judge simply extended the order for 6 months.  He continues to stalk me, and finally at an event he latched on to another victim making out in front of me.  He walked her out and returned to do the same to another.<br />
It did not make me jealous, it disgusted me and I was grateful it wasn&#8217;t me any longer.  He has no honor and has taken money, flight miles, and as mentioned stole many items with no remorse or intent to return it.  That is the most difficult of all &#8211; to cope with that he got away with it, while replacing me with yet another victim.  This article regarding exposure has aided me greatly &#8211; I will reach inside, and when I can, I will follow your instructions.  I thank everyone and pray for everyone here in this painstaking community of Thrivers!  We will unite in power and love &#8211; most of all inner peace and growth.  Although I am still recovering &#8211; sometimes hourly &#8211; I am recovering!</p>
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		By: Angela		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2019 06:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-942577&quot;&gt;Lk&lt;/a&gt;.

Just wondering if the evidence worked?  Did you send it to narc or just the family?

I am tempered to do it, just wondering what your results were...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist-without-needing-to-expose-them-or-make-them-admit-they-are-wrong/#comment-942577">Lk</a>.</p>
<p>Just wondering if the evidence worked?  Did you send it to narc or just the family?</p>
<p>I am tempered to do it, just wondering what your results were&#8230;</p>
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